(2008/12) December 2008 MTBs

Kath

Emma goes to Sunflower Babyhouse at Bt Timah...
I pump out my milk at work...and latch her on at home...

Aiyah...not asking hb to drink all the milk...just to suck out the block only mah....hehe....its better that daddy suck it out than mummy falling sick due to blocked ducts right?

your hb is willing to come to the gathering and play babysitter? wow!! not bad ....i think my hb would rather be at home playing babysitter....I think he will get a headache if he sees so many mommies and babies....
 


I nowadays stop pumping liao, i latch him on totally and give 1 feed of FM per day so that he will not reject FM after his 6th month.

My hb will wanna go though he will not talk lar..weekend is his bonding time wif his son but if mummy wanna go out, he has to tag along lor..keke
 
fabbie,
there is someone selling away the sling, i'm contacting her already but only can collect on Sun :-( ... as such i will cancel my order from BP, luckily the organiser said ok to cancel & refund me... hehe!

merydith,
me too... daniell always like to 'bite' my nipple while sucking.. esp when he is hungry but i still dragging his feeding hr... think he wan to revenge... argh!

kath,
i hav to bring Daniell along laa.. coz i got no MIL & own mother in penang ler, so whenever i go must bring him along lor...
so i plan to go as early as possible to avoid the crowd, but wat time the fair open?? u going on fri too?
 
nowadays Zach's feeding time is 4 hourly..how it became like that? I latch him till he totally reject my breast and then I play with him for 2hrs until he gets frustrated then I put him in his yao lan to sleep. This prevents me from rocking the yao lan cos he will sleep immediate his head hits the sarong..haha.

Jes, dont tink I wanna go on Friday lar.. no point since hb alr say go on Saturday liao. I have been bringing Zach out so often last week i scared he get used to it..haha. This week need to bring him to the infantcare cos I need to fill up some forms and get a list of stuff he needs to bring.

Aussino having sale leh.. I bought a few items yesterday for zach - towels, bedseets, etc.
 
Iemiko/bubblepearl/xiaopooh/snowger/ xuelyn/ Pris
we can meet up before going in or meet at Expo MRT control station lor.. We set a time la..

1:30pm or 2pm?

BTW, me not bring baby.

Fabbie & other gals.. joining us??
 
kath,
actually i asked my hubby to go on Sat but he gave me a very 'xian' look, so i'm trying to get his car on fri then i'll go with daniell, if cannot then i will die die pull him along on Sat.. kekee..

btw Zach can drink 4hourly in daytime ar? good ler... Daniell still drink 2-3hrly
 
2nd bb,
I pm u liao

Jowin,
1.30 is fine for me.. u gals bringing bb??

My gal starts to fuss recently oso.. think now she starting to feed on 3 hourly basis liao.. last few days feed her on 2 hourly basis she doesn't wan to drink.. dunno wat happen...

Snowger,
Me on for the gethering at ur plc too.. cfm liao let me noe..
 
Tara
I told my hub he say i crazy. -___- yday he help me press my little lump and it spray out little he can siam like what already.. u say he will help me suck meh?! faints.

jess
wow! u so lucky found a 2nd hand? so how much the person selling u? aiya its okai lar. sunday very fast will come le. rather than u wait for the BP duno when. maybe early or mid march. no fix date de. hehee

Gathering
Yaya sat my hub confirm will tag along de. hehe is hubbie allow to go?

Jowin
Dun think so will be going. maybe will go with hubbie on sat.. wha. so many of you going. makes me feel like going! but too far leh. im still staying at jurong.
 
xuelyn
me not bring Ashlynne..
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bring her along, i no mood to shop n hard to choose n carry things.

Hi kath
tats good tat Zach can be on 4 hrs basis. mine still on 3hrsly... can't stretch till 4.. every 3 hrs her alarm clock surely cry out... I tried to give her more to last till 4 hrs.. but cannot .. extra milk intake.. she puke.
 
jowin
mi both timing oso can. hehe. tinking if i shud bring jayzon along anot. keke. definitely wun bring bb kayson in case there too crowded. scare he catch another bug.
 
fabbie,
she's selling $66, it's BN & she has yet to collect from the BP organiser.. and the one she has is blossom trim although i prefer geisha trim, but never mind la so long as it's not orange or red colour then ok liaa...
 
jo, i din give zach extra milk leh..he naturally stretch to 4hrs for the first time, then after i calculate thought i shuld give him 135ml of FM instead but he cannot finish usually left abt 40ml..though to me FM and BM yield the same result.. i m not complaining and hope that he will keep it up..then i can latch him during work as well..so much easier, i alr keep my pump inside the storeroom liao and this silly mummy went n bought extra pump accessories summore :p
 
hello gals, dunno y my boy has been fussing last 2 nites b4 bedtime, cry cry cry damn long then fall zz =(

2nd baby, how come ur maid so ex one? heh.. i almost got a maid, got exp working in dubai n 2yrs in spore, only $360 per mth leh.

Gathering
Can i come too? Will be fun to c all e mummies n babies. Got a wedding dinner to attend on 14 mar thou, so depends on wat time is e gathering. 21 mar is ok for me. =)
 
Cindy, my maid salary $350 only. Depending on which agency cos I rmb I went to Nation, all filipino salary is $400-$420 depending got off day or not. My maid spoke to Xuelyn's maid and realise the salary difference so ask me y her salary is $350. So bold of my maid leh.

I wanna join in for the gathering too.
 
2nd Baby
If I'm in your shoes, I'll tell the maid that the amount was agreed upon and will be reviewed yearly subject to her performance. If she is not happy, you can get another to replace her. The times are bad and they're also aware that many contracts are terminated so she better learn to value her current job. Don't increase just 'cos she asked as she will get bolder later and ask for more.

Gathering
I want to join too but can only make it if it is on a weekend as I've started work.
 
wah 2ndbaby
ur maid so bold ah... dare to question u like this. faintz..

Hi kath
i see.. its good tat he can stretch to 4hrs on his own.. mine cannot.. but nvm.. cannot mean cannot...let her own system runs.. ** I m like very IT hor**.. hahaha!!!

sell off ur freestyle lor
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dun put it in the storeroom la
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Ade, Jowin, my current maid reali bold. Anyway I have found a replacement and will be sending her to agency this wk. Of cos not only on this issue, but other things that I m unhappy w her.
 
sleeping on bouncer

any of your babies sleeping on bouncer? is it bad for back..?? my boy sleeps on bouncer in the day and doesnt sleep anywhere else.. but night time he is ok to sleep in cot.

he just cant sleep long in the cot during the day. and im afraid it will be bad for his back. heard anything abt this?
 
Jess
ic ic but okai lar. at least ya getting the sling soon! eehee

2ndbaby
ya maid quite old huh. but she seems to be quite smart. she really quite daring sia. and wah. didnt expected that they will talk till like why my salary is so low than others.
 
2nd baby, ur current maid has experience huh? Compare to Xuelyn's urs looks 'smarter', no offence to Xuelyn. Maid shuldnt be allowed to communicate with other maids one lar, they will teach each other stuff which we may not noe cos we dun understand their language mah..so juz be careful.

Mayelynn, i got those mindset whereby sleeping on bouncer is not good for bb's spine.. i notice if my baby sleep in the yao lan, the moment we carry him n place him in the cot he will stretch n stretch..mabbe the bones feel tight..haha
 
fabbie and emeraldbride. ya. she is quite old. She worked in Taiwan for 6 yrs so can be quite scheming. Shd hire a younger one cos she has no energy for my elder girl.
 
Merydith,
ya, next time when our bbs older, must let them hold hands wor..must be very cute de..

Snowger,
The gathering is ok for me..let me know which sat n what time to meet ya..n pm me ur add..When u going back to work? me starting work on 9 march..maybe can meet u for lunchie..

Jowin/Iemiko,
me not goin this friday to the fair le, cos i got no one to look after my bb, and i tink if i bring her go, i wont be able to enjoy my shopping n cant buy much things de..u gals enjoy k..

2nd baby,
Ya, ur maid very bold hor..but i tink is like tat de, especially if they see other maids, they will sure compare on salary n other benefits de..

Me found a nanny for my gal le..am starting her service on 2 march (1 week before I start work)..as for my infant-care deposit, I can only get back 50% nia..better than nothing la..

Me today brought my gal to see PD at kidslink..so many ppl n the waiting time is super long..my gal got tis big n swollen pimple-like thing on the side of her head..dun noe wat it is..i thot is acne but no pus..the PD said maybe some kind of infection..i so scared..got the cream to apply first, then PD asked me to start her on antibiotic 3days later if the swell did not subside..nw pray hard it will go off as i dun wan my gal to take antibiotic unnecessarily..
 
Hi all,
Sorry to intrude. I have a Scarlet Red Maclaren Techno XT 2008 version to let go at $400. 5mths old but rarely use.

Pls pm me if interested.
Thnks!
 
huh so u mean yao lan also not that good huh.. but then how like dat?

cot just not comfortable enough for them.. my mummy says its coz cot too big and not cosy..

i also have this mindset that bouncers not good for spine development. no one told me just that i dont see it as very comfortable.
 
Mrs Ter, u dun accept PM. Thanks

Hi Kath
Yes. i m keeping for my 2nd one..
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Hi 2ndbaby
oic.. some maids are really daring...But realise, usually Filipinos are more " clever" & tend to " chut" patterns.

Hi Mayelynn
my baby sleep in bouncer daily...I think its ok for the back...but i make sure the netting dun get too soft.. have to change when the netting gets soft so tat their spine will not be bent.

Hi kath
ya manz.. i also think they shd not talk too much to other maids. My mum has a maid and she always talk to the neighbour's maid. Sometimes will tell my mum how much the other maid earns etc. My mum will tell her.. if she is unhappy, she can say so and she will send her back n find a new owner.. If she is ok.. she can stay... But lucky my mum's maid still quite ok.. We just renew her contract for another year.
 
jowin

but mine is the fisherprice bouncer.. how to change?

Maids

i recently hired a new maid and her pay is higher than the old one.. so no choice we had to increase the old maid's pay..

been having maids for more than 20 years and my mum and i feel that indonesians are more guai. filipinos tend to be very daring. Indons are more afraid to speak up and are more timid. but aiya after working for a few years most steal money, talk to bangla etc.. cannot help it one.

So...bottomline is... maids cannot give them too much face otherwise they will climb all over ur head!
 
oh.. urs is tat one.. tat one cannot change.. i thought is the netted one. Currently not giving my girl on the fisherprice bouncer as i felt tat is too steep for her spine...

Sorry
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Friday shopping
Pris going with her friend at 11am plus
Xuelyn going with me
Snowger going with her colleague at 1:30pm plus
iemiko anything
Bubblepearl. how??
xiaopooh & Fabbie cannot go

So Xuelyn.. i can go from 1pm onwards... what about you?

i blur already.. N i think it hard to meet up with everyone hor.. kekeke
 
Wah..so many of u gals going on Friday..

Jess, the fair starts at 11am. U wanna go for lunch one of these day? U noe Joanne81 is staying the same block as me?? Hehehe
 
finally Daniell slept... from morning (10am after bath) until juz now, whole day he only napped for half an hour, and it was on & off... me so tired carrying him whole day coz the moment his butt hit the bouncer/swing/cot, he opened his eye & stare at me... & of coz scream like hell... damn tiring!!

mayelynn,
i oso let my boy sleeps on bouncer during daytime, but it's netted one, more cooling bah coz nowadays the weather is damn hot... ya some said not nice for spine esp yao lan but i think ok bah coz not sleeping there for long hrs mah.. at least for my boy...

kath,
fair starts at 11am? hmm.. almost noon liao hopefully wont hav lunch crowd...
lunch? can... i'm ok any of these day.... u got MSN?
btw, who is Joanne81?
 
hi hi, today me 1st day at work and i miss zayden badly.

gathering - wat time? me both days also ok.

baby fair - i can only go on sat cos fri working
 
hi mayelynn
Mine is this type but without the sling in the middle of the bouncer, to hold the baby.. Can change the netting after sometime when become loose.

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Another one i had is the Fisherprice aquarium rocker.. tat one.. its too slant n deep for her spine..
 
eh. i cant find any artical about breast lumps on nipple how to cure.. any one can find? lol im so desprate to clear my lump around my aerola area. haiz. so irritaing. it keep poking my breast. arghz.
 
iemik0,
i'm not sure. my friend suggested marie france..her friends have tried and say it works. but there don't seem to be any promotional offers now... i just want to tighten the tummy flab
 
Fabbie

i saw this article

PLUGGED MILK DUCTS

Sometimes a milk duct leading from the milk-making cells to the nipple gets plugged, resulting in a tender lump beneath the areola. There may also be a wedge-shaped area of redness extending from the lump back towards the wall of the chest. Unlike mastitis, the pain comes and goes with a plugged duct, and unless the duct is infected, you will not feel generally ill. If left untreated, however, a plugged duct may become infected, resulting in mastitis, infection, or a breast abscess.

To unplug the duct and prevent subsequent infection, try these suggestions:

* Continue to breastfeed on the affected side. By any means, get the milk out! This is the golden rule of preventing engorgement, plugged ducts, and mastitis. Use a breast pump or hand expression if baby is unwilling to nurse.

* Breastfeed on the affected side first. Baby's sucking is strongest at the beginning of the feed, so he is more likely to dislodge the plug when he starts on the affected breast.

* Vary the baby's position at the breast, so that all of the milk ducts are drained. Be sure the baby is latched-on well, so that he can nurse efficiently. Try the clutch hold or side-lying position. Before each feeding, massage the affected area by kneading your breast gently from the top of the breast down over the plugged duct toward the nipple.

* Drain the affected breast better by positioning baby so his chin "points" to the area that is sore. For example, if the lump is around 4 o'clock, use the clutch-hold and position baby's chin around this point on the nipple clock. The lower jaw is often most effective at getting milk out of the breast.

* Apply moist heat compresses for a few minutes before feeding or pumping, or soak the affected breast in warm water or in the shower as described under Engorgement

* Rest. Lie down with the baby and nap-nurse.

* If you notice a small, white dot at the end of the milk duct on your nipple, that is the end of a plugged nipple opening. Apply moist heat on this white blister and with a sterile needle gently pop the blister. If this pore stays plugged, it could block milk drainage and lead to a plugged duct and mastitis.

* Try a pressure massage on the area of your breast that is swollen and painful because of a plugged duct. This may help to loosen the plug. With pressure massage, you do not actually move your hand over the skin as you would with a normal massage. You simply press more and more firmly with the heel of your hand to move the plug in the duct down closer to the nipple.

To do pressure massage, start at the edge of the lumpy area closest to your chest wall. Apply pressure to that area with the heel of your hand to the point just before it becomes too painful. Hold the pressure at that level until the pain eases off. Then increase the pressure again, (without moving your hand) and hold it until the pain eases. Continue to gradually increase pressure at that same site until you are pressing as hard as you can. Then pick your hand up, move it down toward your nipple about a half inch, and repeat the pressure massage in this area. Continue moving your hand a half inch and repeating the massage until you get all the way down to the nipple.

You may see the dried milk come out from an opening in your nipple. Even if the plug doesn't actually come out, you will at least have dislodged it and moved it toward the nipple so that when baby goes to the breast and sucks, he will remove it with his suction. Always put baby to the breast on the plugged side first, when his sucking will be the strongest.
 
sigh.. okok im starting to make him sleep on mattress.. get him used to it.

im using the fisher price infant to toddler rocker and have been making him sleep in it for 1mth plus liao! he'll be in it from 11am til night abt 9pm
hope dun have any serious damage.

started the mattress today seems ok *fingers crossed*
 
weather damn bad these daes. jayzon still unwell since fri. ydae he stuck on to mi like a leech coz he got block nose n im looking afta him alone. den todae i brought him bk to my parents' pl n he stick himself to my sis. free time for mi. haha. got yi yi no need mummy. =p

gill
heard marie france effective but veri ex. i oso wan tighten my tummy flab. stupid flab over my wound veri ugly.
 
Hi gals
The bouncer that I'm giving away is similar to the one posted by Jowin. Any takers? Thing is you'll hv to collect from my place.

iemik0
Dun waste money lah, once you get back to work you'll sure slim down. Me now wearing my pre-preggy pants and all since I started work 2 wks ago. Initially when I started, the pants were still tight but now fit nicely liao
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mayelynn, my baby refuses mattress during the day time one lor.. playing on it is okay, but the moment the sleepy bug caught him, he must have the yao lan else he will scream his lungs out like I juz abuse him. And his cries are so high pitched, my ear drum hurts man..haha. But nite time, he will guai guai lie on the bed with no fuss at all. On mental calculation he spent about 5hrs per day on the yao lan on and off.. I have to train him not to sleep on that liao else when he goes to infantcare, that's it.. no yao lan for him!
 



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