won_mummy, you have the exact worries when I was a first time mummy. As you go along, maternal instinct becomes stronger, and you'll know how to handle the diff situations.
For BF, the nurses at TMC assisted me. It was not only tough, it was also a painful experience. When I got home, it was really stressful because I had no supply until the next few days. Even developed magtitis, fever from bf. I guess it's very much learning with hands on. I did lots of research while starting to bf. Don't be too worried, after the tough period, it's very easy!
For bathing, my CL taught me how to bathe the bb, it was pretty easy too. There's free lessons to attend at TMC after u deliver too...