Joodz-
The movie date sounds nice. Do take the opportunity to apologise also? Sometimes when we take the first step to apologise, our spouses do appreciate it... And they might respond in kind. =)
Hugs! It is always good to be honest with ourselves and see from a third person's perspective. I think that that really helped me get out of my depression. As long as we are in denial that the problem is something that requires us to learn how to let go (and for me to let God), we will always cling to these issues or even blame others for our misery. I see that with my Mum a lot and I love her but I dun wanna be like her.
She can't get along with Kae like we can and she blames us for it, but she doesnt realise it is the way she is very negative in what she says and very abrasive in the way she deals with people. I had a talk with her the other day, I told her I am not excusing Kae's rudeness to her the other evening and caned him for it (my two basic rules for K- no lying, no rudeness... u control your reaction even though you cannot control other people's actions), but that she needed to understand that sometimes the issue lies with her attitude & told her frankly that it took me a long time to learn how to not let her remarks trigger anger in me. She was quite quiet and I know over the last 2 years, after being very frank and patient with her, we can see a change. Hubby and I also believe that it is God that is doing the changes as we often pray for her.
cNicole-
HURRAH! I am happy that all is well and that you are fine, as are the babies. =D HUGS!!!!
Debbie-
HUGS! Yea I was confused too because I read the same thing in the pregnancy books. I guess that is why our Pastor's wife was telling us that it is good to read up, but must know how to disregard any information that might stumble one's faith. Like you, I am also a Christian and I am trying to not throw the baby out with the bathwater when I read up on pregnancy, but also learning to lean more on God's promises of good for us. Do check out my blog? I posted up some prayers and bible verses for Christian expectant mummies there. They are from books by Nerida Walker and Jackie Mize & of coz the bible. =D
I have been speaking over my body and telling my placenta to move up to a good and high location in the name of Jesus. Also told Noah to help me nudge the placenta up hahaha. =)
My blog's
http://bygracealone.tumblr.com fyi. And my email's on the website as well so we can keep in touch via email as well to encourage each other with bible verses or reflections that some might feel is not be appropriate to share on a multiracial/ multireligious website. =D
Nathanael is a lovely name! =) I went with Noah Isaac because the HS put it in my name as I was praying about baby in the shower. =D And I felt it was also Daddy God's way of saying that this pregnancy will be a restful and joyful one like our child will be. =)
Baywater-
Actually, and we learned this from putting Kae in 2 diff childcare/kindergartens when he was younger, it is better to not hang around after you leave the kid at the school. So your girl's teachers are handling it very well. =D
Just to share-
For Kae's first childcare, parents were allowed to hang about and even walk to the classroom doors to peek in. And we realised the kids were very tearful and took a fairly long time to adjust. Kae hated that school as well because he felt it wasn't challenging enough in the syllabus and he felt bored. Lol. It was Cambridge childcare or kindergarten I think. My mum signed him up for it.
In the end, we took him out for a year because my Dad and I got very frust trying to get him to go school every morning.
It helped because when we signed him up for his next kindergarten- we went with Living Sanctuary Kindergarten, it was a lot better in terms of experience. Kae was still clingy but the school was very wise. The teachers and principal made it clear that parents are only allowed to drop the kids off, and then later have to go. It was only for the first 2 days that we were allowed to observe from afar. After those 2 days, once the kids go to their classes that was seperated from the school hall by a door, the parents would not be allowed in.
We realised kids adjusted so fast! And to distract them at the assembly, they played fun cartoons for the kids to watch, organised them, sat them down. Sang the national anthem, said pledge, said their prayer (it is a Church kindy) and off they went.
No tears. No tantrums. No problem!
Kae was so enthusiastic about going to school and would come home singing and telling us about his teachers and friends. And the teachers are so loving... the kids would hug them and make cards for them coz their teachers sayang-ed them a lot.
The curriculum was good also. Very fun. And I was surprised they taught them about the water cycle etc whilst in Kindy. Kae grew up very well in LSK and learned respect, love and kindness. He also grew to love the Chinese language although we brought him up mostly in English (my Dad, who baby sat him when I went back to school and when I worked, cannot speak Chinese).
So all our future kids will be sent to LSK too. It's something hubby and I agreed on. =) We like the school, its environment and the values they inculcate in the kids. =) If you stay around Hougang/Serangoon/ AMK area, it is worth checking out in future. You don't have to be Christian to put the kids there and for me, beyond the Christian songs they learn, it is the heart of the school that I really appreciate.
U should have seen the teachers and principals when one of the little kids fell ill with cancer. They prayed for her and visited her. Showed a lot of love and went all out to help the kid's family and give them support. Gan dong! I dun think PAP educators would have gone all out like that, although I am not dissing PAP kindergartens as I was a PAP kindy kid too. =)
Baywater-
Thanks for sharing ur pregnancy story! Aiya he nag you coz he love u mah... and he wants u to be in gd health. =D Cute twist at the beginning. I also dloaded one of those apps initally hehehe. Now I have one folder of pregnancy apps hahaha. Find some of them to be very good.
If you use iphone/ ipod touch/ ipad... these are the apps I really like:
Baby Centre app (informative and has videos!)
What to Expect when you are expecting app (informative)
I'm expecting app (tells u if ur weight gain is ok or off the charts when u key in each week lol)
All free =D