Hello ladies, I'm still at work, going home soon, brain freeze by now.. can't help looking at this thread, about the hospital choices.
Tinibubu, TubbyMummy, Superbee
I'm with dr Adrian as well. I think Superbee was referring to me, I shared about dr Adrian's preferences of TMC when I asked him which hospital to go.
My relative was with dr Adrian as well, and she delivered at MAH, dr Adrian very chop-chop style, and I was initially a bit worried, but my relatives said that during the delivery, he acted very quick when her baby's heartbeat was slowing down after pushing for quite some times, and I thot, a quick-actioned gynae is very important at point like that, and by now, I'm quite used to his style, I did my own research, list down and ask him anything I wanted to ask during every visits, as I know he will just go thru the standard drill if I didn't ask him anything.
Back to hospital choices, lookin at my relative & some friends, I also initially die-die choose MAH, not once I thot of TMC. Until.. I went for the tour, and got a lady named Auntie Betty who brought us thru the tour. She only talked to the caucasian couple, and rushes thru the tour, she even just walked off even tho some of us are still left behind. When we asked questions, she gave me and the other couple an irritated look. I only managed to ask her 3 questions, in which the answer is just 1) go check the website; 2) you can call the hotline; 3) later you ask the front desk lah. I didn't get to see the deluxe single, but as she dashed, she said "it's no diff from the single room".. so cold & unfriendly, but one thing is that, all the other nurses we walked pass during the tour, they all seem nice and friendly.. maybe that auntie is havin her post-menopause syndrome or something, dunno, but she's very very cranky & grumpy..
I was utterly disappointed, that's when I decided and called up TMC for a hospital tour 2 weeks later. The lady who brought us thru the tour was quite young, very formal, not extremely friendly, but at least she showed us almost all the rooms (4 bed, 2 bed, single bed and deluxe), we didn't see the suites (balmoral, etc), but I felt it's enough as she showed us the pictures.
I was still undecided between MAH & TMC after that due to the costs, with MAH, there's a special rates for DBS cardholder, while with TMC, I had to apply for the FBI card for $100 discount and gynae's delivery discount (5%)..
So I asked dr Adrian, after all, Tinibubu, as you said, it does matter too how comfortable the gynae with the hospital. dr Adrian is gynae from TMC, he definitely more familiar with the hospital rather than MAH. When he said the nurses at MAH are slow, I asked him why it's such a problem, he said, during delivery, every minutes & seconds counts for the safety of the mother & baby, so can't take your own sweet time. Also, he highlighted that even if we opted for natural birth, shall emergency C-sect is required, at MAH, you'd have to be transfered our of the delivery rm, go upstairs to 4th floor for the C-sect..
But again, it's all back to how comfortable we are with the hospital itself. I think it just happens that I had that cranky lady @MAH.. I told my friend who's going for the tour next week, try not to get auntie betty, most of the others who feels good abt the tour got Sister Raj, so I told her to ask for this lady instead..
Sorry for the long post..