jeanie tan, yah I wanna know wat they learn in class too, paid ald can't go, very sad....If its other ppl I wld praise, I very stubborn de, so yaya, I won't praise! Plus, the kid nt even a fast-learner in 1st plc. I noe some grandparents wld go overboard by praising their own grandkid, but also nt liddat! I always tell my mum to dun boast abt A. The same aunt go n make my mil feel imbalance!!! They were talking abt going for some concert by those old time singers, my hb gave mil the $ for the concert, mil said very ex, dowan, then the aunt go n say in front of my mum "u help to look after A, its ying gai he give u the $" in front of my mum lei!!! My mil only look after A like 20% of the time while my mum look after 80%.