Lina,
Because my mother pass away last year 21 Feb 2008. My brother said cannot eat reuion dinner for at least one year. Pan tang.
This is my "regret" in 2008. I cannot attend the furneral cos I still on confinement. I give birth my BB at 12 Feb and my mother pass away 21 Feb 2008.
Cik Nab,
That way loh. My husband not want to celebrate any of their birthday.
But last Saturaday, I brought two small cake, one for Sahidah and other one for Nabawiiyah. I brought simple watch for them...
Next will have to spend money for my first son Waafir Bday.
Nora,
She didn't mention but before her bday. she alright ask her father to buy a slipper and a T-shirt from converse.
Last year my niece. 21 bday, I brought her one Coach Purse(share with my the other sister).My elder one saw. she said I treat my niece better than my own children. so she want one for hr bday. and I told her wait till you 21 bday...then she told me she want a coach bag. must be something bigger than what I buy from my niece. See lah...
mira...nx time must set budget...for my kids i make it clear....each child only get like $50 budget for a present....so my kids tak cakap i tak adil...hihihi
My elder girl even ask me to buy one sch bag which cost S$200 plus when she is Sec 1. I didn't buy cos too expensive. Then she is quite angry with me. That why i beleive during sch time their gang of firends are very important. easily been influence.
Lina, For handphone. I'm strict. My child will not have handphone in Pri Sch. They only can get after their PSLE result and must meet my target. for my elder girl target is PSLE score 240. My second girl is as long as she go to express class in Secondary. This year my third girl having PSLE, her target score is 220.