ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

Momma naqi

eh at least yr son dah boleh cakap banyak jugak. He's not 18 mths yet kan? My son lagi, already 18 mths but - he can only say mamam, ayah, Ti (short for MRT/ thomas train) . he can shake / nod his head too. Lagi sikit! But he understands a lot of things, and amuse us by the day.

Physically, walked at 11 mths when his "uncle" who was 2 mths older only walked at 16 mths

So, all kids progress differently. THis is one thing I'm not worried about - boys also start talking later than girls. Jadi jangan risau lah. Nanti tiba2 je Anaqi will shooot, terus u yang tak leh stop bobal dgn dia eheh
 


Nora

I learnt from my colleague - Podah is for males. Podih is for girls, hehe.

Momma_naqi
Well at least u tried. I don't have a single flashcard for Adam. Ok, maybe the black,red & white one time kecik, lepas tu benda tu dah bersepah adam buat gigit2 & campak2. ehhe.

Learning must be made fun. We do coz we understand what we're doing, and not just semata-mata nak ikot orang. Kalau anaqi dah bored, let it go. Kalau paksa, takut pulak he'll think learning is so stifling - kena paksa baca.

And at least he eats. I think adam only enjoys eating when ada teman (cousins at my IL's place). Kalau kat rumah, i'll count myself lucky if he can eat half a bowl of rice.
 
smalldreams
my boy pun.. cards tu sume sepah sepah and koyak... mak dia dah malas ikat getah simpan
tamat siaran..

Pordah doesnt mean "jalan dah" ????
 
<font color="119911">abt boys talking kan
nak tau tak wat i did to him wen hes 1yr old n still no signs of talking at all.. tepuk mulut dia dgn sirih.. every fri we did this for like 5-8tims tau.. n lelagi dulu dia kuat nonyot, puting.. so we threw his ating away.. n make him talk with us.. so much so alhamdulilah he can speak well tp his words smtimes not as clear as the adik girl.. yg girl tu aku tak ya tepok sirih mulut dah cam mak nenek lau aku tepuk entah apa nak jadi. she can start talking at e age of 10mths.. simple2 ah.. walking ah lambat skt ard 1yr plus.. sal dia berat... so to compare e achievements of my kids my girl picks up faster way too faster thane abg..</font>
 
<font color="ff0000">Anyone of yr kids left-handed??

My 2nd son Raiyan 3yrs old kidal aah....
Main guitar, tulis n makan pon kidal but he prefer to use spoon to eat...pembersih hehehe..</font>
 
Mummies,

Jangan risaukan hal anak - let them grow naturally - of course its good if we guide and teach them at a young age but don't overdo it.

One thing is, you have to always talk to them. Tiba2 nanti bila dia dah pandai cakap you all yang penat tak terlayan.
 
<font color="119911">Dan
kkdgi notice my girl suka2 hati dia je.. kkdg kidal, kkdg kanan so both she can.. dulu masa kecik more on left now dah trained on rite so she ok for both hand..

cik zai
hah btul.. btul.. btul.. byk btul.. haiz.. kkdg tak da answer utk nak jawab pertanyaan dorang tau.. n kkdg sampai me ckp mama penat ah nak jawab tak jawab bleh tak? lengkali je eh?? hehe</font>
 
smalldreams,
true...learning muz be made fun..kalau tak diorang get bored easily.........n true I rasa gals lagi cepat fm boys...saber je noh
 
<font color="ff0000">nshah/Cik Zai

Betul betul betul
If they ask question and bila we dah answer, they still ask us WHY????
Dah jawab
....WHY lagi
WHY Lagi?
Bila nak game dah..</font>
 
Cik Zai,
true true true...

My son berbual tak stop... i pernah tanya dia, mika tak penat eh berbual? mama dgr, taik telinga mama bleh cair tau!!

my mom said, dulu budak tu blom pandai berbual, asyik2 tanya, bila nak berbual, apsal blom pandai berbual.... now dia dah pandai berbual, kau layan la dia!


nshahi,
my MIL suruh i tepuk mulut mika ngan surat - petua org dulu2... i tak buat pun... coz the only surat dlm rumah skrg, are bills!
and i takyah buat, dia bleh pandai berbual, so much so dat i told my MIL, mak bapaknyer yg kena tepuk ngan surat, to catch up with mika's petah.
 
<font color="000000">I always tell my kids, i dont expect you all to do so well..as long you all pass ibu da happy..but dont take my statement for granted ok..jgn malu kan ibu ehh pada keluarga ayah..

Next year dah PSLE..i worry so much for my eldest boy..</font>
 
Apsal orang tu jahat, polis tangkap?

Apsal kalau main playground nanti kena HFMD?

Apsal kalau tak makan sayur nanti tak kuat?

Apsal crane mesti ada outrigger?

Apsal? Apsal? Apsal?


Korang nak jawap macam mana? If he asks the same questions over 5times in a day?

U tak jawap, he'll say,
"Apsal tak jawap? Nanti Allah marah tau! very rude! "
 
<font color="ff0000">Nottygal

STRESS STRESS STRESS
Ibunya yg stress...
happy.gif
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Nottygal

there's still time, so just guide him consistently. insya-Allah should be ok.

Nshah

The sirih part, one of the maids who live in my block pernah cakap with me to do that to Adam to make him talk faster. But I rasa macam seram gitu seh. Ada ke scientific evidence yang nyatakan sirih boleh buat budak tu bobal cepat? Lagipon it just doesn't gel with my beliefs. I'd rather let Adam progress naturally drp expose him to sirih ni sumer. hehehe.
 
smalldreams

dats petua orang dulu2...
tepuk mulut wif sirih or surat.
if its really true, i'd rather tepuk mulut my son with dictionary or encyclopedia!
 
hahaha!!! u tepuk lightly la... kat bibir jer...

tapi if i kompang skali muka dia, agak2 bleh terus pandai tak? hahahaha
evil seh mak!
 
But i know last time my maid ade tepuk my nephew face with surat to speed up the speech thing

Tak tau lah work ke tak but my nephew tu gi k1 baru can say his words clearly
 
I'm just reading your entries.. anak aku masih kecik lagi.. so i will go through all these soon.

Now Maya is in a copy cat mode. Ape kita buat and ckp.. sumer dia copy...
 
<font color="000000">smalldreams
Thanks....

Dan
Yelahh..not easy lahh for me next year..P6,P2 &amp; P1..homework berbakul punya..but normally, i just let them do by themselves and check thru aft they finished it. Try not to get involved too much coz i am not a good coach and too ringan tangan lahh..nnt dah terlepas baru nak menyesal..kan dah tak guna..</font>
 
nottygal
i dengar je dah stress.. mcm mane eh...

sekarang punye sekolah nak ajar pun kite dah outated.
Its not the same things yg kite go thru dulu. methods all lain.
 
i saw my sista's GCE O Level English paper..
*faints*
they (MOE) really emphasize on creative writing &amp; thinking out of the box! Totally different from wat I went thru...

I cant help but think dat watever i've learnt in skool back then is sooo redundant, compared to wat they covering now in skool..
 
<font color="119911">smalldreams
well whether it works or not act kena tawakal jelah coz kita dat time very risau tau.. so thus i jus do dat &amp; selawat &amp; tawakkal bbyk.. well up to each opinions lah.. </font>
 
<font color="ff0000">My nephew P2....was given homework on June holiday...SUDOKU
Ku tak pernah play dat game
After dat day try to help baru ku addicted jap..</font>
 
Ladies, i dah arrange for my mum 50th Birthday for her to go to Suri Spa &amp; Salon. Quite reasonable their package.. Dorang pun will give a birthday card to her... For about 5hr pampering session, cost about $120 after 22% discount. Ok kan ?
 
<font color="119911">wati
5hrs for only $120 eh... eh murahnya..
best seh.. tu implies to all umur ke? hehe
wat will ur mum get eh?</font>
 
Dan,

I went to her place to urut last nite - dia kat Bedok South bukan Bedok North.

She say my urat2 terturun so dia sengkak - hopefully will help.

Thanks for asking!
 
<font color="119911">wah cik zai
so u feel btr &amp; refresh aft urut? mesti best kan
my badan ni dah cam masuk angin seh.. haiz..
anyway berapa eh cik zai byr? tak da kang besok ku buat kerja sot pi urut time lunch time hehe</font>
 
Dan,

Since my hubby free semalam dia suruh make appointment - Kak Maznah free so pegi immediately.

Ok alhamdulillah - $30 if go to her place.
 
Ladies,

Actually I also have "frozen shoulders" meaning movements in my right arm/shoulder is restricted.
Problem in buckling up the bra *Susah betul*

She also helped me to urut my arms and I might go again next week.

Dia boleh pegi rumah you pun!
 
<font color="ff0000">Last when she urut me n mom
She charge $40 and mom $20 to $30 lupa lak...
If 2 to 3 ppl urut together she might giving u discount...
mayb sorang $50.00 kot</font>
 
<font color="119911">cik zai..
hmm ive got that problems lama dah.. tp buat dak je.. hmm $30 bleh tahan gak eh? berapa lama cik dia urut? mayb can try call later tgk she free or not.. i so needed one ah.. my pelikat so sakit ni.. dah cam masuk angin seh.. </font>
 
<font color="119911">she do malam tak eh? if do malam then if tak gi her house drg lunch can ask her to come over my mum's place besok.. or nottygal suruh dia pi rumah u nak? hehe kita urut sesama? hehe</font>
 


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