ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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momma_naqi
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so far tak pernah lah gi rumah MIL sorang2....
segan + silu
segan + silu
wati
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Nottygal, please luahkan perasan kau tu. Jgn simpan. Nanti giler tau.. just find a channel to luahkan perasan. If need, just cry. It will help to make you feel better. Just think positive. Kesedihan dtg sekali sekala... happy moments with your sons mesti banyak kan... tu sebab jgn biarkan emosi gets you tau..
San, tell her nak jadi independent now is not the time. She will definitely need her mum's help. Train her toddler daughter to be with her nenek.. at least pun your fren can jaga her newborn with ease.
I'm sure everyone here goes thru depression. And i can tell you it's scary tau.. kalau tak kawal, habis tau...
San, tell her nak jadi independent now is not the time. She will definitely need her mum's help. Train her toddler daughter to be with her nenek.. at least pun your fren can jaga her newborn with ease.
I'm sure everyone here goes thru depression. And i can tell you it's scary tau.. kalau tak kawal, habis tau...
momma_naqi
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nottygal,
hidup mana yg tak ada masalah....every1 mesti ada masalah....nanti kalau da KO pun ada masalah...
kau jgn fikir banyak2 n keep it....nanti lagi worse it get.....Live is short gal....live life the fullest.....Tackle yur probs 1 by 1 ...
hidup mana yg tak ada masalah....every1 mesti ada masalah....nanti kalau da KO pun ada masalah...
kau jgn fikir banyak2 n keep it....nanti lagi worse it get.....Live is short gal....live life the fullest.....Tackle yur probs 1 by 1 ...
momma_naqi
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wati...hahahahaha
<font color="000000">Wati
honestly, i pon tak tahu baca in arab mandi hadas...*memalukan*
i cuma niat in malay bila mandi...best tu do it daily bila mandi...thats what an aunt told me...
Liz
at least ur mom inform ur sis to jot down how to mandi hadas...your mom dah buat kewajipan dia..
till now, i nvr recall my mom ever taught me this..i tahu psl mandi hadas fm frens, outsiders, magazine...</font>
honestly, i pon tak tahu baca in arab mandi hadas...*memalukan*
i cuma niat in malay bila mandi...best tu do it daily bila mandi...thats what an aunt told me...
Liz
at least ur mom inform ur sis to jot down how to mandi hadas...your mom dah buat kewajipan dia..
till now, i nvr recall my mom ever taught me this..i tahu psl mandi hadas fm frens, outsiders, magazine...</font>
mamaliz
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san...
ur frennya mil karut abis...apa yg nak tunggu laki tu cool down...sepatutnya wife dia yg kena cool down for being betrayed like this! His debts ke his probs ke tu semua dia yg carik...skarang dah jatuh ke riba ...nak kata stress....kalau i ....i jus say
"KEPALA HOTAK KAU LAH STRESS!" yang ngandung saper ...yg kena dipermainkan saper....ish...
from wat i heard...bini kalau ngandung takleh jatuhkan talak...she have to give birth first then can go tru it...kalau hubby dia dah jatuhkan masa bini dia sarat...dosa!
tell her just relax n concentrate on moving onward for her kids...the mil tu just ignore...if persistent just let her mum handle it....biar mak singa keluar baham mil dia...kekekeke
nottygal...
as mums we're are full of worries n bottle up a lot...lagi2 karenah anak anak ni kekadang kita amik hati but we stop ourselves from scolding them...so u have to find a spot to let go...
kalau tak lama lama makan diri...
ur frennya mil karut abis...apa yg nak tunggu laki tu cool down...sepatutnya wife dia yg kena cool down for being betrayed like this! His debts ke his probs ke tu semua dia yg carik...skarang dah jatuh ke riba ...nak kata stress....kalau i ....i jus say
"KEPALA HOTAK KAU LAH STRESS!" yang ngandung saper ...yg kena dipermainkan saper....ish...
from wat i heard...bini kalau ngandung takleh jatuhkan talak...she have to give birth first then can go tru it...kalau hubby dia dah jatuhkan masa bini dia sarat...dosa!
tell her just relax n concentrate on moving onward for her kids...the mil tu just ignore...if persistent just let her mum handle it....biar mak singa keluar baham mil dia...kekekeke
nottygal...
as mums we're are full of worries n bottle up a lot...lagi2 karenah anak anak ni kekadang kita amik hati but we stop ourselves from scolding them...so u have to find a spot to let go...
kalau tak lama lama makan diri...
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gal
cian & sdih baca ur plight.. tp entah like everyone else kita smua tak da experience kan.. so kita bleh try to relate with wat we had done in e past mayb? yes its not ez to jadi mak.. sbb tu ah i takut & fear as my kids grows..
san
tell ur fren apa nak segan.. she can jus pour out here if she feels like too.. n tell her to forget balik umah MIL dia.. buat bodoh, focus on her delivery 1st dats e most imp thing for her now.. dah sihat then pelan2 take action.. dont stress herself now..</font>
gal
cian & sdih baca ur plight.. tp entah like everyone else kita smua tak da experience kan.. so kita bleh try to relate with wat we had done in e past mayb? yes its not ez to jadi mak.. sbb tu ah i takut & fear as my kids grows..
san
tell ur fren apa nak segan.. she can jus pour out here if she feels like too.. n tell her to forget balik umah MIL dia.. buat bodoh, focus on her delivery 1st dats e most imp thing for her now.. dah sihat then pelan2 take action.. dont stress herself now..</font>
smalldreams
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wahseh, panjang hari ni.
pasal movement book lain, pasal baca doa mandi hadas lain, pasal spare underwear pon ada!
Wati
Doa mandi hadas, baca melayu cukup lah - Allah bukan arab ape. Asal niat ada, ok go!
pasal movement book lain, pasal baca doa mandi hadas lain, pasal spare underwear pon ada!
Wati
Doa mandi hadas, baca melayu cukup lah - Allah bukan arab ape. Asal niat ada, ok go!
wati
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Gathering ? Hmm.. will think abt it. I guess Batam trip kita postphone lagi ker ? Mcm 2 3 biji jer bleh confirm.
Sisters Gathering / Makan Session
Date : To be advise
Place : To be advise
Time : 6.30pm to 8.30pm
Smalldreams, iyer tak iyer eh... ALLAH dun mind kan i tak pandai ckp arab. Tapi niat dia aper yg you all baca ?
Sisters Gathering / Makan Session
Date : To be advise
Place : To be advise
Time : 6.30pm to 8.30pm
Smalldreams, iyer tak iyer eh... ALLAH dun mind kan i tak pandai ckp arab. Tapi niat dia aper yg you all baca ?
Anuar Zain
macam nak terbalik keyboard ku tengok name dia
not gg this time bec my mom tak nak pi
my mom wants to go see m nasir, but how kite nak pegi with my boy
takkan i go all the way to kl, then my mom tengok m nasir then i jage my boy..
this weekend we gg to pulai, yesterdai i told my mom abt it, and she says
"Pulai?? not KL???".. sigh..
Hah.. tahun ni APM kat mane?? Tu pun she must go..
macam nak terbalik keyboard ku tengok name dia
not gg this time bec my mom tak nak pi
my mom wants to go see m nasir, but how kite nak pegi with my boy
takkan i go all the way to kl, then my mom tengok m nasir then i jage my boy..
this weekend we gg to pulai, yesterdai i told my mom abt it, and she says
"Pulai?? not KL???".. sigh..
Hah.. tahun ni APM kat mane?? Tu pun she must go..
momma_naqi
Active Member
hmm pls pls correct me if i'm wrong...
Junub...after setubuh rite
then hadas besar after uzur rite??
Junub...after setubuh rite
then hadas besar after uzur rite??
wati
Active Member
Thanks Dan.. that is so helpful. Hehehe
Aku ingat mandi haid is for menses then mandi hadas besar is for after sex.. gosh..
Hmm.. I tot of taking half-day too.. tapi takut ramai yg tak nak. tapi seem like Nshah idea is great kan.
Sisters Gathering / Makan Session
Date / Day : 13th March, Friday
Place : To be advise
Time : 1.30pm to 6.00pm
Meet for high tea and then go bowling or watch movie ? Dah lama aku tak tgk movie.
Aku ingat mandi haid is for menses then mandi hadas besar is for after sex.. gosh..
Hmm.. I tot of taking half-day too.. tapi takut ramai yg tak nak. tapi seem like Nshah idea is great kan.
Sisters Gathering / Makan Session
Date / Day : 13th March, Friday
Place : To be advise
Time : 1.30pm to 6.00pm
Meet for high tea and then go bowling or watch movie ? Dah lama aku tak tgk movie.
wah banyak posts hari. so many things to learn from - thank you.
Nottygal, san
I doakan u and san's gf dapat hidayah, semangat to deal with e issues. memang susah..insyaallah ada cara
i agree v much w cik zainab say abt 'dun give up'
I see my IL tak rapat w her daughter pasal to some extent they dah give up get close to her. my FIL even declare dah 'give up'. kita jalan etc - they dun always ajak her. anyways ajak pun, she mostly tak nak. I rasa they too used to 'hand her over' to the nenek/other aunts to deal with coz 2bz working so she dun listen to them so much.aunts jaga juga, tapi nak harapkan orang lain susah coz they have own kids/issues to deal with. I myself find mil distant type. sometimes feel cam they dun care gitu & dun listen to anak2 views so how expect their adult kids listen 2 them. sik baik daughter dun get into huge trouble
Nottygal, san
I doakan u and san's gf dapat hidayah, semangat to deal with e issues. memang susah..insyaallah ada cara
i agree v much w cik zainab say abt 'dun give up'
I see my IL tak rapat w her daughter pasal to some extent they dah give up get close to her. my FIL even declare dah 'give up'. kita jalan etc - they dun always ajak her. anyways ajak pun, she mostly tak nak. I rasa they too used to 'hand her over' to the nenek/other aunts to deal with coz 2bz working so she dun listen to them so much.aunts jaga juga, tapi nak harapkan orang lain susah coz they have own kids/issues to deal with. I myself find mil distant type. sometimes feel cam they dun care gitu & dun listen to anak2 views so how expect their adult kids listen 2 them. sik baik daughter dun get into huge trouble
<font color="119911">Sisters Gathering / Makan Session
Date / Day : 13th March, Friday
Place : To be advise
Time : 1.30pm to 6.00pm
1) nshah tp pls confirm tul2 eh..
coz me friday if kaki tangan kurang my leave not APPROVED
liz ok pe bawa budak2.. bukan byr per head pe..</font>
Date / Day : 13th March, Friday
Place : To be advise
Time : 1.30pm to 6.00pm
1) nshah tp pls confirm tul2 eh..
coz me friday if kaki tangan kurang my leave not APPROVED
liz ok pe bawa budak2.. bukan byr per head pe..</font>
smalldreams
Active Member
Nshah
ignorance is bliss...hehehe...
junub, darah nifas, haid ==> all need to mandi hadas besar
pee, etc tu - amik wudhu sudah cukup, deh.
Takpe lah, if you tak tau. now u dah tau, niat lah u mandi hadas besar....
ignorance is bliss...hehehe...
junub, darah nifas, haid ==> all need to mandi hadas besar
pee, etc tu - amik wudhu sudah cukup, deh.
Takpe lah, if you tak tau. now u dah tau, niat lah u mandi hadas besar....
liz
tru lah, I tak faham some these guys. mengandung is not easy yet dorang take it cam senang aje. and expect bini2 pamper or put up with kerenah dorang.
san
I dunno why I mengandung aje - macam2 issue come out, yes finance/hutang ada, retrenchment, health issues, quarrels,kena pekik by loved ones pun ada. zikir2 banyak does help. i cuba amalkan zikir e one that says 'allah is enuf as my wakil' to remind me if I have Allah, hubby ke/parents cannot tolong insyaallah I still ok with Allah's help.
maybe can ask ur fren do e same.
'hasbinaallah wa nikmal wakil'
alhamdulilaah this time my preggy is better tho rocky start juga
tru lah, I tak faham some these guys. mengandung is not easy yet dorang take it cam senang aje. and expect bini2 pamper or put up with kerenah dorang.
san
I dunno why I mengandung aje - macam2 issue come out, yes finance/hutang ada, retrenchment, health issues, quarrels,kena pekik by loved ones pun ada. zikir2 banyak does help. i cuba amalkan zikir e one that says 'allah is enuf as my wakil' to remind me if I have Allah, hubby ke/parents cannot tolong insyaallah I still ok with Allah's help.
maybe can ask ur fren do e same.
'hasbinaallah wa nikmal wakil'
alhamdulilaah this time my preggy is better tho rocky start juga
momma_naqi
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hah aku pun on kalau amik half day
