ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

Hello to all new mommies here

madem
ya lor...y not induce boleh pe...baby also ideal weight....macam kita nie dr pulak....

i still can feel and recall the contraction which just took place recently...luckily all dah selesai...
 


nshah..
yup..added oready...tulahh lama tak nampak u kat sini..kat multiply pon kot diam baru baru ni...busy ke??

pasal sri...
wahh..kesian pulak she kena like that eh...any updates do share k kat sini..saper tau kita leh ramai ramai serbu kk ke...hehehe

yg baru join kita kat sini..
welcome...mari bersembang~
 
mamaliz.. taklah bukan bz cuma tak tau apa nak update on multiply ah.. nothings great been gg on..
boring life i haf now..
 
ish nshah...takkan boring sangat...lagi lagi wif ur kids!! heheh...i every day wish for a holiday..takleh angkat stuck at home wif them 24/7...
 
hihi to all the new mummies!!!

nora aw,
can help me check how much is it for NAN Pro 2, Huggies Ultra in M or L size and Mamypoko pants in M or L size also???
Oh, if if got wipes can also help me check how much for the pigeon 80s wipes with chamomile, pigeon 20s/ 30s hand and mouth wipes and J&J 80s wipes with fragrance (the dark pink packaging)?
Thanks eh menyusahkan u...hehe

ima,
semangat betul kau nak keje dah preggy macam tu pun eh.
btw, what happen to your cb bp??
this coming month will have bp lagi tak?
hopefuly nothing so major that u have to fork out money from your own pocket.
 
lynzi
no problem. tapi wipes i think dorang tak jual ah. will update u.

mac donald
i pon notice during weekends many adults (not those student type) dok kat mac d reading newspaper and surf net. Takde rumah agakye, or maybe save electricity at home. And they occupy the place like they own it seh.
 
danryan,
u can try to drink milk esp Annum for breastfeeding mums or oatmeals, used to eat tat alot during confinement. ergh.. at same time, continue breastfeed in the day if can, not only at nite. for me, the milk helps n i will breastfeed more times in the day esp on weekends. my breastpumps become obslete already. ahah now Ayuni has milk rashes again! n its curing.. bingit!

i think Sri's contractions are not strong enuff to make her dilate.

zu,
have ur friend tried the other two fertility methods before trying IVF? one is fertility pills, the other forgot what. but read in the news that IVF success rate is quite high. n govt want to increase funding so its cheaper. but i think no yet la. IVF cost in sg not tat cheap compared to other country with low birth rate, taiwan 1 of them. Newspaper featured 1 malay lady who went for IVF, she was already abt 40plus n can't conceive for quite long.

LG PLAYMAT
anyone bought LG playmat before? is it worth to buy since its soo pricy.... tot of getting the cheapest one. its ok for Ayuni to play on the laminate floor without any mat but its her toys hitting on the floor tat will disturb my nieghbour.
 
styli,
i have the LG bumper playmat.
mine is the Alphabet Pooh in 15mm.
i love love love the mat.
one, faiq can play safely on it.
he can roll, turn, jump, fall with no fear of hurting himself.
two, i myself love to lie down on the mat with him.
its reali very comfy.
when he's tired he can even fall asleep on it.

the pricing depends on the material...like Parklon is cheaper cos got no LG tecnology but it has silver nano technology that can help to kill bacteria.
price also depends on how big it is and the thickness.

nora aw,
thanks again yah!
 
Madem, jgn kata u confuse.. i pun confuse..

Doc said I dilate for 1cm but tk nk discharge i cz some patient frm 1cm tiba2 on few hrs or nxt day will dilate 5cm or more.. But some didnt like me.. hehehe

So tadi i force him to discharge me.. boring siak kat hosp... told him, if for 3 days i only dilate for 1cm, wat makes u tink i'll dilate more in few days times?!?! ha.. in my discharge nye comments, i saw he wrote "patient keen to go home." whahahahahhaha.... Watever doc...

Btw mummies, sakit eh bila doc cucuk his/her fingers thru our vagina.. i kena abused 3 times!! LOLX!
 
hahaha sri,
maybe u felt the pain cos have not really dilate.
once dah dilate then u wont feel so painful.
btw, tu baru 3 times je dear.
once u wana give birth in delivery suite they will do that more often.
plus that is not inclusive of the time u have to do pap smear after u have given birth.
 
styli
I tried using those ABC mats, much cheaper and cover the top with carpet so nicer feel. but when she starts to eat by herself and drop food all over the floor , carpet cannot ah. I am using the foam one now, its similar to LG except the padding is foam and texture different. its cheaper at $80. Gd nuff altho my cat sometimes scratch. I curious how LG one is. coz that time got BP - it was selling for $100. normal price is $150. so i think wait for BP

sri
maybe u can insist on few time check only ? heard doula advise us write in birth plan - can only check X time and garang sikit, dun give in aje.
 
hidayah..

dat one im not so sure...would have to ask my fren...in fact from wat i heard the hotels affected by the f1 are in need of pt staff and the pay rates is raised for these occasion...

ps: currently im asking for the job for some mums as a favour but if my fren still want some more i will share the lobang k...
 
hahaha.. lynzi.. i tell u all eh.. i notice ladies doc yg cucuk i punya la sakit.. lelaki cucuk tk sakit lak.. whahahahahaha... gaknye lelaki ni more pro tk..gentle sikit... kekeke.. or jari diaorg more slim cz yg ladies doc badan diaorg gempal2..sure jari pun gempal jugak.. heee..

I nk ckp jer..cz foreplay dulu tk.. whahahahaha.. use more lubricant plz... i dry inside... wakakaaka...
 
sri...
eh, dat one memang i sokong! so far i experience eh kalau lelaki yg poke n prod eh they are more gentle..kalau kena fomfuan...mak ai...so tak berhati perut main tonyoh jerrr tangan tu...
 
*mumz baru*
Halo halo
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ape kabor semua!

*Lynzi*
Ni kali pakai duit raya to cover but i wanna top-up my $$ for my no. 3 arrival. Kena beli cot lagi satu playpen lama dah nak RIP... etc. And i dun wanna burden my hubi.

*Pasal pap smear*
Has all the mums gone for tis? i haven't done tis before and i dah married 7 years... Tis is just to determine cancer aje or other purposes?

*Sri*
Hehe, nanti u nak deliver (kalo subsidied) nanti every 5 mins ade aje nurse/Mo/doc datang poke-poke... me pun benci when tat happened for my 1st born. Tat's why the 2nd one i dah labour pains rabak baru pergi. By that time u so in pain, nak poke with finger or kayu
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pun dah tak rase...keke
 
Whahahahahaha... kayu?? lolx... ku tk rela.... dia ingat my vagina ni ape... lubang ular ke? hehehe...

Hi Arliana & the rest... welcome...welcome...
 
morning to all

styli
yesterday balik try to latch again wif my gal so far so good....she can take it kalau tak my puting masuk je dia dah nak muntah...

sri
so u now dah discharge eh.....false alarm kot....my SIL broke her waterbag yesterdah nite abt 830pm then gave birth at 12plus mlm....dah slamat pon dia....

Rally
Sesiapa going to have another child???mat leaves will be 16weeks and child leave going to 6 days...LELONG LELONG...hahaha
 
hoi haiiii...

i'm new here too.. (new kids on the block)...
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maicem2 korang diskusi kan eh..

btw last time i pon under doc aziz tau.. but at 23 wks i was spotting at 1am in the morning.. i already made pre-admission and deposited 1k at raffles, abeh doc aziz advice me to pegi KK.. more cost affective & facility there better.. last2 daripada labour ward raffles, i naik taxi pegi KK.. was in labour from monday 1am to wednesday 4+pm then beranak normal to a preemie.. 23wks gestation weighing 630g.. now he still kat KK lah.. dah nak dekat 4bulan..
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he's doing great 2.470kg but lungs still kinda chronic.. mummies, pls doakan baby izz cepat discharge & sehat k..
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Last2 pon bukan doc aziz yg beranak kan i.. i was handled by the "high risk pregnancy" team from KK.
 
rally
hai pagi pagi lagi my boss masuk office with her black face.. ni mesti dia dengar rally pasal maternity leave and childcare leave la ni...

lynzi
semalam i pegi jin tai tapi huggies ultra takde. Maybe bec they belom stock up bec banyak shelves empty.

NAN Pro 2 is $26.80 for 900mg
Mamypoko pants L $7.60 for 14pcs (M takde)

FYI
Huggies Dry M $14.90 for 84 pcs
Huggies Dry Confort M $14.90 for 66 pcs

For me wipes i usually stock up during John Little 20% storewide sale.

Sri
take it easy these few days, kira dah anytime now la tu.
 
Welcome mass & arliana

mas
actually yr due date bila eh if not preemie??....me wif dr aziz too...me doakan bb izz will be fine and healthy...insyaallah.
 
hi danryan..
actually my due date is august lah.. so that means skarang my baby baru full term lah... but he came out earlier on the 23april.. he's too anxious to see the world.. tapi preemie baby is like a roller coaster ride... kadang okie kadang tak okie.. but so far alhamdulillah...
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hi mas,

wah!! your preemie is a survivor!! at 23 weeks gestation only?? WOWWW!! daec and i are also moms of preemies. mine is a 34-weeker but she wasnt growing well in my womb so when she came out, she was only 1.136kg. i was also handled by the high-risk team.

yeah, it's best to go to kk when you have complications. i downgraded to C-class so my bill was manageable after my daughter's 1.5-month stay in the hospital. i hope you downgraded too cos your baby's case requires longer care and more specialised so your bill will be really high.

arliana,
welcome welcome!

moms,
YES! YES! YES!!! i'm gonna get my 16-week maternity leave! wooohooooooo!!!!! (insya Allah) hopefully, they'll implement it by next year.
 
naddy,

yeah my boy is a fighter.. he survived all the needles.. and he also underwent a PDA LIGATION (a surgery to close up the heart vessel) .. and also sikit hari dia punya lungs ada air.. and they tebok his lungs to drain out the air..sedih.. but i promise i never want to cry in front of him,, coz he's fighting.. i shld'nt crying.. babies feel it when we're down.. i terpaksa ceria bunga kan diri i ... sing for him.. bacakan dia apa2 yg patot..traumatised tau pasal time tu ada 2 babies passed away tau..plak tu i rapat giler with the 2 mummies.. feel for them.. so alhamdulillah.. i'm proud of him..
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massssssssss

so pity....(me crying now kat opis..sob..sob really) i tak leh see bb like this condition.....mass u are very brave...be strong ok....roughly bila he will be fully recover...just curious...
 
Hi Mas, as i said earlier u are a very stong mummy. Actually i did follow your thread on another posting/page. Saw u uploaded Izz photo too on that page. Syukur alhamdulliah, your baby Izz is doing great now.
 
mas insyallah ur boy will b strong & will survive..
so by raya he will b discharged already kan.. n his weight is catching up gd lah..
so pump more milk for him ok.
 
DANRYAN..
alah ciannya,...jgn lah nangis k.. i tanya doc bila izz boleh kuar.. dia cakap couple of months more... insyaallah eh.. actually i'm quite worried abt his lungs.. coz its a bit hazy lah..

minibear..
thanks for yr prayers.. alhamdulillah.. mudah-mudahan semangat izz kuat eh...
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nshahi..
i tanya doc raya bleh out tak.. dia kata not so soon.. pump tetap pump lah nyah... thats all i can do for him dia moment kan kan.. juggling pumping @ work.. balik work pegi hospital, balik hospital pump lagi... hehe pendek kata pump dan teros pump lah... untok izz tercinta...
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welcome to the new members kat sini...

wahhh 16weeks maternity leave sehhh..andai kata aku berkerja alangkah happy tapi aku tak kerja....hehehehe...but i wished they would do sumthing abt the childcare fees for middle income earners...mahal sangat lah nak bayar...nak kerja tapi bila tengok the fees for childcare...terbeliak mata ku!!!

mass
i pon tak bleh tengok gambar baby in that cond wif all the tubes..my baby dat time cuma setakat high jaundice jer i dah nangis every day...2 wks at kk...tengok video of him in the hospital jer i nangis...apa lagi i baca ur cerita...sebak dada...doa utk u n baby k~...insyaallah he will be fine soon!

sri
u tinggal blk braper eh????
 
hi mass,
i doakan terbaik utk u...hope ur son will get well soon...sebak tgk gambar tu..

pasal smlm nyer rally....suka gitu dengar dey going to do sumthing abt childcare subsidy...brapa gak nyer..skrg terkial2 byr childcare fee for my 3 kids tu...nasib ader cda...

sri, abt ladies cucuk tu mmg btul..i pun prasan if doc lelaki yg buat, tk sakit sgnt mcm pompuan..gaknyer dey are pro..
 
hi all dah mamam?
me lum lagi later ah nampaknya ard 3pm gitu.. coz tadi pagi makan bfast kinda heavy.

dgr panas je seh 4mths maternity leave.. tp hmm lau kerna dek itu 4mths leave aku nak beranak lagi? takpelah mekasih je.. perjalanan & pembelanjaannya utk another 20-30yrs.. aku tak mampu noh..

2 je cukup.. ni pun nak botak aku..
 
Naddy,Mamaliz & Siti,
hmmph.. 16wks maternity leave, i nak consider enter the work force semula khehehe..

Mas,
need to add, masa u petik gambar bb Izz he berjaga pulak tu, dah cerdik u. My bb boy is 1 mth older than him. Born in KK too ;)
 
*mass*
me pun cam mamaliz, my 1st boy jaudince aje i non-stop cry kat ward 3 hari... u very strong
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mummy lah

*siti*
ish ish.... tak censored u
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*PM rally*
So any mention of bigger baby bonus tak? Ima cuma baca this bby bonus is extended to 5th child onward.... hmmm... cam rasa nak plan to have more gitu
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pasal childcare subsidy i tak tau plak ada ehh....tadi i tanya my hubby, dia cakap 50% discount! hahahaha...kalau betul...skarang jugak i carik keje noh~~~

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all mummies...how....happy bila dgr abt the rally??

nshahi
tadi pagi baru cakap wif my hubby...govt gives dis and dat but 20-30 yrs to come....teruk jugak tu kan....rezeki masing2...
but the child leave is unpaid leave leh,....

but anyway me dah enough stop at 3...alhamdullilah..
 
mas,

i pun nangis bila baca pasal your boy.

i paham benar perasaan you. in the first few days, everytime i jenguk my daughter, i melalak teruk2. then the nurses told me that i shouldnt cry because my girl can feel it. so, i kuatkan semangat lah.

which thread did you post your story? preemies thread ke? i dah lama tak ke sana.

national day rally -
for further details, must wait for wong kan seng's press conference end of this week. that's when they will specifically state how much the childcare subsidies will be.

anyway, i was a bit disappointed that paternity leave stays at 3 days. i thought it'll be nicer if it can be extended to a week.
 
Hi semua...

**...Mas...**
Menangis i tgk gambar baby Izz... I nie weak in the heart. ALLAH swt memang tahu you nie hati tabah, ujian tu diberi kpd you. Kalau i, i'm sure i tak tahu how to cope emotionally. I nie very soft-hearted. Tgk orang susah ker, tgk binatang mati kena dera ker, tgk citer sedih kat TV ker... semua i nangis.. sigh.
My husband always laugh at me.. hehehe. I will doakan Izz sembuh cepat2. You have to be strong for your family and Izz tau.

**Gynae Lelaki vs Gynae Pompuan**
I hv to agree with Sri. Kalau doc lelaki.. alahai, dgn lemah lembut.. Kalau doc pompan, main rodok ajer...This is based on the fact that the women doc tends to be rough as they themselves dah pernah beranak.

I'm planning for a next year baby.. insyallah
 
dun put our hopes up too high for mr wong eh.... but childcare subsidy tu memang abt time la they increase it, kalau da 2 ke 3 kepala memang perit kan.

kite sekarang nak ambik 3 mths mat leave dah terkial kial... 4 mths... boss cakap tak payah datang balik office sudah..

ivf pon ade subsidy sekarang.. bagos bagos

minibear
u stay at home mum eh.. intro la sikit u all ni.

mas
ur boy name full dia ape? he is your first born i guess.

Me a full time working mom.. weekend baru full time mom... i have one boy Izzat umur baru 2 thn. Frankly sepaking, before i have a child, i never thot i can love someone this much. Bile dia tido pun i tengok muke dia... Intan payung betul la... Anyway me not that young got my boy when i was 35.
 
Danryan, entah eh.. doc sendiri pun tk tau kenapa my contractions abit strg eventhough i 36wks plus and only dilate for 1cm.. dia kata bb ku active sgt... hopefully keluar jgn la active...my niece is hyperactive..if dua2 active leh pengsan aku....

Mamaliz, i live wit mum blk yg beside methodist church ajer... u gt msn tk?
 
Hi Semua mommies..
baru kat sini.. all along cuma baca je thread.. very interested in the topics.. I sekarang carrying my 3rd baby, dah 21 weeks.. My 1st baby preemie jugak.. but at 36 weeks.. kena stay kat kkh for 2 weeks.. hari hari stress cos 1st babykan..
always tanya diri i apa salah i buat sampai dugaan macam ni kat baby i.. sedih gila that time but i become stronger emotionally after that.. I rasa labour kat kkh sakit hati jugak.. nurses dia treat us mums dgn kasar.. Maybe pasal i under subsidised tak.. That was in 1999..
My 2nd son i deliver kat SGH in 2003.. Best service.. Maklumlah lepas bersalin, kita mummies kan nak tender loving care sikit dari nurses dgn docs dia.. I dapat rest after bersalin.. Alhamdulillah semua normal delivery w/o epi..
Cuma my 3rd time macam ada phobia sikit..
Tengah emotional ride agaknya kan..
 
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momok at KKH*
Ima selalu dgr RIA @ midnite...nak tanya...anyone ade experience yang pelik kat KKH tak? My mum pernah but tat was super long time ago...
 
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nshah..
gue ngah bincang lagi ni hah ngan kawan ...dia ngah pikiak masak masak nak amik ke tak nak pasal banyak melayu tu ....kasi dia pikiak k...nanti dah buat keputusan i msg u...
 
Ok ok, memandangkan i 'new kids on the block' kat sini let me intro diri.

Im 1st time mummy,currently SAHM to 5mths young Prince. We all manetap kat Woodlands, near Causeway pt. Ada sape2 kat sini tinggal Woodlands ke?

Bab nk enter work force semula tu nampak gaya ada susah sikit. Rasa2 company will rather employ the singles or male. Correct me if wrong.

Juliana,
A very warm welcome. I pun bersalin kat KKH. A very gd xperience thruout.

Nor(nabmum),
Momok kat KKH, story la sikit.
 


Hello juliana

Congrats for yr 3rd bb...anyway the gap quite far eh abt 5 to 6yrs wif the #2....

mass
when my bb marsyha was 14days old she was admitted at kk coz ada chic pox...lagi haru bila the docs and the nurse tried to poke her veins on both tiny hands....dah satu hand tak leh they tried another hand...end up bila i masuk the rm kat kaki pulak they poke....dah i tengah on confinement lagi dat time....cried sorang2 kat ward....luckily we both je in the 1 bedded rm....

but seram jugak coz only both of us in the rm for 5 days......bila kul 12midnite i tukar fr RIA to WARNA.....

minibear
me too stays at wdland dr 73
 

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