ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

[daec]

naddy
from wat i read-generally coz dr nak tengok ( maybe do something to take baby out) so easier if we dun squat. some of the practices today is wat is easy for dr, not necessary gd for mums. i read if africa somwhere- if nak give birth, the lady go alone somewhere, squat with back against wall then catch own baby. power seh.

nab
nak kata confirm - I takde experience tapi I read many articles/bks that say kegel very impt. its also gd for sex

think cara breathing pun impt kan ? The contractions also help push baby out. from what i know, ur breathing and contractions shld be together.jadi it all help push baby out.

interesting coz I heard some dr kancheong suruh my fren push baby out tho takde contraction. I ask doula abt it, she say better wait for contraction to start baru push as its easier. some time ada pause to let to rest before pushing. so she say if dr kata gitu, u say u nak tunggu dulu.

 

[wati]

Hi sumer..

hahaha.. topic waxing nie so kelakar.. Korang mesti badan sumer hot2.. tu sebab tak malu gie waxing.. I dun think they have waxing for 'cows' like me... tapi i pun tak nak lah..

I think if next time i preggy, maybe ask my hubby to shave for me.. hehe

Babylee, so sorry about your brother. I rasa sedih jugak bila baca... kesian plak anak isteri dia kan. Hmm.. Apa nak buat Tuhan lagi menyayangi dia..

Ladies, just a thought. Do you think the world is coming to an end ? Hmm.. sekarang every night i sebelum tidur always mintak maaf to my hubby. Cos i tak tahu whether i will bangun the next day. And i always tell him that i love him and my baby...

 

[maswan02]

daec
agreed wif daec, wat i know fr gynea when on delivery time bila ada contraction its time for u to breath & push....itu time baby nak enggaged slowly to keluar...if no contraction don't push coz u will lost yr energy and bila time nak push dah tak larat...

like my case recently my gynea lum datang, i felt contraction and its time for me to push, i push lah...bila dr reached the room....totally contraction hilang...stop sekejap....abt 3 minutes later dr said if rasa nak berak just give a big blow & push....3x i blow & push bb dah out........

babylee
glad to hear yr gerl dah ok....sorry to hear abt yr bro..salam takziah

 

[nabmum]

*Babylee*
Sori for ur loss

If i'm in ur sis-in-law situation...entah eh... will be so at a loss of wat to do coz it's so sudden. Hopefully she's a working mummy , if not then finance susah eh nak balance with 4 kids.

*Life with out hubi*
Not sure how many of us ever tot of this situation

Good for us ladies to have a plan in case somthing like this ever happens.

*Nora*
Tak lah bleeding rabak, just 2-3 spots where the hair to degil

so bila tercabut to ade small red spot aje. As usual lah, at that time i curi my boy's cream sikit kasi pulih cepat.

*Deac*
Oh...so this Kegel also go for *ehem*

MESTI PRACTISE SKARANG JUGAK!

*Sexlife during preggie*
Million Dollar Question: Does it exist, esp in 3rd trimester?

*Pasal group waxing*
Ish ish... she just one lady cam mane nak wax as a group.... Unless u nak buat Guniuess World record ke...keke

*Naqia*
Not sure if u think $65-$70 is mahal or not

For me coz her service is personalised, datang rumah & importantly, she is certified. Not like some of those kat kedai, who are trainiees

buat hentam aje... Actually dia ade website cuma i tak ingat the link.

 

[lynzi1606]

ima,
wah teruk tu...
if u tak tengok mirror at that strip holland pun u should have used your finger and feel whether still got any hair left tak.
i have never experience aniting like dat ah.
so far all smooth.

naqia,
for hard wax its about $65.
bu then u wont need to go every month cos the hairs grow very slow.

babylee,
so sorry to hear about your bro.
about back up plan in case have to live without hubby ni...
i dah siang2 get ready cos nowadays laki ni tak payah tunggu mati nak tinggalkan kita...ramai yang bini masih muda and cantik pun dah kena tinggal...pegi carik pompan lain...
so wat i did is i have another bank account that he doesn't even know of.
every month i put in some of my money there.
dah serik sangat2...
cos last time with my ex bf...we shared the same bank account so he withdrew all the money without me knowing and left me high and dry.
i told my hubby...if u nak carik lain go ahead but no way i'm going to share...i lagi rela get divorce...
BUT i will make sure i tuntut as much as i can sampai u bankrupt...got no money to even support another wife...hahahaha!!!
jahat aku kan???

ima,
sex while in 3rd trimester eh?
time i was preggy i did not have any since i was in my 24 weeks of preggy cos doc said my placenta low and to abstain from it.
by the time my sex life resumed was when faiq dah 3 months old...hehehe...

 

[maswan02]

ima/lynzi

ok pasal sex....since i pregnant last yr raya till now dah give birth....i pon tak have any....luckily my hubby pon tak ngempeng2 kat i...ada jugak kacau dia tapi no no je...so fr dat time i pon tak lah sound2 kat hubby i lagi......dah almost 1 yr nie...mayb he wants me to have enough rest kot...

 

[babylee]

Thanks for all the wishes.

Lynzi,
Ya, good proof plan. As long you tak use it for your shopping spree sudahlah...hahahaha....

Ima,
Sex during 3rd trimester ni kan. Most ppl believe it helps to dilate our cervix. My hubby pulak says, it was a turn on to see me big and huge! (You know what I mean) Agaknye we've been making music instead of love when I was slim tak....maklum lah...tulang je....

 

[mamaliz]

hehehe...
ive been reading the topic on waxing....frankly ive been wanting to go for it but sooooo the paiseh lahhh...slalu cakap ngan my huby..."one day i will get the courage" dia pon step malas nak layan pasal sampai skarang belum pergi jugak...hehehe...ada jugak i hint ngan dia..apa kata we both go for it!! terbeliak mata dia~ kwang kwang kwang....dat means i just build up my courage jerlah for now.......bila agaknya eh aku nak pi....???

sex in 3rd trimester...
wahhh....for me it does exist, maybe cos i would have to admit we have a very healthy dose of that regulary even during preggie...i gave birth to my 2 kids in the 37th wk but we still carry on our "exercise" all the way to 36th wks....anyway, i did hear my hubby's uncle telling him that it helps to dilate our cervix...as what babylee has said...

 

[gerliez]

hello mummies

anyone tahu tak if there's still pple who still take tailoring? i nak buat baju for my baby gurl ah da kes emergency seh!

 

[mummy_min]

hi all,afternoon...

hot btul pasal waxing ni eh..i tink i wont ever go..mcm malu nk mampus...hehhe.

sex in 3rd trimester
unfortunately, my hubby still ask for it..so, nk buat ape kan..layan jelah kan. frankly speaking, i dun quite like doing it so often...to me, once in every 2 weeks dah kira ok..

babylee, salam takziah to ur bro family...sad to lose someone suddenly..it happened to my late uncle...he left his wife and 4 kids (eldest in poly and youngest is 2 yrs old) but alhamdulilah, my aunty doing fine after a yr.

pasal back up plan in case have to live without hubby ni... i totally agree wif lynzi..lelaki ni skrg smua tkleh kasi muka...
my hubby lak boros...i pun sleng...dulu smua declare...abis smua nyer...now, i pun selit2 $$ sikit..

 

[wati]

sex in 3rd trimester.

for me.. everything went normal with sex. I think i yg asyik mintak jer.. dunno why..haha

 

[noni1]

kegel exercise tu memang very good for us women. it also helps with incontinence. For me lepas the nurse remove the catherer (not sure spelling) macam cannot control bladder tau then i do kegel constantly, lepas two days the problem takde lagi.

 

[nur]

sesape kat sini ade baju kurung nk give away? for baby boi and 3yr old gal.. yg boi 11mths.. he small size..

 

[babylee]

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[babylee]

Oh ya Sri!
Just to let you know. If you choose to breastfeed your baby kan, your period will come abit later. Like mine, it came back when my eldest turn 1 year old. So you boleh jangka lah I tak payah beli sanitary pad for that period....Cheers!

 

[daec]

babylee
sorry to hear abt ur bro. somehow I also just hear my close fren hubby just pass away too for no reason.He was 44.so sad to hear....

 

[styliciously]

babylee,
i was abit worried my menses still havent come. but my baby 10 mths now. some pple menses come much earlier even tho brestfeed. i feel like playing waiting game like dat.

 

[nabmum]

Haha semalam petang mengamok with hubi terus takde mood nak online

*Styli*
Kalo lum datang best ke pe? When i started to stop my boy ard 7ths, my menses on the 6th month dah datang. Leceh sey cos dah one year tak pakai pad, bila terpaksa wear pad cam kekok like 1st timer lak

*3rd trimester quicky*

Huh? Some of u berbulan pun takde? Cam mane leh tahan sey? Me cam nak kacau my hubi cuma my pubis bone dah "pecah" so certain leg movements quite painful.

But as wat bbylee says, it dilates the cervix

.

*Girliez*
U can try LILY Butiq kay sebelah Jio Chiat...altho i find thier prices super steep. If next raya u have more timing for antar kain then i recommend Radiance Butiq at Tanjong Katong Complex (1st floor facing road) Her tailoring is super, esp with lace n beads.

 

[babylee]

Styli,
Should be ok lah. No worries. For me kan, I believe that if we give our babies direct BF, it helps to tighten our cervix muscles and that's why our period comes abit later. Sometimes sex pun painful cos takde lubricant. Ini semua sebab we give exclusive BF. I think to those yg dapat early menses maybe dorang express and give thru bottles tak? Cos my frens pun experience like dat and they envy I nye period datang lambat skali. I don't have scientific proof lah but I believe this is so. Until now, I BF both my girls (25 mths &amp; 4 mths). Then furthermore, no period means no ovulation or eggs. So is this a form of contraceptive? I oso don't want to take chances lah. But so far, so good. Anyway, my 2nd time preggie happen when I had my first menses after 13 months.

 

[mummy_min]

wow...25mths..still bf?
me lak..low milk supply seh..cuma yg youngest je dpt bf the longest dat was 6mths

 

[mamaliz]

wahhh...
babylee...ur kids having a feast eh?? hehehe...me stop bf wen my boy 5mths...itupon bila dah 4 mths i dah kena kasi fm jugak cos he have such a big appetite sehhh....i try lying down leaning back n watever positions to soothe my bodyache...at last takleh tahan suruh my hubby cont by giving fm jerr...my bf milk pon tak cukup...nak layan kan kakaknya jugak cos she skooling lagi..in d end i surrender...hehehe...stress!!!

 

[nabmum]

*bath time tis evening*

 

[babylee]

Mamaliz,
Hello! You tak gi holiday lagi ke? That time berendam anak branak kat Melaka.
Ini skarang anak Ima berendam dalam baldi pulak!

Ima,
Is that Nabila? Sampai hati u taruk dia dalam baldi. Muat pulak tu.

 

[mamaliz]

babylee
holidayyyyy???? kalau di-sponsor kan ...teringin aku nak pi hah~!!! sooo the busy nak carik buyer rumah how to enjoy babe~? lain lah kalau dah jual...ahhh...like wat lynzi has said to me before , i would lalalala all the way to the bank..hahahaha....sure i go batam one n have 4 hrs massage!!!

nor..
muat pulak anak kau eh kat baldi tu!! my kids dua dua i muatkan kat baby bath tub...tu pon wen im in good mood to let them play lahh....kalau tak jus a quick shower jer lahh...

 

[nabmum]

*Issue Baldi*
Ini sebenarnya ade cerita sikit

I put her in the IKEA tub nak mandi petang. Skali Along dia datang nampak banyak bubble dia pun nak mandi pulak. Dua-dua gaduh

tak muat the tub so Nabila i sumbat dia dlm baldi with her bubbles &amp; toy boat. Dia suka coz dapat diri n hold on to the side. Mcm BIG gerl konon

 

[mixedup]

babylee,
haha.. the pic of yr two doters very cute la.. no wonder u ckp u mcm mama cow!

nor, muat plak tu letak dia dlm baldi.. haha.. pas tu air le buat mop dapur ke?

Moms- Diapers for Sale!
I got a few packs of Drypers XL and XXL for sale!
Each pack will be $13. Buy one carton of 4 packs at $50. Let me know if u are interested okie. Pick up at CCK. Tmpt lain can be discussed also.

have a nice weekend!!

 

[styliciously]

babylee,
didnt know abt the lubricant part. No wonder always very dry n painful. even if no menses, i also worry sekali no menses means pregnant. Last week i was constipated but tot my menses nak datang.

 

[icechoco]

Hi ibu-ibu,

Please response to this thread if you're supportive and put in your views. Need your help.

http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/36738/1644640.html?1218953813

 

[icechoco]

babylee,
so sorry to hear about your brother. side-track, admire you man! Can bf your 25 months daughter!

 

[amaars_mom]

Lynzi,

Hah? must sign indemnity form? You mean must ask my gynae first? No way I'm going to ask Dr J. But quite skeptical, though my C-sect scar is ok, scared that waxing can affect it.

Ima, your beautician can do 1 week before due?

Babylee, Sorry to hear abt your loss.

cute lah gambar anak2 you "gantung" on you!! At first, I can't make out the pics!

Ic, It's difficult when "no child" people do not understand. Sad to say, there's a lot of people like that. I'm sure McDonalds' will welcome any families to their restaurant. They can assure you that. But people like these man will still be out there, not only at McDonalds', tormeting you with their stares.

I salute you for speaking up. Do continue to bring your kids wherever you wanna go, and stand up for what you believe is right.

Sri, where are you? Senyap aje?

 

[nabmum]

*mademoiselle*
Hmmm... think u better do 2 weeks before due lah. Kasi time for kulit kat bawah to thicken up sikit

During preg (due to the vitamins we eat) out skin is much thinner than usual.

*Sri*
Senyap-senyap dah meletup ke.....

*Pasal Mcdonolz*
Buat muka tebal sudah

haha

 

[lynzi1606]

gerls,
the last i heard from sri on thursday or friday was that she's sick...nearly pitam at amk hub...then tummy pain...backache and vomitting.
i'm not sure how she is now.

babylee,
when wana do playdate?
next week any day u free?
the gerls dah recover belum??

 

[nabmum]

BTW, anyone's workplace ade nak perlu temp admin buat 2 bulan tak? Ima nak temp keje lah... Long John Silver tgk perut besar tak nak employ lah

 

[mamaliz]

nor...
pasal keje im not sure but jus now my fren tanya i nak keje temp tak pt jerr...its for the F1 nya week..they paying 10.50 per hr and cpf is given without cutting from it...i will check wif her ok??

 

[maswan02]

morning ladies

wanted to ask u all here....how to increase our BM??? coz recently i was on medication for 10 days...found dat my BM macam dah kerings gitu...tried to give bb Marsyha but she like nak muntah like dat...ape kan tidak almost 10days tak BF cuma on FM je...now how eh nak increase kan my BM....

 

[telly]

hi danryan,

actually, during your 10 days, you should have pumped and dumped to maintain a supply. for now, you continue letting marsyha latch on and if you do have a pump, pump also so that you can stimulate the milk supply. hope this helps!

 

[maswan02]

naddy

aah lah...i pon tak ingat nak pump my BM everyday....only pump on my last day of medication...tadi pagi pon try BF b4 go to work...marsyha macam tak puas and tak cukup....

 

[nabmum]

*mamaliz*
Thx alot ah

My bp ade run into a big prob so need to standby duit takut short. Lagipun me tak lama dah nak beli bby stuff in Oct.

 

[mamaliz]

nor..
my fren tanya u ada wat experience...cos she in hotel line...6* hotel...and by the way u dah how many months eh?

 

[mamaliz]

nor...
add me on ur msn lahh..susah nak tanya itu n ini lahh..heheh... [email protected]

 

[nabmum]

*mamaliz*
Sori me takde MSN so i meial u direct aje k

Anyone else ade lobang keje kilang can also recommend me

1st/2nd/3rd shift, 12 day/12nite...any shift is ok with me.

 

[mamaliz]

nor..
u lupa nak cakap u dah how many months preggy lahh...its office job so shud be ok i think but my fren nak tau u dah how far along...

 

[nabmum]

*mamaliz*
Hehe lupa... me is 25 weeks

can work til late november

 

[mamaliz]

nor...
my fren cakap dia cant afford to take u lahh...pasal the F1 is a very hectic period and she tak berani take on pt preggy takut u jatuh sakit nanti...sorry eh...she said after bersalin u nak keje u tanya lagi ...heheh...saper tau u n me can werk sama sama kat sana...free food good pay n incentives..

 

[minibear]

Salam utk mummies smua. Thks to Noni1, or else i tk tau ada lelaman nie..

 

[nshah]

hello all.. dah lama seh tak singgah sini hehe..
if nora aw tak kasi this link, ku terus lupa noh..

btw apa khabar smua?? masih ingat daku? hehe *cam mana peh famous je*

 

[nshah]

mamaliz, ku baru add u in my msn.. if free mai chat hor..

 

[amaars_mom]

Hi all,

Sri has been in pain since Thursday. She went to delivery suite on Friday nite. Doc said she has contractions already but dilate only 1 cm. Doc said if contractions don't go away she has to be warded till she delivers. baby now weigh 2.8kg.

I sms her again but no reply. I'll be going to KK now for check up. If she reply, I'll go and visit her.

A bit confused with her explanantions. Why cannot induce huh?

 

[mami]

hi...

i nk join u mommies blh? i tk tau pun ade malay thread.hehehe

 

[noni1]

all are welcome la.. no problem.

nshah
tu la lame taknampak kat sini, ingat merajuk ke.

mademoiselle
ah ah eh, kenape tak bole induce??? tak kan she has to stay in hospital and endure pain sampai dia dilate,berape hari tu nak tuggu.. ish.. update us la kalau u jumpe dia.

lynzi
kedai sinseh Jin Tai is at bik 445 la. tapi blok blok kat situ semue sambung sambung. might be gg there tonite. You nak beli susu/diaper ape, i bole chk kan price ye. Let me know la.