Hi! Trying to catch up on the posts..
Wlilian: Do have a gd talk with your hb on your concerns. Our hormones make us quite emo so that might have made u feel more upset by things he does or says. Stay positive!
Maternity clothes/bra
My nehs didnt increase in cup size during #1, only felt fuller. But my underbust expanded so I used bra extenders. Because I latch at home, I'm usually bra-less at home so bgt 2-3 nursing bras for going out. The rest I bought normal non-wired bra. I bgt normal undies midi cut but 1 size bigger coz I dun like the maternity undies band covering my tummy.
For clothes, I bgt long loose tops to go with normal leggings that are 1-2size bigger. Normal dresses with loose cutting. Invested in 2-3 maternity shorts for casual outings. During #1 I bgt some maternity wear from Gmarket but find the quality so-so. Maybe coz it's from china/Taiwan. Yet to try buying from the Korean sellers.
I've the waist band extender for jeans/pants. The one with button/hook to wear with zip open. It works fine for me but duno when tummy bigger still useful or not.
Pumps
I've a Medela Freestyle & Medela Harmony manual pump. I bgt the manual pump in case freestyle spoilt or when I need to clear milk after latch or when got blocked ducts. But end up used it 3-4x only coz Freestyle didn't break down, I didn't have excess milk after latch & manual pump couldn't clear my blocked ducts. My bb cleared it
Tummy
At wk15 my tummy is finally showing, depending on what I wear. Someone gave up her seat to me in mrt tdy