butter8
i think im in the sama sama situation (eg 2 kids + maid) as you but im not sure why it seems like your maid is always bz with housework?
your #1 in kindergarten rite? is he home in daytime?
my #1 is in cc so daytime im most free. come evenings i have to look after 2 like u...
i make it as such that my maid cooks lunch, but not dinner, so that she wont spend the next 1 or 2hrs wiping my oily kitchen. i tingkat my dinner. in this way, she is free to assist me whenever i need her help
lunch is simple affair so no need to wipe down
she wakes up at 6am, and between 6am-7am, she will wipe the bb/playroom, then everyone wakes up at 7am, i send #1 to school, she helps me look after #2
then we take turns to look after bb...she clears housework as per my given schedule...then cook lunch, after lunch she is relatively free...
then 3-4pm she starts to prepare for dinner (she makes soup + 1 dish to supplement tingkat)
i pump at 4, then fetch my son at 5pm
my son is back home at 5pm, by then tingkat arrives...
i help my son with dinner while i gobble down mine, bb put in rocker...i rock with my legs if need be [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
then if need to feed bb during my dinner, helper will feed bb, then her turn to eat...after that she cut fruits, wash up everything, wash #1 school uniforms, #2 clothes n soiled linens...
after dinner, #1 either play with toys or watch tv....i admit sometimes im not free, so i plonk him infront of tv too...
i try to put my bb to sleep, between 7-730pm. if she cannot KO by then, i will ask helper to look after her while i put my son to sleep at 8.30
then i pump once more (helper will look after bb at this time), then i put bb to sleep at 9+ or 10pm (latest), while my maid goes for her shower
then everyone in the household sleep lor. after 10pm, its my own free time to do what i want, yippee