Infant care/SAHM:
If possible, I would also like to be my little one's caretaker, but unfortunately I would need to work, leaving my MIL to take care of her. If my MIL eventually cant take care of her, I will put her in childcare center. No choice.
My MIL will be conversing with my little one in cantonese. She cant speak much English. My hubby and I tot that it would be good to let our little one have a good foundation in dialect becos after she goes to school, she will be using English n Mandrain most of the time. Else she will grow up to be like her mummy who doesnt know any dialects and end up blur blur gong gong when other ppl converse in dialects and she feels left out at times. I hope my parents can teach her Teochew and Hokkien too whenever possible. Maybe I have high expectations of my bb lah! hahahaahaa!
CNY Visiting:
hahaha! I have fun 'showing off' my bb bump to all relatives and cousins this CNY. All are commenting that my tummy's really big and pointed! The usual conversation goes like this, "You are sure that you are expecting a girl? But your tummy's so pointed! And you dun like u are pregnant from your backview! Your upperbody's still so slim! Oh what a bad water retention on your hands and feets! Nvm, bb is due anytime now!"
ashleigh/FaithOng/Yan:
hahaha ... not a bad idea to be a SAHM! But I dun think we can rely on my hubby's salary alone. Even if we eat in and spend only the minimum, I think it would be tough going, but apply wisdom in home finance will definately help! But let us see how things go. Staying optimistic is very important!
mummyo:
oh dear, is ur stomach ok now? Take care leh. Dun eat too much and suffer unnecessary!
ginn:
Wah!! So good! U going on ML already! I still have abt 2 weeks to go before I start my ML!
blueb:
hahaaa ... by taking Neurogain doesnt improve memory lah! I am taking it now, but doesnt seemed to help leh! hehehehe! Anyway my feet swelled twice of its size since yesterday. I think wat ur friend said is correct. I went out today and stand/walked for sometime while going to my hubby's cousins' hse. Now I totally cant fit into my slipper anymore! Now walking is also a BIG problem. My fingers also cant bend much without pain and aching! Hubby tried to massage top of my feet juz now. I kept going "Ow! Ow! Ow!". Poor me! Think I'm going to wear my hubby's strap-on sandles to work tmw. Then on Thursday, I'm going to ask my gynae for 2D MC to stay at home until next week. Cant go out anyway since I dun have a spare slipper and really painful to walk now.
Anyway on waterproof sheet, I put it on my bedsheet, as I'd just changed new bedsheets for CNY so dun wan it to get dirty and etc. My hubby doesnt change bedsheets becos he'd got sensative nose. The bad thing abt this option is that at nite when we flipped or move ah, the sheets might shift position too
So it may not totally offer 100% waterproof protection from our bedsheet
Tonite I'll tape 2 sheets together to form a bigger piece. That shld make the sheet stays in place. U decide and see how u want to go abt this
joycie:
Agree with Sandy. By having dialation doesnt mean that have to induce. Better to wait for contractions unless otherwise advised by gynae.
Iceblue/Yan:
ha! My bb also continuing her no-shadow kick of Wang Feihong's at my ribcage. Ouch! I think she'd engaged already as I'm feeling lots of pressure on my pelvis region since 1week plus ago. But I dare not scold my bb lah. There was once I scolded her for kicking non stop as I was in an impt meeting and needed full concentration. Bb returned the favour by not kicking the entire afternoon, leaving her mummy so worried sicked! Later her mummy apologised for scolding her and explained the reason so. Bb only resumed her kicking after that. So now I dun wan to scold her unnecessary
Scared liao
princessdella:
CONGRATS!!! We have another mummy added to our delivered list! Wow ... without epidural too! Do share with us bb's photo when you are available!
Sandy:
Thanks for telling us abt princessdella and also update the table!