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<font color="ff6000">Dan,
Plaing cepat &amp; mudah --- SMS...hehe!

smalldreams,
Her parents have been very supportive. Imagine, hiring P.I etc...costing them a bomb months ago. And now, the same story rake up cos outsider saw her hub fetching that gal from the pub. And since they are a long time friend since SAF, he persuade her to call up no matter what it takes cos he find that his friend has been very unfaithful all this while. Tergamak juga dia buat my gf yg bakal bersalin in less than 2 weeks.

Do u guys believe if I were to say all her gynae check up and hosp bed being paid by her alone?</font>
 


<font color="119911">san
i jus hope ur gf will tabah eh.. &amp; im sure she def can survive w/o ada laki ard.. ada or tak da dont make a diff kan..

i tink mostly smua akan dapt $200 kan? unless ur house smaller more lah..??</font>
 
San

With supportive parents Insya'Allah ur fren and her kids will pull thru.

Bagos jugak her hati dah tawar kalau the hb was just making use of her..

Kalau that Gal nak sangat dgn dia..hah ambiklah.. jgn lupe ade balasan yer nanti.
 
i should be getting 400. things like these make us hold back our plans to upgrade to 5room. heheh

San,
I'm not suprised.
for now, i think let her cry all the wants, let it out of her chest. and wen its all over, a few years down the road, she'll be the one having the last laugh, she'll see how strong he has been.
 
san
It hurts kan - dah sarat2 gitu, suami buat hal. Grrr.

With regard to medical check up, hosp bed paid by her alone, I believe. Coz I also paid everything on my own when I gave birth. Think hubby paid a few times during my gynae check ups, but other than that, all I paid. I even paid for the hubby's share when he stayed overnight to accompany me! I guess I had the means, so I didn't mind paying.
 
nora,
true true true... wat goes around comes around..
dat gal nak sangat shoulder san's gf's liability la... amik ah! lainlah kalau asset.
 
<font color="ff6000">Nora / Nshahi / Shahlynn,
Insya'allah. Moga diberkati...amin...

Cuma I find tat what the gal berbual karut dgn my gf when she mentioned via conference call, "Being a scandal is a small issue. It happened everywhere..."
Mcm cheapo gitukan?</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">smalldreams,
Kalau sang suami tak buat hal tkpe sis. Sesama pikul beban tapi ini disebaliknya. Sebab itu her mom strictly told her to scan all the bills she has been paying and show to her counsellor for her rights to get her children in hand.</font>
 
""Being a scandal is a small issue. It happened everywhere..."
Mcm cheapo gitukan?...hah tengoklah nanti dia da kawin then hubby dia buat kat dia..how she feel...
this kinda gal should be shot dead.....
 
Nora,

Sekarang dah tone down sikit - having a slow talk, hopefully no more bull fights here.

San,

How come in the first place she is willing to pay everything. So lama2 dah used to it she has to foot all the bills. I feel that is not fair, my hubby tells me that his Ustaz ever mentioned to them "kalau suami mampu si-isteri harus di-buat seperti tuan puteri yang tak harus buat kerja langsung, gajikan pembantu untuk isteri".

But of course, in this modern times most wives prefer to work and help out in a way or another voluntarily.

Just my point of view !!
 
<font color="ff6000">Naqi/Shahlynn,
Kalau tak ada didunia nie pon lebih baik. This kinds pple shldnt exist. Shoot me if am wrong cos this is how I feel. I ada abang yg perangai serupa mcm my gf. I reali hate him!


Sistas,
My gf baru beli rumah at Bishan. Mthly abt 1k+. She contributed 900+ wile her hub contributed 200+ sebab he oso contribute some cpf to his mom's exec house. Can she take out his name if say mlm ini dijatuhkan talak?</font>
 
San,

Its good of her to keep the receipt of ALL she has paid for, that will be good proof to the courts.

For cases like these surely the custody of children will go to her.

Let's all doa for her, semoga dia tabah menghadapi segala dugaan dan selamat melahirkan Insya Allah !
 
San,

She cannot simply remove his name. From what I know they have to sell the house and Syariah court will distribute accordingly.

Another alternative - she can buy over from him provided he agrees to sell to her and recover the payments made from his CPF account.
 
san,
HDB will decide wat to do with the house. But she has the option
1 - they have to sell the house and divide by 2.
2 - she has to pay him back every single cent of his money dat went towards the purchase of the flat, if she want to keep the house.

my flat, fully paid by me. coz i taknak touch my hubby's CPF yg tak seberapa at dat time. But, should we have to sell, he will still get a share of the flat.
 
<font color="119911">s.lynn
shld b $400? dah dpt surat lum?? if dah dpt then confirm ah.. bt $400 for march alone? meaning for this yr akan dpt $800? bestnya.. for us cuma $400 ttl je for 2009..

smalldreams
wow untung seh.. then ur parents dpt sama ke? $40?</font>
 
Shahlynn,

Its up to the Syariah court to decide on the distribution amount. The HDB will have to comply with the court ruling.

Hopefully the Syariah court will grant her a bigger portion since she is supporting herself and her children even though at times the Syariah court distributes unfairly.
 
<font color="ff6000">Cik Nab,
Previously tk mcm gini cos all's under cover till one day rumours has been spreading. He cnt hv any M1, Singtel or Starhub lines due to his late payments etc. Now on prepaid. He's been with tis gal for 3 years. 1st caught red handed was at Jln Kayu @3am wen my gf's bro saw and captured via video but he denied tat's him. Fine, my gf kasi muka...den a gal kip koling every day aft 12 midnite and caci my gf cemburu buta. Confronted but her hub said, perempuan gila salah kol agaknya. Late last year, rumours semakin ketat tat lead her fanmily to hire P.I. Never caught red handed tapi ada bahan bukti yg kukuh. He finally admitted. Trying hard to convince and win their trust back in Dec by bringing the whole Bishan family to KL/Genting and now...the recent story is another shit she hv to go tru.

I cnt stand dis kinda pple. Kenapa my gf hv to go tru during her pregnancy and worst, in less than 2 weeks she'll be giving birth.

She only started to pay all when her hub main kayu tiga. Even helped him to pay his CC cos she tot he'll change for good but she was wrong. No more turning back for now. Apa yg dia takut --- dijatuhkan talak depan perempuan itu.</font>
 
Alamak, the war is going to start again.

Before it explodes I am going to pack my stuff.

Take care ladies, and enjoy your lunch
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Nora,

Am going to dash out soon.

San,

I really pity your friend. Memang JANTAN macam gini tak akan berubah and will deny everthing even if you proof. Also they will not change their bad behaviour so its better for her to find means to settle the problem once and for all after her delivery.

Take care all, I am logging off. Kalau sempat I will log in from home if Fayaa doesnt disturb me ok ~~
 
san,
tell ur gf, since she dah expected the talak, hope she'll take it easy. and for the girl, just smile, and say, 'now u can have my liability!'
 
nshahi,
baru sampai...i order pun for my colleagues bukan for me....10 kali aku suruh diorang fax menu...10 kali jugak diorang tak fax...geram betul..
 
<font color="119911">naqi
did u spoke to mr ban himself?
gue tgh bingit ni lunch lum sampai confirm e stupid delivery forget my meals agaian seh.. skit hari dorang lambat sbb lupa bleh gitu? dah tu ni call cam nak rak tak nak angkat!!!</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Just collected my nasi tomato from Mr Ban's. Today delivery from another guy. That's y lambat.

Naqi,
If u want e menu, I cn email u now.
Can send me your email add?</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Ladies,
That's partly e reason y I've been talking to her now and den to make sure she wun feel depressed in some ways. I've told her to query fr HDB in such cases at least she noe what's happening.

It'll be good if she can get the house all by herself since she can afford. Rumah yg dibeli baru sebulan duduk. *sigh*</font>
 
<font color="119911">san
ur building belakang, mine depan.. how come i lum dpt? n ive got 15packs with me leh.. menaikkan darah seh aku dah kebulur ni.. my collgs all tgh kelaparan..its nearly 1pm &amp; my lunch time is UP..!!!!</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,

Tadi he told me he tried to call you bt no one ans his calls so he placed it at the reception.
Not sure level 1 or your reception.

Check out.</font>
 
<font color="119911">san
nasib baiklah ada forum ni lau tak aku MATI kebulur seh.. &amp; how come they didnt called me? even e reception didnt informed me!!! k skg ku nak makan dulu</font>
 
i am not kidding u gerls but its pouring in ORchard Road

I went to HMV bawak sungalsses lagi then nak balik ofis tengok kat luar hujan LEBAT sekali...

Tunggu punyer tunggu at last belik payung kat 7-11...
 
<font color="119911">NAw
ujan? bestnya.. rahmat u. despite of the hot, hazy weather..
crocs sale how? gd?</font>
 

nshah
no good lah the crocs sale.. so limited stocks

I ended up buying 3 pairs of shoes that day. Not from crocs tho.
Ni kasut baru ku dah basah pasal hujan tadi..
 
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