blink: it is the same? what's ur girl's chinese characters? do u mind a similar sounding boy in the same thread?
anyway. i am pissed with my maid now. .:S
teng is feeling warm.. 37.6 degrees with the ear thermometer.. for some kids it is nomrla.. for teng.. not quite coz his ear temp seldom go past 37..like mine. unles we sick.. so we cancel out evening plans and just stay at home..
my maid earlier on requested to go out for a short while after teng sleeps tonight (8+) to meet her uncle who will help her send her things to her kids in philipines. i agreed..will meet her uncle at Jurong East..
now on hearing that we wun be going out.. she requested going out to meet her uncle after she fed teng dinner!.. hmmm.. claiming that her uncle will stay and wait for her at JE if she goes later (maybe around 530).. i find it incredulous that she will ask.. almost like.. 'oh great! teng is sick.. now i can go out earlier?!'..
miser said i over-reacting.. and i didn't answer her lah. miser did.. stupid man. didn't catch the glare i threw him. and allowed her.. she said she will have her dinner when she is back..
hmm.. i believe i am a good a boss to work with.. earlier this morning.. she wants to go ntuc to buy her kids stuff when teng is sleeping. ok go buy.. she wants to have off on a particular day coz she wants to celebrate her bday with her frens. ok go.. last year christmas.. she wants to have an additional day off and stay over her fren's house to celebrate christmas.. fine, go..
i dun have fixed set of rules in my house.. and i am the open-minded kind. i believe everyone should be given the same respect.. maid or no maid.. and if i treat pple well, it shows.. and when u want to bite the hand who feeds u.. u sinned. not me..
pple find it incredulous i can still 'control' her.. givne how lasseiz faire i am.. she is very intelligent.. and smart.. also..she can handle everything about teng with minimum monitoring.. something which i appreciates in her also..
and she knows.. i am a good boss to work for in com parision to the last boss whom she had to report and ask for permission to eat anything (i just contrasting to see the diff, i dun mean to say mummies here who do so are bad or what. pardon my bluntness. i pissed off now lah)..
miser asked me to be realistic.. saying 'only ur kids matter to u most'.. wah liew.. pls lah.. i tink she can be smart enough to not even think of requesting right?!
go now, meet at JE, go later also meet at JE. what's the diff? now pass things to ur uncle it gets sent to philipines IMMEDIATELY meh?.. and aren't u worried that teng is feeling warm? haiz *sigh*
miser said i not considerate enough.. i asked if he is the maid,.. will he request to go our earlier? he said yes! .. gosh. now i think i am the one having the fever.. not teng! the temp is SO high that i cannot think properly!