ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

<font color="0077aa">Morning all!

Lina
I had quite an eventful weekend.
But my Sunday was quite nice &amp; lazy. Satu hari
dok rumah, cuma mintak my hubby keluar kejap beli
sweet potatoes for my lauk lemak daun turi

Lynn
That's good. No more BFFs outing ker? :p</font>
 


<font color="0000ff">Morning Smalldream, Dan

Smalldream
for now BFFs outing dah stop.. now wkend only for family.. hehe
insya-allah, Nov ke Dec ke.. see how
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Lina
ohh gambar club med.. aku ingatkan gambar2 yg sewaktu dgnnya..
bagus jugak ehh, tgk gambar org gi hols.. tak dapat pergi, tgk gambar pun ok pe..

Dan
maybe ur ofis dusty tak?? </font>
 
Dan...
allergy ler tu...

smalldreams...
nie kerja boleh buat sekali2 ajer...kalau every weekend nanti cik abang MOGOK!!!

lynn,
i suke tgk gambar gi holidays...coz we get to see yg tak di-pasted pat internet....lagipon kalau kawan sendiri...kite boleh banyak tanya hihihihi n get their real experience
 
<font color="0000ff">Smalldream..
LOL.. spot org je, typo error ler.. dah edit pun! ;-p

lina
betol betol..!! real experience, bukan rekaan ehh..</font>
 
Lina
Ya lor sometimes our hubbies &amp; kids also want to have a taste of our cooking kan? Plus it's so much more nutritious &amp; cheaper compared to eating out or delivery.

Lynn
You tak mo gi travelling?
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Ni baru satu, can practise managing first hhehe...
 
smalldreams....

betul2...
imagine 1 bungkus mee rebus dah 2.50
rumah i ade 6 orang....

kalau masak sendirik....baru berapa...

lebih2 lagik my anak2 nie pemakan.....
 
<font color="0000ff">Smalldream
siapa yg tak suka gi traveling..klu ada $$$ lebih, mana2 nak gi pun boleh..

sayang lah nak use saving yg senonet tu just for travelling..
klu ada extra $$ pun, mesti ada je yg nak kena settle dulu...</font>
 
lynn,

a friend of mine nie duit dalam bank 5 digits before decimal point...tapi kan...dia betul2 punya priortize....

nak spent duit memang besh...tapi nak simpan...banyak cubaan worrr hihihihi...
 
<font color="0000ff">Lina
tu lah.. bila nak simpan, mcm tak bergerak.. tapi once u start to pegang je.. tau2 je dah kering..

and bila nak start balik, haiiii punya lah perit!!</font>
 
morning all...
brought my boy to the pool last weekend.
but he cried!
at 1st i let his feet touched the water he was ok.
then i dudukkan dia, then he started crying.
but he will wanted to look at the kids swimming, cuma nak dukung ajer, cannot go near...
so funny
i'm planning to bring him again next week.
cos i heard with babies, they need a few times before they're ok?
 
athelete...hihihihi

next time u can try to pangku dia?
or since he is ok with the feet...kasi dia jalan2 dulu pat air...
 
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Lynn
I totally agree with you. $$ ni bila nak keluar, senang aje. Bila nak start save balik, very sad.
I think I'm in trouble now coz my savings is verrrrryyy verrrry little. I kinda regret going to Japan tau, coz although that took place in Dec 08, sampai sekarang I rasa I masih belum boleh kumpul as much $ as before the trip
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Dan
Agaknye pasal semalam u makan ketam banyak sangat tak?

Athlete
Hehehe, takpe lah, he just needs some time to get used to it. Lama2 nanti tak mo keluar langsung!
Yeah, some babies take some time to get used to it.
Think Adam's first time was alright, tapi 2nd time yang dia nangis. AFter that, asik2 nak "shimming"</font>
 
<font color="0077aa">Dan
I tak makan ketam at all seh so far! Though I do love ketam. I ingat2, alah girl insya-Allah tak kisah lah... how notty can a girl get...heehhe..but I told myself, takpe, abstain... so my mom cant say anything later on :p

You know mummies on Saturday we had a gathering
with hubby's side. I felt so embarrased coz si Adam tak leh dok diam langsung
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I regretted not bringing something to occupy him.
My hubby said Adam's just being a 2 yr old kid, but I didn't think that was a good excuse </font>
 
smalldreams

biasa lah tu...
my boys also tak leh duduk diam kalau keluar with my hb's frens or who lah..
kalau duduk sambil chat with frens sure kids will get so boring and make the scene...
they can sit diam for awhile but not toooo long...lol

kalau jln2 sure dorang enjoy...
 
Smalldreams,
Don't be too hard on yourself, I think boys will be boys, and I feel we'll always be judged by others no matter what.
Kalau anak tak tahu diam, its cos we cannot control him.
Kalau anak TERLALU diam, its cos we sekat him and too strict.
I'm sure you're doing your best already.

Dan,
Tak pegi dr ke?
Or dah ok?

Lina,
Thanks! Will try next week.
This man at the pool also told us to 1st let him walk in the water.
But by that time, dia dah merajuk I think.
 
<font color="0000ff">Smalldream
bukan u sorang je.. sometime tu, i pun malu jugak tau..
naufal tak boleh duduk diam..
and klu main dgn budak2 lain, mesti ada je yg nak berebut mainan..

tapi i try to console myself, what can i expect from a 2yrs old boy?
duduk diam2 and doing nothing??
nanti klu dia diam je.. aku jugak yg resau.</font>
 
Dan
Yr kids are a bit bigger &amp; dorang ramai, jadi boleh
entertain one another, bagus jugak!

Athlete
Thanks for the comfort.
Adam was the youngest there at 2 yrs 4 mths. The
other kids were at least 4 yrs old.
The other 23 mth old girl came very late, just after the whole doa2 sit-down session finished. Anyway I believe the 23 mth old wud not be as active as Adam lah.

Si Adam ni memang dah active and w/o something to occupy him, lagi terok. He entertained himself by
pouring some water in &amp; out of his water bottle into a plastic cup but that one also I didn't feel nice letting him play coz kalau tumpah dah
satu kerja.

later he knew the only way to play with water was to say he wanted to drink, and when I didn't let him, obviously it looked like i was such a cruel &amp; unreasonable parent. So all the nenek2 pun suruh I take a drink, suruh other pple take a drink for him. Sighs. Stress tau.

Where did yr little one go swimming at?

Lynn
I guess you're the one who can best relate to what I'm going thru since our kids are in their 2-yr old age zone.
 
Smalldreams,
Brought him swimming at our new place.

Yesterday also had gathering at hb's family side.
We came late cos of my sis' b'day hi-tea.
And plus we were also informed abt it last min.
Then my boy pulak tak nak dgn org, ie my FIL, and all hb's aunties and grandma.
Then I kena "sound" dgn 1 of the aunties.
"Tulah, taknak rapat dgn hb's side, nak dgn my side only."
I just diam aje.
But in my heart I was literally "WTF"!!!

There are so many reasons why my boy was cranky...
Sigh... don't want to get into it...
 
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Athlete
That's such a ridiculous remark.
But then again, it's true aper. Naturally the
boy will be more attached to his caregivers, and
it so happened his caregivers are from his maternal side. So she made quite a "duh" remark.

Ya lor, diam aje.
No point saying anything else

So how was the High tea?
What was the spread like? Sama dgn lunch?</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Smalldream
naufal pun ada sepupu gal same age, only dat she older by 5mth.
and yes, she less active compare wit naufal..
klu ada family gethering etc, normally she will just stick wit her mom.

Klu naufal pulak, makin ramai org makin dia suka..
mcm2 perangai.. mcm2 ragam..
makin org ketawan, makin lah dia punya action.

pasal main dgn air tu.. naufal pun sama jugak..!!
klu kita tak kasi, sedara mara yg lain tukang amikkan </font>
 
<font color="0077aa">Lynn
haiz, susah eh nak discipline anak kalau ramai orang campur tangan.

Ikutkan hati, memang I malas nak pergi all these gatherings. But of course that's not the solution.
I guess next time I'll just bring some activities
for Adam to play with.

You try dgn Naufal, kalau ada technique bagus, you share dgn i k!</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Smalldream
hahaa.. kita sama2 share ehh.. if u found one, dont forget me here hor.. hehehe

btw i did try to bring along his fave toys like car, motocycle or aeroplane but nope.. it not working..!

either dia nak main yg org punya or he very the pelokek, org tak leh pegang..
and if there more boys ard yg berlari2, he will jolly join them..</font>
 
Lynn
I also notice, he'll be better if he has had a good nap in the afternoon.
Kalau dia cuma nap 1 hr aje, or had disrupted naps, siap lah dia punye hyper nanti.
 
<font color="0000ff">Smalldream
ohh ya.. talking abt nap.. noramlly ill go out only after his nap.
he need at least 2hrs of napping.. if not he will be super cranky tak leh silap sikit2 merajuk.

since he is early riser, paling lambat dia bangun kul 7.30am.. and by 11-12noon he must take his nap, ard 1-2pm dah bangun, so normally kita kluar lepas zuhur.</font>
 
wah.. 2yo and their kerenah eh-
sarah pun satu geng ler. dun worry abt it.
in fact, all the makcik pakcik suka kalo they tgk budak2 yg active.
tis i tak tau pesal. maybe bast kalo dilayan.
anyway, we should thank god our kids are active. they are in fact very NORMAL!!!

smalldreams,
jgn salahkan yr hubby la. i agree with him.
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adam is just being a normal 2yo kid.
 
<font color="0000ff">Quote **anyway, we should thank god our kids are active. they are in fact very NORMAL!!! **

I totally agree wit u...!!</font>
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Zu
I guess that's on the flipside. But then
there are also kids who can sit down quietly!
Tu yang buat I stress seh.

I'd like to think Adam is active &amp; it's good for his development, but sometimes I question myself on whether I need to be more firm with him to ensure his behaviour is better.

Anyway okay ladies, I'm going off. Nose running like a tap, so I've taken the afternoon off to rest. Take care!
 
<font color="119911">lynn
entah now nampak kita berdua je ah hehe
u bleh masuk fb? i tak bleh ah asal eh??</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">nshahi
boleh.. u cant login?? btw is FB mcm ada prob for this few days tau and it very lagging</font>
 

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