mummy monkey - my hb is actually quite excited at the prospects of parenthood. i'm excited too but i dont tell him that because
1) i am the one who always shout "i'm tired"
2) dont get to get hopes too high first
We are also staying on our own but PILs and Parents are quite near us (PILS 10mins drive away and Parents 10mins walk away). My MIL isnt working but she helps to look after SIL's 2 daughters during weekdays. My mum isnt working but she has a super packed social life (MJ, KTV, Makan, Trips).
cos we living ourselves, both PIL and parents are working.. my parent live quite far from me.. so tt time i asked him about infant care etc.. like maybe we should find out more as part of the planning.. he didn't talk much, it's something like, when happen then think lo.. cos dunno when will pregnant also mah..
But I think if I really can hit jackpot, both will be willing to help. Only thing is we need to add 1 more manpower (CL/Maid). Cos we still have 4 dogs with us.