Hi BB,
Initially, my MIL wants to help out. And I am very thankful about it. But she say she can't stay with us 24/7. I wonder I am first-time mum, there are a lot of things I do not know. And how am I going to cope at night with my new helper alone? Although, I believe my hubby will wake up to help, as he's first-time dad. He needs to work the next day, I can't expect him to help every night too.
I do have concern that MIL is afterall not my mum, and I don't really dare to direct her do things whenever I want to.
As for my mum, she's having knee problems and she's helping my elder sister to take care of her 2 kids, age 4 and 9. On weekend, my younger sister will bring her 2 kids, age 1 and 6 over too. So, I don't really wanna tire my mum out further.
As for helper, we will be engaging one end of the year. Currently, my hubby and I enjoy "Er Ren Shi Jie", and we prefer to do our housework ourselves every weekend. Since pregnancy, he is the one doing most of the chores. I only do ironing. = )
When I think about my family is going to grow from 2 to 5 people in the household, I do have some concerns too haha.