ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?


San,

Yes, it taste good. Last Friday pegi NTUC nampak blueberries on offer - 2 small packs for $4.75 so my girl asked me to make muffins.

Betul, macam perang - the wife with extra loud voice keeps nagging and shouting at my boss - a very quiet man who just kept mumbling - bingit sey..........
 
Nora,

Nak pekakkan pun tak boleh - my workstation just next to his room and his wife keep asking me for this and that - the hubby's cheque payments - I am being forced to give her the info she needs. Haizzzzz
 
<font color="ff6000">Cik Nab,
Hope you wun feel too much of pressure by her.

Ladies,
A gf of mine who's 8 months+ preggy having the same prob. Due early next month. Her hub masih tak serik-serik!
She's crying her heart out. I really pity her.</font>
 
San,

Same problem ??

Try talking to her to calm her down, kesian dia. Kalau dah 8+ months that means very soon will deliver. Just tell her to think of the baby.
 
<font color="ff6000">Cik Nab,
I've been msn'g her since 815am and she called me at 830am to let her woes out. I reali feel for her. She asked her hub with conference call on with the 3rd party. "Kalau diberi peluang lagi, siapa u akan pilih?" W/o hesitation, her hub mentioned --- that gal!!!

And this gal said, her hub yg terhegeh-hegeh kat dia and being his scandal is a small issue. My gf cried after hearing all esp upon noeing her hub will take leave or off during the gal's off day. Today, his family will come down to Bishan to settle about this issue.
Tawakal and berserah.


Naqi,
I received last Sat.</font>
 
naqi
tu lah i didnt realise alice kat "outlet" section on the webbie.
ingat dah takde lagi.. but its not suede alice tau
I just bought the suede alice last 2 weekends, rugi..

GST, yep got the letter already..
 
San

kalau the hb dah cakap cam gitu, nak tunggu ape lagi..

pity her.. but she has to go thru it
tak untung kite nak keep on begging for a man's love..
 
San

i have a cousing yg sifat yer cam gitu, suke simpan spare

time first wife, cerai and kawin with the then gf..
shortly after that banyak lagi gf dia pasang...
menyusahkan orang aje nak bela anak dia sana sini

both times the wives and parents did so many things to make him ingat family dia..
tapi habok pun tarak
 
<font color="ff6000">Nora,
Tadi pagi her hub tarik balik cos he said smlm tgh marah but my gf tak kasi chance. After all the qns asked and told her that he oni comes home due to his doter...my gf sudah tawar hati. Tis is not the first...entah dah brapa kali gaknya.
Tis guy tk kenal untung fyi.
Kalau tk kerana my gf, he'll declared bankrupt by now. Just bcos that gal cn give him pleasure and some $$$, kononnya terhutang budi.

I wonder, how is she going to cope with her preg, labour and kids in future if let say tiada jodoh lagi.</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Yang hairannya, not only us noe his shit. Orang yg dah ORD bertahun tahun pun tahu kisah. Sampai he told my gf to kol e gal personally yesterday.</font>
 
<font color="ff0000">San

Car bat dah change on saturday
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Dah 1 mth exactly keta tu tak wash...berkerak
Then washed car wif my boys
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<font color="ff6000">Dan,

That's a gd news!
So it's due to the batt I supposed. Mahal tak?

Eh, cute lah...cuci kreta with ur boys...</font>
 
i juz came out from my Senior Manager Room...
very pissed off...so dun wanna keep it anymore I juz told him wateva I feel ..

Last Sat...
Went to the canteen to haf my breakfast....from 8.40-9.05....On the way back from the canteen,my gal got the cheek to sms me..."Senior Manager angry coz no 1 in the office...Pls come back asap"....I was like huh once in a blue moom gi canteen n I get this kinda remarks...so ok i thought ada banyak flt bookings....so first thing I stepped in n checked the portal...cett....0 bookings....so ok never mind I maintained je...

This morning huh dat gal came into the office at 0920...so apa lagi I masuk bilik boss n ask himizzit fair??...skali u ladies know wat....my Senior Manager said dia tak look for me pun on Sat n dat gal was practically creating stories.....huh apa saja..
 
<font color="ff6000">Dan,
Cheap liao...Alhmdllh, that's so nice of ur neighbour. Nwdys susah nak dapat jiran tetangga yg baik hati.

Naqi,
Lumrah tapi mmng tk baik tau dia buat u camtu...</font>
 
nora,
yup dat is y...when I ada new staff n I\m supposed to conduct training...I dun actually teach them 100%...I will def keep 5%...Not being selfish but is yur own rice bowl....

Dan,
Biasa lah diorang budak2 muda yg baru masul slalu treat us as their competitor ..but I buat bodoh je...Guess My Senior Manager knows me very well....
 
san,
part n parcel of a working life n dear...n I believe in Karma....n true enuff

Yesterday we haf an urgent flt which was handled by her....Another department tried to called her several times but she did not ans...till she was labelled as ..."wah u whole day sleep...never rtn call"....so boss called her first thing in the morning and reprimanded her....
I was telling my colleague...."see wat goes around comes around....Now boss look for her not me..."
 
San,

Pity your friend. Its true as what Nora says, its no point begging from him when actually he is depending on her.

She has to find a way out and think of the future for herself and the kids. If the man has no heart for his family, memang dah tak guna lagi *to what I feel* Of course its easier said than done.

Mas,

Apa ajer, dia jealous of you or what??

Seperti kata orang tua - banyak udang banyak garam ramai orang bermacam ragam ........
 
<font color="119911">morning smua..
my morning so damn packed seh with courier, non stop.. requests org lain, emails lain.. n baru je habis review dgn boss.. we r jus hoping we can cope well insyallah..

naqi
sorry kena call me direct at mobile eh.. hehe
anyway abt dat gal buat bodoh sua.. jus tell ur superior.. im sure u will b fine dear..

san
so how dah minum kopi tu?

duit gst..
skg hub tak dpt extra $100 eh? i tght they used to get extra $100 kan if they r still NS active?

V's day or wkd..
wat u all do? i was at home, masak tuna spaghetti, fish &amp; chips, DIY mashed potato malam masak chicken cutlet plak n ard 6pm pi slow jog &amp; lite exercise, skg badan sengal2 bt later insyallah nak pi jog lagi if terlarat
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sun, pi vivo.. </font>
 
Cik Nab,
biasalah...ni newcomers slalu nak cepat naik...so kira nak "angkat" boss.....but theyhaf to prove to the management....ni keje banyak je nangis....pressure....ishhh
betul lagi big the organisation lagi banyak rewel..
 
<font color="ff6000">Cik Nab,
I'm trying to get her on the wheel. No point crying over him. Hope she feels better.

Nshahi,
Blom try but I brought the whole pack today at work. Will try later afternoon during my tea break. Hehehe...
As for my wknds...I did some simple cooking. Suppose ada jemputan at Aljunied but have to cancel cos hub's fren need him to standby by 1030am; being a driver for 4 hours. Earning $100 extra yesterday. Alhmdllh.</font>
 
<font color="119911">naqi
Oh camtu eh? entah tght hub dpt lebih hehe ingat nak ngecek sekali sama dah.. so tu ah nak tanya je.. sorry if sound rude hor.. byk sgt benda atas meja daku ni.. piles of kotak &amp; papers seh.. haiz..</font>
 
San,
setiap kali i dgr criter pasal ur gf, i shivers.
tell her to sabar, sabar, sabar... since now she preggy, the best time to ask Allah (i believe she malay) for guidance. 'Talk' to Him. Insya Allah, He will tunjuk dgn cepat. just like wat I did. I got my answer in 2weeks.


Nshah,
banyak nah kamu masak? ada open house eh?

yesterday I made pesto pasta with Basil shrimp...
makan for brunch-supper...
 
<font color="ff6000">Shahlynn,
Kalau u shiver, I pon sama. Yelah, nasib kwn kita sekarang mcm gini...apa pula kita in future?
We cnt tell or read their mind. I guess, she's been praying hard till the ans which she's been yearning to noe came out yesterday from e gal's and hub's mouth.

Her mom cant take it anymore cos as a mother, she feel it long time ago cos according to her doter, she still loves him till yesterday.

I hanya dapat menolong yg mana I mampu. Reali hope she'll pull tru.</font>
 
<font color="ff0000">Nshah..masak byk nye lepas tu ptg jog eh hehehe

Duit Gst
My hero tanya abt these brapa dia dapat...ingat dia tak tau
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Dan,
tell ur hero, "barang siapa dok kat Dubai sewaktu duit GST diagihkan, maka duit2 itu akan terus jatuh kepada isterinya." hahahha

San,
i understand. tell her, love can only bring her so far, if there's no commitment.
Insya Allah, she'll pull thru without him. Have faith
 
<font color="119911">S.lynn
alah dgr je byk tp quantity nya skit.. yg fish &amp; chips masak coz of irfan yg nak.. so he yg makan tu lah.. yg spaghetti &amp; chicken cutlet utk papa &amp; mama dia ehhe jgn ah begitu.. sekali sekala seh ku masak..

dan
alah nampak je byk tp bila dah bentang atas meja cam skit je.. a'ahlah dah makan minyak2 mesti nak kena maintain beb.. lagipun ku sedar ku dah gemok so must do smtg lah..

malam ni if tak penat ingat nak goreng je belen spaghettu tu hehe..</font>
 
nshah,
hahaha... u tak masak, tak masak, skali masak, hah kau!
no lah, me normally masak 1 type ajer. if kita nak nasi goreng, and mika nak fish &amp; chips, it'll be fish &amp; chips for all.
lecehlah, coz nanti dah buatkan mika fish &amp; chips, dia nampak kita punya, dia taknak his, nak ours plak!
 
<font color="ff6000">Shahlynn,
Insya'allah...I believe, she can managed well even aft her hub no longer in their life. Selama ini pon, mthly instllmnt for car...ins...road tax, petrol, groceries and doter's necessities -- my gf yang tanggung. Alasan sang suami, "I hv to pay my CC etc.."

Bila nk kena declare bankrupt, cari isteri. Bab kerja yg tak patut dibuat, isteri tolak ketepi. So i guess, trip KL/Genting 2008 kononnya nk hambat balik hati isteri &amp; mertua hanya sekadar pura-pura sebab ins/road tax dah nak dekat...

W'alam...</font>
 
San,

Untung jadi suami without responsibilities. Kalau gitu baik tak ada suami since she can handle everything by herself. Maybe she'll end up happier, who knows.
 
<font color="ff6000">Shahlynn / Cik Nab,

Strongly agreed! Even she cn buy Gucci, LVs and Prada w/o havins her hub to spare her some $$$. Kalau dia boleh, y not?
She'll end up being a happy mommy/person near future.

Will be receiving $200 extra comes 1st March.
You ladies?

Naqi,
Berderet menu eh?
Tolak ckit ke Tampines St 44?
=p</font>
 
San
So sad to read abt yr friend's plight. But if she's independent, i guess there shud be no problem financially. Cuma kesian budak2 kecik kehilangan bapa. Many children with problematic behaviour come from broken homes. It's really very sad. Fathers are supposed to be role models, tapi entah lah kenapa bapa2 melayu kita ramai yang macam ni.
 



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