Starry
Really ur bb now is 10w. Oh i shd be expecting the same when it'my turn month end. I also forgot how is the growing stages and it makes me feel like a 1st time mom all over again. Being preggy is always special, i dare say everytime.
MS
yes it can be so bad which i din know then as i was not a mom . It seemed so bad that she was constantly in the toilet puking until she looked so haggard. It drained her body and soul, she looked sick instead. I supposed her bb girls were really growing very well hence the symptoms. I think after the 2nd girl, she prob stops wanting another bb. I have another english friend, she was the same as well with her 2 boys. She was puking like the whole 4 months or even more and she was constantly at home. I think whether bb boy or girl, it really depends on moms' body when u will have severe ms.
Spotting
When i had my #1, i was not working. When i spotted, i laterally was on the bed the whole day. The moment i strained myself, the spotting returned. I mean i just walked or exerted a little strength, i spotted. I was so scared i dared not even move much even on bed hence i think many of u prob think besides taking the pills or jabs, u will be better. Wrong, it is to stabilise and help bb implant himself/herself to your womb properly and not worsen the condition but u shd also reduce daily movement and activity as well. If u have kids, prob got to get a temp helper/ relatives/ family or cc to help u pull thr at least the 1st trimester.
My friend who miscarried her #2, conceived shortly again within 6mth. Her #3 who is now 3m old gave her spotting in 1st trimester. She was very scared becoz she had mc a few months then and called me. I told her to bedrest, leave her #1 with maid. Instructed her to eat on bed etc and no carrying of #1. She was also on pills to stabilise and she was not even working as well. Hence u see, she was not working, had a maid and still spotted so bedrest is mandatory. Hope my sharing is not to scare u or put any moms off but to encourage u the importance of bedrest to minimise spotting. Brown spotting is signs of old blood. Any fresh pink/red spotting, u must immediately call gynae to alert him/her and ask them for next course of action.