*jenifur*
uhmm...ya right...thanks...actually hub quite pissed off with me yesterday
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he sounds harsh and said exactly same as u: okay u want boy right? give u a boy without bladder...i'll see how happy u will be...(so bad one....)
*mama to 6Js*
uhmm...yes...i will be strong...it cld juz be a blessing in disguise, like u said God knows best, maybe he knows i am the soft type, even give me a filial son, i might be bullied by a 'noti dil'...or maybe he feels that hub and me are 'kind being' and the bb girls given to us will definitely be luv, treated well and be protected fr unfair treatments unlike in other parts of the world...anyway what to do...it's a healthy bb and i already 'promised' bb that if she don't end up as miscarriage, i'll keep her. bt she has to do her job to grow well and healthy and mommy will not try to do anything to substain the pregnancy if there's any spotting or threaten miscarriage symptoms...(i know i sound very mean...)
AND she really turns out to be a healthy bb and growing well...anyway fr beginning i knew she will be a healthy bb, no doubt and no worries abt that. HOW COME? coz the more u don't want the bb, the more the bb will stick to u...it's like that de...
*funny*
u are lucky in a sense lor...to meet nice pple...bt hor so many times i also tell pple that i don't mind having girls coz it's fated and this kind of things we don't have a choice one...we accept whatever is given to us...then pple give us the 'DOUBT FACE'...
AND the irony things is, actually there are pple who tell me it is so good to have girls. when i said 3 daughters, they will laugh: kekeke...ho ho ho (gd gd gd, not as in santa claus hohoho), za bor ho...za bor you hao (filial) wu lao boo eh sim (closer to mom)...these pple usually turned out to be the elderly (in their 70s, 80s) leh...thought they shld be very conservative...those who make stupid comments are usually younger pple....