I've gained approx 3-4kg, depending what day/time I weigh myself.... Morning less... at night is food baby so weight gain usually more at night. Hhahaha.
Imo, basic courtesy like receiving AP with 2 hands and saying thank you is a must, regardless of whether you are shy or not. With my younger cousins and cousin's kids I am quite strict, if they take with 1 hand, I will not let go, and say in front of them (and their parents),"what must you say..."
Usually they get the message. But I only do this with my side of the family....
But like
@yingzz's son who is only 2 years old, then I will close one eye, cuz still very young, still need time to "train". Once they reach kindergarten, must at least be able to greet and have some manners....
With my hubby's side of the family, because I am not close to them, I usually will leave it to my hubby to give the AP... I don't think he is as strict as me though.... sometimes I ask him who is so-and-so whom he just gave the AP to, he can reply me "dunno... younger than me, so I give lor..."
Faints.