ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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smalldreams
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Nora
tsk, i takde authority langsung. I ni semut aje kat sini. hehe.
Shahlynn
manusia ni memang suka berkomplot & berpolitiks. Apa kan daya. Just berpada-pada, jgn sampai melampau2.
tsk, i takde authority langsung. I ni semut aje kat sini. hehe.
Shahlynn
manusia ni memang suka berkomplot & berpolitiks. Apa kan daya. Just berpada-pada, jgn sampai melampau2.
momma_naqi
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Lynn,
yup....So I siang2 da cakap....Ni $200 i da use up....beli bag coach fm Nora...hehehe
Anyway kita staff are waiting for our Special Incentives ....tak tahulah dapat brapa....The previous round kita da pat 3/4 of our pay....dat was in Oct...
yup....So I siang2 da cakap....Ni $200 i da use up....beli bag coach fm Nora...hehehe
Anyway kita staff are waiting for our Special Incentives ....tak tahulah dapat brapa....The previous round kita da pat 3/4 of our pay....dat was in Oct...
smalldreams
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Nora
actually my mom ni, dia nak suruh I tukar address to my current house seh. Coz my bro is starting uni soon, and if he includes my income, my mom said he won't be eligible for subsidy. Betul ke? I tot all local malays memang dpt subsidy kalau pergi uni. Maybe I'm wrong.
actually my mom ni, dia nak suruh I tukar address to my current house seh. Coz my bro is starting uni soon, and if he includes my income, my mom said he won't be eligible for subsidy. Betul ke? I tot all local malays memang dpt subsidy kalau pergi uni. Maybe I'm wrong.
momma_naqi
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"Naqi
$200 boleh beli beg besar tau... .....ish ish ish....cobaan ....ini bukan betul2 ...tapi cobaan...
$200 boleh beli beg besar tau... .....ish ish ish....cobaan ....ini bukan betul2 ...tapi cobaan...
smalldreams
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Shahlynn
apa u bikin kat situ? tu tempat tak best ah, ada je cerita sedih. I pon heran asal kita kat atas bukit. But I'm sooo lucky coz my hub sends me here daily. Before I got married, it was my dad who's a cabby. Syukur. If not i rasa i dah quit. haha.
apa u bikin kat situ? tu tempat tak best ah, ada je cerita sedih. I pon heran asal kita kat atas bukit. But I'm sooo lucky coz my hub sends me here daily. Before I got married, it was my dad who's a cabby. Syukur. If not i rasa i dah quit. haha.
momma_naqi
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Ishh ish ishh naqi... gahman kasi duit for rainy days.. dia nak beli Coach pulak ehhh.. biasa dia..!!!...
lynn last lain kali tak beli lagi....hehehe tak beli lagi for this month
lynn last lain kali tak beli lagi....hehehe tak beli lagi for this month
smalldreams
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Nora
Ya,guess I'll write a letter to show them I'm waiting for my own flat and is staying at my MIL's place. Coz rabak jugak kalau kene pay the whole fees. Time poly pon my bro tak eligible - tapi i tak tau whether he even applied.
Ya,guess I'll write a letter to show them I'm waiting for my own flat and is staying at my MIL's place. Coz rabak jugak kalau kene pay the whole fees. Time poly pon my bro tak eligible - tapi i tak tau whether he even applied.
smalldreams
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naqi
Kira nanti March 09, quota dah bukak balik - can buy another one lah
Kira nanti March 09, quota dah bukak balik - can buy another one lah
naqi
hahhah bagus yer promise
tapi last weekend i tengok banyak kedai yg slash their prices..
Like harvey norman and challenger, big ticket items jual murah,
kalau tak org tak belik kan
For the longest time we dun have a printer at home,
last weekend bought a HP printer (can scan and photocopy also)
for $119 at challenger.
hahhah bagus yer promise
tapi last weekend i tengok banyak kedai yg slash their prices..
Like harvey norman and challenger, big ticket items jual murah,
kalau tak org tak belik kan
For the longest time we dun have a printer at home,
last weekend bought a HP printer (can scan and photocopy also)
for $119 at challenger.
smalldreams
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Actually for bags & women, memang lah ada relationship...macam tak boleh terpisah gitu.
Tapi for branded bags, I think it depends on kita punye sekeliling. Kalau kita punye peers suka branded goods, somehow kita pon terikot gitu.
For me, kat my opis, my bosses, colleagues jarang bawak LV ke, Coach ke, jadi that's how I also discourage myself from buying. Hehe. Tapi my hub's side, our close relatives are into labels. There was a point of time, I pon terikut. Then I took 2 steps backwards and decided I'll only wear/use what I'm comfortable with.
Tapi for branded bags, I think it depends on kita punye sekeliling. Kalau kita punye peers suka branded goods, somehow kita pon terikot gitu.
For me, kat my opis, my bosses, colleagues jarang bawak LV ke, Coach ke, jadi that's how I also discourage myself from buying. Hehe. Tapi my hub's side, our close relatives are into labels. There was a point of time, I pon terikut. Then I took 2 steps backwards and decided I'll only wear/use what I'm comfortable with.
smalldreams
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shahlynn
kuncu eh? haha, carik makan, babe.
Nora
Ok thanks for tips. Tapi i rasa to cut the hassle,I might as well just inform them earlier.
kuncu eh? haha, carik makan, babe.
Nora
Ok thanks for tips. Tapi i rasa to cut the hassle,I might as well just inform them earlier.
<font color="ff6000">Ladies,
I need opinions.
My gf msg me saying her hub MIA for 3 days when he was supposed to be at Bishan together with his parents and hers. He hv no guts to face all. How eh? Asking me how long she hv to face tis prob and hw long more she hv to bear his MIA?
Less than 2 weeks, she'll be delivering her baby.</font>
I need opinions.
My gf msg me saying her hub MIA for 3 days when he was supposed to be at Bishan together with his parents and hers. He hv no guts to face all. How eh? Asking me how long she hv to face tis prob and hw long more she hv to bear his MIA?
Less than 2 weeks, she'll be delivering her baby.</font>
momma_naqi
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me not really into brandname....juz grab wateva i'm confortable wiz....
BUT
for clothing wise for both Hubby n Anaqi...yup me a bit branded conscious ....coz I believe in
Ada rupa ada harga..
BUT
for clothing wise for both Hubby n Anaqi...yup me a bit branded conscious ....coz I believe in
Ada rupa ada harga..
smalldreams,
carik makan eh? hehehhe.... *whisper*gaji muai, i heard.
last Nov, we received a memo from HR. all employees earning below $2k, dapat salary review, coz we bear the brunt most from the economic downturn. last week, received another email from HR. Wage freeze coz we suffered terribly...
haiz, no thanks to people yg beli keta, den service elsewhere... we in aftersales suffers!
carik makan eh? hehehhe.... *whisper*gaji muai, i heard.
last Nov, we received a memo from HR. all employees earning below $2k, dapat salary review, coz we bear the brunt most from the economic downturn. last week, received another email from HR. Wage freeze coz we suffered terribly...
haiz, no thanks to people yg beli keta, den service elsewhere... we in aftersales suffers!
momma_naqi
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morning Dan n San
momma_naqi
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m'ing nottigal
San,
Its really heart-breaking for your friend. Actually it would be good for her to lodge a report with Mahkamah Syariah but then again looking at her situation now (going to deliver soon) - it will be quite tough for her to face reality *so sad*
Can she get someone whom her husband respects to have a good talk with him?
Its really heart-breaking for your friend. Actually it would be good for her to lodge a report with Mahkamah Syariah but then again looking at her situation now (going to deliver soon) - it will be quite tough for her to face reality *so sad*
Can she get someone whom her husband respects to have a good talk with him?
<font color="ff6000">Mira,
She can do so but how?
Her MIL has been telling her to cool down and she will talk to her son. Everyone's finding him including his camp mates and u noe wat?
He was with his mother from morning till 3pm but never tell my gf!
Itu namanya tolong selesai masalah ke?</font>
She can do so but how?
Her MIL has been telling her to cool down and she will talk to her son. Everyone's finding him including his camp mates and u noe wat?
He was with his mother from morning till 3pm but never tell my gf!
Itu namanya tolong selesai masalah ke?</font>
san,
tell her, takmo stress. painful, i noe. but tell her to accept the fact dat he's not worth it all. tell herself to be stronger for herself, and for her loved ones. her kids esp.
now, the ball is in her court. at the end of the day, she only has herself to report to. not anyone else. the key is in her hand whether she wants to brood over this, or rise triumphant. be strong. she can do it if she wants to. Mind over matter, babe. tell her, she deserves to be happy. she owe it to herself.
if he wants to come back, he will... braper lama dia nak menghilang?
tell her, takmo stress. painful, i noe. but tell her to accept the fact dat he's not worth it all. tell herself to be stronger for herself, and for her loved ones. her kids esp.
now, the ball is in her court. at the end of the day, she only has herself to report to. not anyone else. the key is in her hand whether she wants to brood over this, or rise triumphant. be strong. she can do it if she wants to. Mind over matter, babe. tell her, she deserves to be happy. she owe it to herself.
if he wants to come back, he will... braper lama dia nak menghilang?
san
to me he dun come back.. so whet - good riddance to bad rubbish
of cos dia takde muke nak berdepan, all hands on teh table, no more sembunyi sembunyi
tell ur fren dah lupe kan ajer.. if he comes back what good does she expect to come from it..
just treat him as good as dead.. my POV
Morning nottygal......
to me he dun come back.. so whet - good riddance to bad rubbish
of cos dia takde muke nak berdepan, all hands on teh table, no more sembunyi sembunyi
tell ur fren dah lupe kan ajer.. if he comes back what good does she expect to come from it..
just treat him as good as dead.. my POV
Morning nottygal......
smalldreams
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Morning San
Dah bis $2 breakfast? Sorry...I can't have much advice for your gf, tapi if she has good family support for now, would she be able to go thru the birth first, and deal with the issues later when she's better? Kalau sekarang nak huru hara pon, it'll be at the expense of her own health & baby.
Nottygal
Morning
Shahlynn
Muai? OK lah, syukur je. Tapi now very performance based. So if tak do well, increment pon not much. I'm expecting a paycut also coz economy not doing well, and our salaries are tied to the gdp. What to do, one for all & all for one
Dah bis $2 breakfast? Sorry...I can't have much advice for your gf, tapi if she has good family support for now, would she be able to go thru the birth first, and deal with the issues later when she's better? Kalau sekarang nak huru hara pon, it'll be at the expense of her own health & baby.
Nottygal
Morning
Shahlynn
Muai? OK lah, syukur je. Tapi now very performance based. So if tak do well, increment pon not much. I'm expecting a paycut also coz economy not doing well, and our salaries are tied to the gdp. What to do, one for all & all for one
san,
if she report, she has to pay court fees or watsoever... but nampak sgt he salah, takkan nak diamkan?
she can still claim maintenance, per!
easy, tell ur fren to call mahkamah syariah herself. at least she get the clearer picture & aware of wats in for her. ada interview & counselling too.
sorry, i dunno much... just wat i gather from frens...
if she report, she has to pay court fees or watsoever... but nampak sgt he salah, takkan nak diamkan?
she can still claim maintenance, per!
easy, tell ur fren to call mahkamah syariah herself. at least she get the clearer picture & aware of wats in for her. ada interview & counselling too.
sorry, i dunno much... just wat i gather from frens...
San,
Its not true. Yes she may be the one initiating the separation but what is the reason for her to do so. If he had been a good husband she does not have to resort to taking such action, right?
Its best if your friend can get a lawyer to represent her since she has evidence from PI. But have to be prepared to pay quite a sum though.
Its not true. Yes she may be the one initiating the separation but what is the reason for her to do so. If he had been a good husband she does not have to resort to taking such action, right?
Its best if your friend can get a lawyer to represent her since she has evidence from PI. But have to be prepared to pay quite a sum though.
momma_naqi
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San,
Wat Nora said it's true...the hubby is as good as dead....Juz report....for all this while pun yur gf has been standing on her own feet....so wif or w/o him she can still pull thru....
Jus get her to concentrate on her delivery dat is the most important thing to do now.....
Wat Nora said it's true...the hubby is as good as dead....Juz report....for all this while pun yur gf has been standing on her own feet....so wif or w/o him she can still pull thru....
Jus get her to concentrate on her delivery dat is the most important thing to do now.....
Nora,
If he can't afford to pay maintenance for the kids the court can request for direct payment from his salary to be deducted for this purpose.
FYI - my sister has been through this process before so somehow or other I am able to give a reasonable advise (itu pun if my memory doesn't fail me)
If he can't afford to pay maintenance for the kids the court can request for direct payment from his salary to be deducted for this purpose.
FYI - my sister has been through this process before so somehow or other I am able to give a reasonable advise (itu pun if my memory doesn't fail me)
<font color="ff6000">Cik Nab / Nora / Shahlynn,
I feel that too. As MIL yg so called keep telling her to cool down and will talk to her son -- takkan anak bawah ketiak pon tk nk bilang when everyone's finding him. Itu bukan tolong tapi menyembunyikan!
Actually, her MIL knew abt his 3rd party but keep my gf in e dark bt dun expect it to be till to e extend where all's involved. Alasan yg diberi, my gf tk nk tolong her hub tat lead him to work as a MacD delivery cum having an affair for sumone who cn help him financially. I duno...byk belitan dlm story MIL dia terhadap my gf.
Kejap positive...kejap negative.
Smalldreams,
Alhmdllh. Dah habis pon breakfast I. Semalam tak makan dinner, hence dropping by Macd.
E prob lies with her hub and in laws cos nak tarik balik apa yg dia lafaz gara-gara kemarahan. She cnt b bothered too much bt looking at her upcoming newborn bb, she feel different.</font>
I feel that too. As MIL yg so called keep telling her to cool down and will talk to her son -- takkan anak bawah ketiak pon tk nk bilang when everyone's finding him. Itu bukan tolong tapi menyembunyikan!
Actually, her MIL knew abt his 3rd party but keep my gf in e dark bt dun expect it to be till to e extend where all's involved. Alasan yg diberi, my gf tk nk tolong her hub tat lead him to work as a MacD delivery cum having an affair for sumone who cn help him financially. I duno...byk belitan dlm story MIL dia terhadap my gf.
Kejap positive...kejap negative.
Smalldreams,
Alhmdllh. Dah habis pon breakfast I. Semalam tak makan dinner, hence dropping by Macd.
E prob lies with her hub and in laws cos nak tarik balik apa yg dia lafaz gara-gara kemarahan. She cnt b bothered too much bt looking at her upcoming newborn bb, she feel different.</font>