ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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*Danryan*
Hopefully it's nothing serious. You take care.
*Lynzi*
Yup, I'm doing flexi adjunct. It's relief pay and hourly rated but of course our rate is higher than those untrained relief teachers. Pay is 2x a month and everytime you manage to finish your contract (from 4 weeks to 10 weeks), you'll get your flexi bonus of $550.
And contract adjunct is of what you have stated. I'm not interested in doing contract due to all the extras that I'll have to do. Kalau gitu, baik jangan quit. No difference from normal teaching.
*Sharena*
Nak bayar satu kali gus tu yg lemau sikit. Takut tak terpegi and waste $$. Will try to ask my colleagues and see how. Sama macam nshah, kalau takde geng, malas sey. Heh.
*Sri*
Yup, cukur rambut takyah buat majlis pon boleh. I did majlis for my 1st but takboleh tahan the penat after that. The 2nd one I terus bawak gi Masjid Ghufran. The ustaz (can't remember his name) will do tahnik for your baby. Cukur rambut, sapu madu/kurma dalam mulut then you can donate to the mosque straightaway. Yup and it's sunnah. No worries.
Hopefully it's nothing serious. You take care.
*Lynzi*
Yup, I'm doing flexi adjunct. It's relief pay and hourly rated but of course our rate is higher than those untrained relief teachers. Pay is 2x a month and everytime you manage to finish your contract (from 4 weeks to 10 weeks), you'll get your flexi bonus of $550.
And contract adjunct is of what you have stated. I'm not interested in doing contract due to all the extras that I'll have to do. Kalau gitu, baik jangan quit. No difference from normal teaching.
*Sharena*
Nak bayar satu kali gus tu yg lemau sikit. Takut tak terpegi and waste $$. Will try to ask my colleagues and see how. Sama macam nshah, kalau takde geng, malas sey. Heh.
*Sri*
Yup, cukur rambut takyah buat majlis pon boleh. I did majlis for my 1st but takboleh tahan the penat after that. The 2nd one I terus bawak gi Masjid Ghufran. The ustaz (can't remember his name) will do tahnik for your baby. Cukur rambut, sapu madu/kurma dalam mulut then you can donate to the mosque straightaway. Yup and it's sunnah. No worries.
sri.. yes act by taking those pills & proper diet + exercise u can loose i tell u..
coz i did loose abt 10kg in 6mths last 2006 tp lepas tu kau memboyak balik seh esp my tummy, im soo sad.. i used to take reductil, it makes my tummy overall slim melim seh.. babatnya skit je..
my waist loose a lot too abt 4size down of wat im wearing before.. imagine from size 34 turun to 28 best kan.. bt sbb kan ku nya mood angin tak baik asik nak ngamuk je.. n also too much i wasted on it 1 mth plus pill perancang i spent je almost $200 so tak leh take it i stop.. mahal, botak aku..
coz i did loose abt 10kg in 6mths last 2006 tp lepas tu kau memboyak balik seh esp my tummy, im soo sad.. i used to take reductil, it makes my tummy overall slim melim seh.. babatnya skit je..
my waist loose a lot too abt 4size down of wat im wearing before.. imagine from size 34 turun to 28 best kan.. bt sbb kan ku nya mood angin tak baik asik nak ngamuk je.. n also too much i wasted on it 1 mth plus pill perancang i spent je almost $200 so tak leh take it i stop.. mahal, botak aku..
wati
Active Member
Wow... kecoh betul..
*Recipe*
Thanks for the recipe given. I will try.. kwang kwang kwang..
*Pap Smear*
Memang kena buat abt 6mth, tapi anak i dah 10mth pun i lum bikin. I takut lah... Tak tahu kenapa..I takut find out that i have some kind of illness. You tahu lah orang pompan kan banyak penyakit.
*PENYAKIT*
Cakap pasal penyakit, recently i sakit perut. Bukan pasal salah makan tapi mcm internally there is something wrong. You can just feel it. Rasa sakit then will go away, but then dah masuk 2 weeks i been suffering, tapi i buat bodoh. And now i tak bleh control my digestive system. Dah makan, then sakit dtg, then terus nak gie toilet buat big business.. tapi dah 2 weeks my stools mcm orang kena diarrhoea. Anybody pernah kena tak ?
I nie takut nak pergi doctor pasal "fear of finding out the truth" ...
My hubby marah everytime he saw i tahan the pain.. suruh pergi doctor tapi i takut lah. Hmm..
Now my only hope is that umur I panjang cos i want to watch my daughter grow up.
*Recipe*
Thanks for the recipe given. I will try.. kwang kwang kwang..
*Pap Smear*
Memang kena buat abt 6mth, tapi anak i dah 10mth pun i lum bikin. I takut lah... Tak tahu kenapa..I takut find out that i have some kind of illness. You tahu lah orang pompan kan banyak penyakit.
*PENYAKIT*
Cakap pasal penyakit, recently i sakit perut. Bukan pasal salah makan tapi mcm internally there is something wrong. You can just feel it. Rasa sakit then will go away, but then dah masuk 2 weeks i been suffering, tapi i buat bodoh. And now i tak bleh control my digestive system. Dah makan, then sakit dtg, then terus nak gie toilet buat big business.. tapi dah 2 weeks my stools mcm orang kena diarrhoea. Anybody pernah kena tak ?
I nie takut nak pergi doctor pasal "fear of finding out the truth" ...
My hubby marah everytime he saw i tahan the pain.. suruh pergi doctor tapi i takut lah. Hmm..
Now my only hope is that umur I panjang cos i want to watch my daughter grow up.
mdm wati
baik pegi check la, anything pun kalau caught early is good... jgn biarkan aje. Bec of ur doter la u mesti pegi check up k..
danryan
u dah nak pegi poly for pap smear kan, then mintak referral to urology unit kat hospital sekali pun bole i think. kalau pegi dr aziz maybe he can do pap smear aje.
baik pegi check la, anything pun kalau caught early is good... jgn biarkan aje. Bec of ur doter la u mesti pegi check up k..
danryan
u dah nak pegi poly for pap smear kan, then mintak referral to urology unit kat hospital sekali pun bole i think. kalau pegi dr aziz maybe he can do pap smear aje.
)<font color="aa00aa">madem,
its per jab ah.
so i think its more ex as compared to poly cos i heard my frens did the 6 in 1 in poly bayar sekali je.
then other visits tak bayar lagi.
my gp at sembawang mrt.
bettybad,
im considering of doing flexi adjunct ah.
but i heard got 3/4 load ah...1/2 load ah...
so i pun not sure.
then some people said the rate differentiate from one school to another.
is that true?
if macam tu then not worth doing ah kalau 1 hour setakat $16 or $18 aje.
wati,
kau baik go check doctor gerl.
maybe its your colon.
at least if detect eralier then can cepat baik.
if detect dah too late then how.
few years ago my grandma and my mum kena cancer.
so now i pun takut.
sakit sikit je dah sibuk nak do see doc.
mamaliz,
wah...rajinnya.
me nowadays jarang cook unless its for sahur.
cos my mil ajak buka at her house on mon, tues and wed.
then my mum lak ask me to buka at her house on thurs, fri and sunday.
saturday je either i buka at home or usually buka with different sets of frens kat luar...ehehehe.
my hubby tak cerewet.
he said i dah penat jaga faiq tak payah nak cook.
lagipun for him hari2 goreng telur or ikan bilis or masak lauk air and sambal tumis pun dah ok.</font>
its per jab ah.
so i think its more ex as compared to poly cos i heard my frens did the 6 in 1 in poly bayar sekali je.
then other visits tak bayar lagi.
my gp at sembawang mrt.
bettybad,
im considering of doing flexi adjunct ah.
but i heard got 3/4 load ah...1/2 load ah...
so i pun not sure.
then some people said the rate differentiate from one school to another.
is that true?
if macam tu then not worth doing ah kalau 1 hour setakat $16 or $18 aje.
wati,
kau baik go check doctor gerl.
maybe its your colon.
at least if detect eralier then can cepat baik.
if detect dah too late then how.
few years ago my grandma and my mum kena cancer.
so now i pun takut.
sakit sikit je dah sibuk nak do see doc.
mamaliz,
wah...rajinnya.
me nowadays jarang cook unless its for sahur.
cos my mil ajak buka at her house on mon, tues and wed.
then my mum lak ask me to buka at her house on thurs, fri and sunday.
saturday je either i buka at home or usually buka with different sets of frens kat luar...ehehehe.
my hubby tak cerewet.
he said i dah penat jaga faiq tak payah nak cook.
lagipun for him hari2 goreng telur or ikan bilis or masak lauk air and sambal tumis pun dah ok.</font>
*Lynzi*
Cam tu the wak aji "barber" cannot be heavy breather... kalo tak dia breathe in out ...phooo...semua terbang
Anyway this custom is applicable to both boy n gerl bby? Ima cuma tahu dulu time kecik-kecik, gi org cukur rambut.. at the end part of it they will throw coins n beras kuning rite? ... or is that org sunat ...hmmm....
Cam tu the wak aji "barber" cannot be heavy breather... kalo tak dia breathe in out ...phooo...semua terbang
cukur rambut -
we shaved our daughter's hair bila dia 3 bulan kat kedai nyonya near my block. cost us $4. sebelum tu, kita bilang nyonya tu kita nak simpan rambut dia jadi nyonya tu collect rambut our girl and bungkus dalam kertas suratkhabar.
bila balik, kita timbang rambut dia. even with the suratkhabar, 1g pun tak sampai. the practice is, donate an amount equivalent (in gold) to your child's hair. so, we just donated a bit more than the price of 1g of gold to a mosque. time my husband pergi friday prayers, he just dropped the money into the donation box.
just fyi -
aqiqah is sunat. if you have a son, you should sacrifice 2 sheep. anak perempuan, 1 kambing. it can be done anytime until the child is 7 years old. kalau tak buat, takpe.
what my family often do is to do this time hari raya haji. just go to any mosque when they are taking orders for korban and say that you want to perform aqiqah. lepas diorang slaughter the sheep, you can either collect the daging to make a feast or to distribute on your own. but, we always look for short cuts. the aqiqah will be done the day before hari raya haji and we'll serahkan the entire thing to the masjid. jadi masjid masak kammbing tu sama briyani and bagi orang ramai makan.
mamaliz - u pakai roti apa untuk buat your burger. cantik sekali roti tu. you made the patty yourself? camne you buat? kalau i buat patty sendiri, it just doesnt stick and the patty berderai.
nora - i pun baca that article. sedih seh. i think the children are a bit slower in picking up things bcos they are underexposed. if the mother rajin baca buku on child devt etc etc, mungkin she'll be able to expose her children to a lot more things. kesiyan lah all the kids dalam sana..
we shaved our daughter's hair bila dia 3 bulan kat kedai nyonya near my block. cost us $4. sebelum tu, kita bilang nyonya tu kita nak simpan rambut dia jadi nyonya tu collect rambut our girl and bungkus dalam kertas suratkhabar.
bila balik, kita timbang rambut dia. even with the suratkhabar, 1g pun tak sampai. the practice is, donate an amount equivalent (in gold) to your child's hair. so, we just donated a bit more than the price of 1g of gold to a mosque. time my husband pergi friday prayers, he just dropped the money into the donation box.
just fyi -
aqiqah is sunat. if you have a son, you should sacrifice 2 sheep. anak perempuan, 1 kambing. it can be done anytime until the child is 7 years old. kalau tak buat, takpe.
what my family often do is to do this time hari raya haji. just go to any mosque when they are taking orders for korban and say that you want to perform aqiqah. lepas diorang slaughter the sheep, you can either collect the daging to make a feast or to distribute on your own. but, we always look for short cuts. the aqiqah will be done the day before hari raya haji and we'll serahkan the entire thing to the masjid. jadi masjid masak kammbing tu sama briyani and bagi orang ramai makan.
mamaliz - u pakai roti apa untuk buat your burger. cantik sekali roti tu. you made the patty yourself? camne you buat? kalau i buat patty sendiri, it just doesnt stick and the patty berderai.
nora - i pun baca that article. sedih seh. i think the children are a bit slower in picking up things bcos they are underexposed. if the mother rajin baca buku on child devt etc etc, mungkin she'll be able to expose her children to a lot more things. kesiyan lah all the kids dalam sana..
mamaliz
Active Member
Sri...
hehehehe....kita buat lima ajer burger tu...3 utk buka 2 utk sahur ...dah mamam pun semua..burp~ alhamdulillah~~~~kita bukan lokek..tapi gelojoh!!
lynzi...
samalah..i pon tak rajin...tapi dah bulan posa ni, ada jer tekak nak makan apa apa special...kitanya rajin ni sekarang ikut tekak..nak makan apa2 kat banquet kaki kena rajin...nak makan yg special tangan kena rajin...best pulak u ada jer tempat nak makan free eh...heheh...sambil mengeratkan silahtulrahim sanbil save duit raya tu!!
naddy
tu roti i beli kat ntuc lahhh...its those breads that they bake daily...$3 for 5 piece..sedap pulak tu!! the patty i used...minced beef, diced onions, garlic, salt, cayenne pepper and plain flour...the flour i used sparingly jus to keep the patty together..when u ball the patty u have gto keep patting it from palm to palm macam u toss a ball from one hand to the other to manpatkan the beef..if ur hands sticky then tabur wif flour again n cont until u satisfied its manpat enuf lahh....
hehehehe....kita buat lima ajer burger tu...3 utk buka 2 utk sahur ...dah mamam pun semua..burp~ alhamdulillah~~~~kita bukan lokek..tapi gelojoh!!
lynzi...
samalah..i pon tak rajin...tapi dah bulan posa ni, ada jer tekak nak makan apa apa special...kitanya rajin ni sekarang ikut tekak..nak makan apa2 kat banquet kaki kena rajin...nak makan yg special tangan kena rajin...best pulak u ada jer tempat nak makan free eh...heheh...sambil mengeratkan silahtulrahim sanbil save duit raya tu!!
naddy
tu roti i beli kat ntuc lahhh...its those breads that they bake daily...$3 for 5 piece..sedap pulak tu!! the patty i used...minced beef, diced onions, garlic, salt, cayenne pepper and plain flour...the flour i used sparingly jus to keep the patty together..when u ball the patty u have gto keep patting it from palm to palm macam u toss a ball from one hand to the other to manpatkan the beef..if ur hands sticky then tabur wif flour again n cont until u satisfied its manpat enuf lahh....
Lynzi,
About the workload, it depends on the school's needs and agreement between you and the management. For mine, it's full teaching load coz I'm not offloading anyone. They are in need of an extra teacher. But that's it. I don't have to do anything else. You're a grad kan? Your hourly rate will be ard $20+-$30+ (I'm not sure how much). I had a friend who was a grad and had 10 yrs of teaching experience. She earns nearly $30 per hour.
About the workload, it depends on the school's needs and agreement between you and the management. For mine, it's full teaching load coz I'm not offloading anyone. They are in need of an extra teacher. But that's it. I don't have to do anything else. You're a grad kan? Your hourly rate will be ard $20+-$30+ (I'm not sure how much). I had a friend who was a grad and had 10 yrs of teaching experience. She earns nearly $30 per hour.
morning ladies..
jus nak share je.. i was shocked to come across this thread abt watie's son.. hope shes ok & tabah..
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/449169/1687259.html?1220458934
jus nak share je.. i was shocked to come across this thread abt watie's son.. hope shes ok & tabah..
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/449169/1687259.html?1220458934
<font color="aa00aa">oh dear, i just read watie's thread.
hopefully all is ok.
must be heartbreaking for a mum to see her child like that.
bettybad,
is it? can get $30 an hour? then must do cca or not? flexi adjunct dont have csc rite? cos since i resigned my name is under my hubby's one.</font>
hopefully all is ok.
must be heartbreaking for a mum to see her child like that.
bettybad,
is it? can get $30 an hour? then must do cca or not? flexi adjunct dont have csc rite? cos since i resigned my name is under my hubby's one.</font>
Nshah, thanks for sharing. Dia pun dah senyap in multiply. No mum wants her kids to suffer. It must be terrible.
Lynzi, it's best you ask the school but the rate is around there. You can discuss with the school regarding your workload. For me, I only want to teach so I told the VP that I don't want any CCA. I'm not involved in any committees/ meetings whatsoever either.
Lynzi, it's best you ask the school but the rate is around there. You can discuss with the school regarding your workload. For me, I only want to teach so I told the VP that I don't want any CCA. I'm not involved in any committees/ meetings whatsoever either.
mamaliz
Active Member
wakakakaka.....
nor dah kempunan ke anak yg kempunan? *wink*wink*
sri...
free ehhhh?????? kau tunggu aku dah earn my own money ehhhh.....kasi ku kerja dulu baru bole berunding pasal free ke tak? kekekekeke...
anyways....the burger is worth it lah buat sendiri! i spent $20 on the roti n daging n salad~ dapat 5 jumbo burgers....each patty the size of my palm n i have fleshy palms lehhhhh~~~worth it!!!!
today hubby ku nak mamam nasi goreng seafood...see if i rajin tak post the pics today...heheheh....
nor dah kempunan ke anak yg kempunan? *wink*wink*
sri...
free ehhhh?????? kau tunggu aku dah earn my own money ehhhh.....kasi ku kerja dulu baru bole berunding pasal free ke tak? kekekekeke...
anyways....the burger is worth it lah buat sendiri! i spent $20 on the roti n daging n salad~ dapat 5 jumbo burgers....each patty the size of my palm n i have fleshy palms lehhhhh~~~worth it!!!!
today hubby ku nak mamam nasi goreng seafood...see if i rajin tak post the pics today...heheheh....
mamaliz
Active Member
lynn..
actually its just a simple recipe...i masak suka campak campak...wat i feel wud taste good together i campak jer...heheh...
minced beef
onions
garlic
cayenne pepper
salt
plain flour
mushroom sauce mix ( brand i think is Heinz, jus mix with boiling water)
button mushroom (mix with the mushroom sauce after u stir fry them to make the shrooms soggy)
Onions n garlic panfry then mix with beef, add salt and pepper( i used cayenne pepper jadi its spicy) add a bit of plain flour to glue them together...press them to mampatkan the beef..then roll into a ball and use flour to prevent sticking...throw the ball from one palm to the other until dah mampat then u flatten it and placed on a floured base to prevent sticking....
Voila...masak jerr...dah masak apa lagi letak atas roti then add the sauce n cheese if u like!
actually its just a simple recipe...i masak suka campak campak...wat i feel wud taste good together i campak jer...heheh...
minced beef
onions
garlic
cayenne pepper
salt
plain flour
mushroom sauce mix ( brand i think is Heinz, jus mix with boiling water)
button mushroom (mix with the mushroom sauce after u stir fry them to make the shrooms soggy)
Onions n garlic panfry then mix with beef, add salt and pepper( i used cayenne pepper jadi its spicy) add a bit of plain flour to glue them together...press them to mampatkan the beef..then roll into a ball and use flour to prevent sticking...throw the ball from one palm to the other until dah mampat then u flatten it and placed on a floured base to prevent sticking....
Voila...masak jerr...dah masak apa lagi letak atas roti then add the sauce n cheese if u like!
amaars_mom
New Member
Wah, nak buka puasa cakap pasal makan aje? Burger lah, ketam lah ... he he..
Banyak orang jugak eh allergic to seafood.
I just came back from GP. Kena UTI. Tadi sakit kat bawah situ, until tak boleh tahan. Now feeling better.
Ok got to go, my breasts leaking .....
Banyak orang jugak eh allergic to seafood.
I just came back from GP. Kena UTI. Tadi sakit kat bawah situ, until tak boleh tahan. Now feeling better.
Ok got to go, my breasts leaking .....
sri,
i think it depends on the type of beras you makan. if you eat the more expensive type macam royal umbrella, the zakat fitrah per person is $6.50.
mamaliz,
your patty tak pakai telur, eh? i usually use telur to make the beef stick together. oooohhhh.. itu pasal agaknya aku punya patty selalu jadi minced beef balik bila goreng. so, plain flour alone is enough? tapi tak boleh banayk sangat, kan? agak2, for one ball of patty, how much flour is needed? (i'm not kidding when i say i'm a real goon when it comes to the kitchen)
i think it depends on the type of beras you makan. if you eat the more expensive type macam royal umbrella, the zakat fitrah per person is $6.50.
mamaliz,
your patty tak pakai telur, eh? i usually use telur to make the beef stick together. oooohhhh.. itu pasal agaknya aku punya patty selalu jadi minced beef balik bila goreng. so, plain flour alone is enough? tapi tak boleh banayk sangat, kan? agak2, for one ball of patty, how much flour is needed? (i'm not kidding when i say i'm a real goon when it comes to the kitchen)
mamaliz
Active Member
sri..
i think the fitrah is around $3+++ nanti u usually dapat surat wic tells u the diff price..
Naddy..
nak pakai putih telur pon ok but lebih senang berderai pasal basah....the flour helps to dry it a bit so easier to shape...kena uli the mixture then u make into balls of beef make the patties...
i think the fitrah is around $3+++ nanti u usually dapat surat wic tells u the diff price..
Naddy..
nak pakai putih telur pon ok but lebih senang berderai pasal basah....the flour helps to dry it a bit so easier to shape...kena uli the mixture then u make into balls of beef make the patties...