dolly,
thanks... my mum was supportive even though she din breastfeed last time too. she even says tat she has to learn all abt babycare from scratch again. cos there's jus too much new info which her generation din haf or use. haiz... dat's the issue wif staying wif inlaws, damn sian one...
no lah, she knows those damn simple nursery rhymes lor... who doesnt knw twinkle twinkle little stars or ba ba black sheep right? there are also nursery rhymes in cantonese version wat.
chris38,
good luck, wish u a smooth delivery. update us wif ur birth story soon.
annie,
i know u cant stand ur inlaws too. u r lucky cos ur hb is willing to stay over at ur parents' plc instead in the meanwhile. for me, i cant. talk before le... stay here until punggol flat ready...
i wld like to stay over at my mum's plc for confinement, at least i can haf peace, BUT my mum dunno hw to do confinement!
and i cant let my mum take care of my baby, cos my mil is currently already babysitting and everyone, including my mum say dat i cant let my mum take care of my baby cos
(1) my mil is babysitting 2 kids le, so she has the "relevant so-called experience",
(2) my mum stays at bedok and my mil at sembawang.. too far away,
(3) and im staying wif inlaws, ppl will talk if i let my mum take care of baby while staying wif inlaws.
haiz, jia jia you ben nan nian de jin...
chidori,
menstrual like cramps are actually mild contractions. if it gets worse, call ur gynae ok?
u r lucky to haf CL... i dun haf a choice... mil and everyone says she can do confinement and if we hire a CL, it will be like giving her no face...
sorry for this long post