spicegalklsl
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Mrs Yap, my hubby on top leh. In the end, I conceived a girl. This time hope to get a boy. So I can close shop liao. haha.
(2008) Anyone TTC-ing for 2008 baby?
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littlenotes76
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Hi Peppermintt
Sorry to hear that you lost ur first at 23 weeks. Can I ask you how long it took you to get over it? I lost my 3rd in August at 25 weeks and till now, no reasons have been established
Can't get over it and I feel that I need to try again to really get past this... How long did you wait before you tried for your 2nd one? Sorry to ask you this, but really getting to me. So much to the point I am wondering if i shd go and see a psychiatrist....
Sorry to hear that you lost ur first at 23 weeks. Can I ask you how long it took you to get over it? I lost my 3rd in August at 25 weeks and till now, no reasons have been established
Avocado: My case quite similar to yours for our #1. In my case, we haven't actually started ttc-ing. Got back from our honeymoon and discovered we're pregnant liao..
Now 1st month ttc-ing for #2.. Last month hubby overseas so didn't have chance to try..
Baby dust, baby dust to all...
Now 1st month ttc-ing for #2.. Last month hubby overseas so didn't have chance to try..
Baby dust, baby dust to all...
Hi littlenotes76,
i understand how u feel. The strong feeling of having another.. to give yourself a closure.
I lost mine 4 mths ago. I tried when my gynae gave me the ok. Initially I was found with polyp. Was given medication and it's found cleared during my latest visit. Then i started ttc. The interval is abt 3 mths. Best is to check with ur gynae when u can try. And to build up ur health. Take folic acid and maybe bai feng yuan to regulate ur menses. I did read from the net that best is to wait 3 menstruation cycles. But some juz waited 1 or 2 cycles. I think the most imp thing is when u are emotional ready in addition to physically ready.
If seeing a psychiatrist will help go ahead. Do watever things u find will help you. For me i read books to cope with my grief as well as talking to pple who has the same experience as me.
Be strong and do take care!
i understand how u feel. The strong feeling of having another.. to give yourself a closure.
I lost mine 4 mths ago. I tried when my gynae gave me the ok. Initially I was found with polyp. Was given medication and it's found cleared during my latest visit. Then i started ttc. The interval is abt 3 mths. Best is to check with ur gynae when u can try. And to build up ur health. Take folic acid and maybe bai feng yuan to regulate ur menses. I did read from the net that best is to wait 3 menstruation cycles. But some juz waited 1 or 2 cycles. I think the most imp thing is when u are emotional ready in addition to physically ready.
If seeing a psychiatrist will help go ahead. Do watever things u find will help you. For me i read books to cope with my grief as well as talking to pple who has the same experience as me.
Be strong and do take care!
Peppermint: I read from the july thread that you're spotting. Maybe you shd go see a gynae soon. Spotting can be normal but can be otherwise as well. Sorry to say this, but esp since you had a history. The gynae is able to give you hormone pills and a jab to stabilise the foetus. Rest well in the meantime..
oneboyonegirl
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There goes hope for ttc-ing in dec... hubby not in town... can onli be back 4 days after ovulation day... too bad... probably we can try harder in Jan08... our 1st yr wedding anniversary
avocado, my cramping started during the 2ww so i thot my af coming .. my af late for 3 days then i tested le cos my af all along v "zhun" one ... act other than the cramp i dun have any other symptoms le ... i dun even felt pain in my breast ... but now i still have the cramp ....
wannabmummy
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Hi Ladies,
long time nvr post here liao? Can i ask if ttc-ing the BD position issit important coz my HB the "S" alwaz flow out of my "v" no matter how long i lift my butt
long time nvr post here liao? Can i ask if ttc-ing the BD position issit important coz my HB the "S" alwaz flow out of my "v" no matter how long i lift my butt
wannabmummy
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Piggy,
coz usuali we use the ger on top position so tinking will i get preg with this position?
coz usuali we use the ger on top position so tinking will i get preg with this position?
btw, gals,
i also m/c in june this year... and had already tried 2 cycles... now into my 3rd cycles.... hopefully can strike soon... cos i see my friends 1 by 1 getting preg... the feeling is very strange.... i feel happy for them... but yet i feel sad for myself.........
but we jia you together... hopefully we'lll have bb in our arm one day......
i also m/c in june this year... and had already tried 2 cycles... now into my 3rd cycles.... hopefully can strike soon... cos i see my friends 1 by 1 getting preg... the feeling is very strange.... i feel happy for them... but yet i feel sad for myself.........
but we jia you together... hopefully we'lll have bb in our arm one day......
hi xuanting and kit mum_mum2b, i used to be in the m/c thread.
juz to share that maybe u gals can try taking royal jelly and pre-natal pills.
Naturefarm is selling this pre-natal pills name Twinlab. juz take 2 capsules everyday and its suitable for ttc and pregnant ladies. u can try asking the store assistants for more details.
juz to share that maybe u gals can try taking royal jelly and pre-natal pills.
Naturefarm is selling this pre-natal pills name Twinlab. juz take 2 capsules everyday and its suitable for ttc and pregnant ladies. u can try asking the store assistants for more details.
wannabmummy
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Saki,
agree with you..juz 1 sperm but that 1 sperm seem diffcult leh.. i TTC for 4 years in the end surrnder to ICSI last year and gave birth this June..now TTC #2..
Xuanting & Kit ma,
sori to hear.. i bought alot Folic but haven touch on it..forgot abt it..
agree with you..juz 1 sperm but that 1 sperm seem diffcult leh.. i TTC for 4 years in the end surrnder to ICSI last year and gave birth this June..now TTC #2..
Xuanting & Kit ma,
sori to hear.. i bought alot Folic but haven touch on it..forgot abt it..
wannabmummy
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Piggy,
ya lo.. i knw.. but i prefer to be up..that's y ask issit important for position..haiz..muz change liao..
ya lo.. i knw.. but i prefer to be up..that's y ask issit important for position..haiz..muz change liao..
oneboyonegirl
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hi good morning ladies... for those who already had a baby, is it really strenous for the back to support the baby to full term? Is it v painful everyday or occasionally when u do more strenous activities?
Cos i had a history of slip disc and i always experience backache and stiff back even when i am not preg... So what shd i do to strengthen my back?? any exercise or medicine? I heard of the herb DuZhong... my aunt passed me some and i brewed it and drink for 3 nights... however, it delayed my menses for 1 week... anyone had any backache experience b4 / during pregnancy can share with me on this? Your replies much appreciated.. Thanks
Cos i had a history of slip disc and i always experience backache and stiff back even when i am not preg... So what shd i do to strengthen my back?? any exercise or medicine? I heard of the herb DuZhong... my aunt passed me some and i brewed it and drink for 3 nights... however, it delayed my menses for 1 week... anyone had any backache experience b4 / during pregnancy can share with me on this? Your replies much appreciated.. Thanks
Hi xuanting, saki,
i find eating those capsule very difficult to swollow... sigh...
i read from website that evening primrose helps to make the mucus better quality so sperm is easier to swim inside... so i taking every evening 1 capsule (its so huge, suppose to take 2, but i think 1 enuff liao...)
u gals heard of bai feng wan? thinking of trying tat to "tiao" my menses... cos my menses very long cycle (range from 35-42 days) leh.... can tat help to regulate menses?
i find eating those capsule very difficult to swollow... sigh...
i read from website that evening primrose helps to make the mucus better quality so sperm is easier to swim inside... so i taking every evening 1 capsule (its so huge, suppose to take 2, but i think 1 enuff liao...)
u gals heard of bai feng wan? thinking of trying tat to "tiao" my menses... cos my menses very long cycle (range from 35-42 days) leh.... can tat help to regulate menses?
wannabmummy
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Re: place the pillow below butt..
usuali i cannot slp w/o washing leh coz sperm follow out..
usuali i cannot slp w/o washing leh coz sperm follow out..
thanks, saki and kit. i will read up more about the supplements you've recommended.
kit, i'm not sure if bai feng wan can help to shorten your cycle although i've heard that it can help those with problematic periods. are you still seeing your tcm doc?
hi hui, how about lying down very quickly after that? you can clean yourself with wet tissues first and head to the toilet after you are done putting your butt up?
i read somewhere that the sperms take about 15 minutes to travel one inch (grand accomplishment for them), and to reach the fallopian tubes where an egg might be waiting, at least 45 minutes but more usually up to 12 hours (because they swim in all directions and dart around blindly). if this lying down really helps, i think we should all try to stay put for as long as we can tahan.
kit, i'm not sure if bai feng wan can help to shorten your cycle although i've heard that it can help those with problematic periods. are you still seeing your tcm doc?
hi hui, how about lying down very quickly after that? you can clean yourself with wet tissues first and head to the toilet after you are done putting your butt up?
i read somewhere that the sperms take about 15 minutes to travel one inch (grand accomplishment for them), and to reach the fallopian tubes where an egg might be waiting, at least 45 minutes but more usually up to 12 hours (because they swim in all directions and dart around blindly). if this lying down really helps, i think we should all try to stay put for as long as we can tahan.
hi hui, yes ttc process can be really tiring and stressful..
hi kit, the pre-natal pills is those normal size of capsule but i feel they helps me in the ttc process cos they have a lot of vits and nutrients that are important for ttc and pregnant ladies. but not sure if it applies 2 all cos some preggies will feel like vomitting cos of the smell if they pop it before having their breakfast.
hi kit, the pre-natal pills is those normal size of capsule but i feel they helps me in the ttc process cos they have a lot of vits and nutrients that are important for ttc and pregnant ladies. but not sure if it applies 2 all cos some preggies will feel like vomitting cos of the smell if they pop it before having their breakfast.
wannabmummy
New Member
Celeste,
not bad idea..
Piggy,
i do wear panty liner..haha..very will wet the liner and very uncomfortable..
Xuanting,
12hrs for the to flow? very long leh..
Saki,
ya lor..
not bad idea..
Piggy,
i do wear panty liner..haha..very will wet the liner and very uncomfortable..
Xuanting,
12hrs for the to flow? very long leh..
Saki,
ya lor..
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wannabmummy
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Piggy,
i tink so..coz wet tissue i try b4..still sticky leh..
Xuanting,
i didn't know take so long..thanks for the info
i tink so..coz wet tissue i try b4..still sticky leh..
Xuanting,
i didn't know take so long..thanks for the info
bebecraze08
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Hi hi
Same as woofwoof....i would like to know if clomid treatments would require frequent visits to the clinic. I have irregular periods hence would probly require clomid pills for ovulation.
I also have another concern. Recently gotta a good job offer and am now in dilemna whether i should ask gynae to put me on clomid (will be visting gyane next week). Afraid that frequent visits may cause inconvenience...
Wanted very much to get preggy but on the other hand afraid that new job maybe very demanding and bosses would probly not like it if i were to get pregnant before confirmation period. Any advise? This thing is really causing me headaches...
Same as woofwoof....i would like to know if clomid treatments would require frequent visits to the clinic. I have irregular periods hence would probly require clomid pills for ovulation.
I also have another concern. Recently gotta a good job offer and am now in dilemna whether i should ask gynae to put me on clomid (will be visting gyane next week). Afraid that frequent visits may cause inconvenience...
Wanted very much to get preggy but on the other hand afraid that new job maybe very demanding and bosses would probly not like it if i were to get pregnant before confirmation period. Any advise? This thing is really causing me headaches...
Taken from past posting from our learned friend, Heinz Beanz (justnew) sharing with us on clomid, since bebecraze08 is asking, i have re-extracted and post it for reference.
Below are some warnings and side effects for Clomid..
Special warnings about Clomiphene Citrate
Your doctor will evaluate you for normal liver function and normal estrogen levels before considering you for treatment with clomiphene.
Your doctor will also examine you for pregnancy, ovarian enlargement, or cyst formation prior to treatment with Clomiphene Citrate and between each treatment cycle. He or she will do a complete pelvic examination before each course of Clomiphene Citrate.
Clomiphene treatment increases the possibility of multiple births; also, birth defects have been reported following treatment to induce ovulation with clomiphene, although no direct effects of the drug on the unborn child have been established.
Because blurring and other visual symptoms may occur occasionally with clomiphene treatment, you should be cautious about driving a car or operating dangerous machinery, especially under conditions of variable lighting.
If you experience visual disturbances, notify your doctor immediately. Symptoms of visual disturbance may include blurring, spots or flashes, double vision, intolerance to light, decreased visual sharpness, loss of peripheral vision, and distortion of space. Your doctor may recommend a complete evaluation by an eye specialist.
Ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome (or OHSS, enlargement of the ovary) has occurred in women receiving treatment with clomiphene. OHSS may progress rapidly and become serious. The early warning signs are severe pelvic pain, nausea, vomiting, and weight gain. Symptoms include abdominal pain, abdominal enlargement, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, weight gain, difficult or labored breathing, and less urine production. If you experience any of these warning signs or symptoms, notify your doctor immediately.
To lessen the risks associated with abnormal ovarian enlargement during treatment with clomiphene, the lowest effective dose should be prescribed. Women with the hormonal disorder, polycystic ovarian syndrome, may be unusually sensitive to certain hormones and may respond abnormally to usual doses of Clomiphene Citrate. If you experience pelvic pain, notify your doctor. He may discontinue your use of clomiphene until the ovaries return to pretreatment size.
Because the safety of long-term treatment with clomiphene has not been established, your doctor will not prescribe more than about 6 courses of therapy. Prolonged use may increase the risk of a tumor in the ovaries.
Below are some warnings and side effects for Clomid..
Special warnings about Clomiphene Citrate
Your doctor will evaluate you for normal liver function and normal estrogen levels before considering you for treatment with clomiphene.
Your doctor will also examine you for pregnancy, ovarian enlargement, or cyst formation prior to treatment with Clomiphene Citrate and between each treatment cycle. He or she will do a complete pelvic examination before each course of Clomiphene Citrate.
Clomiphene treatment increases the possibility of multiple births; also, birth defects have been reported following treatment to induce ovulation with clomiphene, although no direct effects of the drug on the unborn child have been established.
Because blurring and other visual symptoms may occur occasionally with clomiphene treatment, you should be cautious about driving a car or operating dangerous machinery, especially under conditions of variable lighting.
If you experience visual disturbances, notify your doctor immediately. Symptoms of visual disturbance may include blurring, spots or flashes, double vision, intolerance to light, decreased visual sharpness, loss of peripheral vision, and distortion of space. Your doctor may recommend a complete evaluation by an eye specialist.
Ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome (or OHSS, enlargement of the ovary) has occurred in women receiving treatment with clomiphene. OHSS may progress rapidly and become serious. The early warning signs are severe pelvic pain, nausea, vomiting, and weight gain. Symptoms include abdominal pain, abdominal enlargement, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, weight gain, difficult or labored breathing, and less urine production. If you experience any of these warning signs or symptoms, notify your doctor immediately.
To lessen the risks associated with abnormal ovarian enlargement during treatment with clomiphene, the lowest effective dose should be prescribed. Women with the hormonal disorder, polycystic ovarian syndrome, may be unusually sensitive to certain hormones and may respond abnormally to usual doses of Clomiphene Citrate. If you experience pelvic pain, notify your doctor. He may discontinue your use of clomiphene until the ovaries return to pretreatment size.
Because the safety of long-term treatment with clomiphene has not been established, your doctor will not prescribe more than about 6 courses of therapy. Prolonged use may increase the risk of a tumor in the ovaries.