(2008/11) November 2008

Aiyo, did my fb status abt studio photoshoot triggered sum arguments. I realli hope not. If so, am so sorry leh..
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Olwen/jes
Im fine wit my gal lose weight a bit. Actually when i go to kk it was for her toddlers diarrhea which was supposedly b the last visit cos the case is closed. Then the doc said her weight is dropping. Asked what milk we give i said friso lor. Then she said before tt is pediasure mite have to put her on again. She also discovered tt shes eating lesser and gave us a date to come back to check on her. Im already stress ab her diarrhea and nw this. Haiz...hence my 'help me' post. Lol!!!

Rcb
Hugs!! I know hw u feel. Men basically r like tt. Sad to sad. Mcp etc. Our parenting ways r very different. The best way is to communicate and ask him wat is his expectations of the marriage, the children and urself. Tell him u r feeling frustrated inside and tell him ur prob.
Personally i have to do this once in a while. I remember hw carefree last time without all these probs. Hehe...

Dun think so much k dear
 


ah lian: nvm, at least u invented a new word
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how's K potty training? actually she can tell y'all w big biz. already v good. my G & R still happily doing it in diaper. i dowan to stress abt it cos my niece also got trained quickly when she started school.

ah jes: of cos the melts r still for u. but errr... my kids ate up the organix snacks while i was in BJ
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anytime u wan, just come. whenever u come to nex lor. say, r there any good offers in isetan? same as moo, i live in tt estate & i never get such flier.

ah moo: ya, i read abt it, looks nice. let's make a date lah. u not going for hol this month, right? maybe fix 17th? shd b opened by then. but crowd will be terrible cos of the christmas shoppers. *shudder* anybody else want to join us?

ah tri: thanks for ur link!

ah RCB: *pat pat* i felt like u many times in the past, angry but not so much cos of existing children. was becos of TTC. think ah jes' philo quite good. just get wat u want with ur own budget & those he doesn't dispute just take from joint a/c. sometimes also easier not to tell him things. if u want them, just go get urself. then don't make urself angrier. my problem was more difficult cos needed my hub to co-operate taking the TCM & he found it so painful. hmmmm.... those were the days. can't believe sometimes i've been married 10 years already.
 
morning
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triangel
actually i saw the ad on i-mag 1st, but y'day happened to see it again on wo bao
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ah lian
how does K signal when she want to pass motion?
V is a stubborn gal, she'll scream when we try to put her on potty or toilet bowl.

mummynia
dun be sorry, not yr fault. i had wanted to bring my gal to take studio pics long time ago but my hub not interested so kept putting off. then y'day aft we received news of a fellow school mate who passed on suddenly, i told him life is short we shd do what we want and shd keep some nice pics for memory sake. then he just told me to go and arrange for the photo shot. -_-

olwen
thanks much. will try to collect this sun cos we planning to go Nex in the morn. hope i dun forget again, very absent minded nowadays, hehe. y plan on 17th, Fri ah?
 
Kiki:
Yah. Coz I was away from work since Aug due to my preterm labour. Anyway, slowly ease back in coz till end Dec, I am working 3 days per week only.


Re: Photoshoot
Last time when I wanted to do photoshoot, my hubby also object and we argue. In the end, I said, I pay I decide. You just have to help. Then he bo pian. I am thinking of doing a family one this Dec.
 
Re : Photoshoot
i think all MEN are the same! my hb oso object and said waste $. Since i'm paying for that, i told him...he just need to be present on that shooting day! heehee
 
re: photoshoot
Mummies...seems like some of u gt the same prob as mine..
Even i told him i will pay for it, he also say no n lots of excuses la....I talked to him a few times also no use. I didn't tell him i "i hate him" la...
i just say out here nia... Watever i tell him or sms him in a polite way...he wont listen n communicate..I always felt tat he dun treat me like his wife.. always say listen to him only.
As for hsework if i realli go n ask the cleaner auntie to cm ar..he surely like a mad dog de...
He treat me very diff when u seen him outside.
Anyway i just dun bother him so much...
Thks mummies for concern n sharing the feelings with me
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halloz ah jes: c u on sun. we normally go swimming from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. (travelling time included) so if can, just avoid those times hor. oh ya, forgive my old brain. shd be 18th dec.

ah fifi, ah tri: u all so cute.

ah rcb: take care. sometimes it is true. u need to let go of a lot of stuff here. but we really can learn a lot too. my frens in the 2001 thread taught me a lot of school books to buy for kai & things which i wasn't aware of & thought my mum shd know. think back of those happy times & look forward to them coming back again.

ah lianz: heyz. what did K do tt's so disastrous?
 
Lian,
That's good. So it came together with the irobot package? Your "maid" start working already ah?

Btw, dun stress abt K, hor. Sooner or later, she will get there. Easier said than done, I know. I'm sure you're not alone. Really depends on the kid's personality, and the teachers' child minding skills is also important, I feel.

Olwen,
Re. the material, I would like the SA 1&2 papers for all 4 subjects, if possible. Let me know when I can collect them. As u know, I'm often ard chomp chomp area. My latest fav is Ville de Parma at Kensington Rd
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aly_nat, i'll sms u abt t batt thing
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difficult to explain here
Yes, my maid started working liao. So far so good
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Oh, it got stucked in t kitchen on her first day of work cos 'mdm' forgot to remove the floor rug
I love t feeling of returning to a clean home. I hope they invent something to clean t toilet too!
Actually, I know K will behave like this. haha. Like wat u said, depends on her personality.
Hopefully she'll get thru this stage soon.

olwen,jes, K cried and cling on to me most of t time on her 1st day. Worst is t toilet & bath time.
Simply cling on to me like koala without her clothes on. Can't bath her at all.
But all these all expected lor...
She napped 3 straight hrs in t afternoon, simply exhausted. Mummy too. haha
 
How you u mummies celebrating Xmas? Any recommendations for great home buffet caterers that does nice Xmas mini buffets?
 
olwen
ok will try to avoid that few hrs. will confirm with u again on sun itself. sometimes if V gets tired earlier we might need to cheong home. haha, u old brain i rusty brain, which is worst? ok if 18 dec i shd be able to join u all, confirm again ya?

lian
expected lor for the 1st day. K must be so frightened to see so many strangers. she will get used to it slowly.
 
heyz jes: no prob.

ah aly_nat: sure. actually i can scan to u. my boss is away on 2 weeks leave. i will scan 1 subject everyday.

ah lianz: u make me want to get irobot too.

ah soho: how r u? long time no hear.
 
ah jes, no lor. Cos we totally left her there with t teacher today. Her daddy is there to peek. According to him, she didn't stop crying except when they go outdoor for play. She kept wanting to get out of t school, shouting Out Out Out!
Daddy hear liao heart all breaks... hai..
 
ah lian
so poor thing... but guess bo bian lor, got to get them to adapt. hopefully K will get over it soon and will enjoy CC
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ah jes, how? any news from V's CC? Issit carpe diem?
By right, with their K2's graduation they should b able to take in kids next year.

Its Friday finally... phew...
 
ah lian
no news yet leh.. it's been 3 weeks liao. yes it's carpe diem. i guess chances shd be better for jan 11 intake?

y'day my hub went simei to print the stickers liao. he's abit crazy print 120pcs small ones, and 50pcs of the bigger ones, so many.
 
They seemed to hv forgotten abt my application!! then now they said got withdrawal but still need to apply to MCYS cos stil overquota?! and then will need another 1-2 weeks waiting for response. partially the reason i called them is cos i noticed they hv banked in my cheque, meaning accepted my payment then i asked her how come still no guaranteed vacancy! is that how it works, ie. accept payment 1st even w/o a vacancy?

abit pissed... though she kept apologising.
 
walao.... make sure u are the number 1 in their waiting list, since they have already taken your money

Anyone can recommend me some supplements for children? To boost immunity.
Anyone want to do/join spree from drugstore?
 
ya tats what she claimed to be that i'm now in her top priority list. i told her of cos lah the CC has taken my $$ then got to get V in quick right. where got such thing take $ liao and then still make me wait indefinitely?! win already lor.
 
Lian,
I read a lot about Sambucus. Quite ex for a tiny bottle, but many mummies swear by its effectiveness. Contains elderberry, echinacea n propolis. Think u hv to let your girl try to see if it is suitable for her. Mine yet to 开张. I bought from amazon and ask my friend to bring back. Different websites sell different price wor.
 
ah jes, dun angryz liao.. At least u found out before its too late.

aly_nat, thks. i just ordered one bottle of childlife colostrum from OS. Will go find out abt sambucus
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ah lian
i'm ok liao, at least she apologised profusely. now hoping to get V in soon since they hv accepted my $$, they better dun let me wait too long else this bad tempered mum will kick up a fuss again. :p
 
my K woke up from her short nap and became a broken recorder that went 'Daddy Daddy Daddy Daddy .....'
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until bo pian my mum had to call my hubby to come to the rescue. This morning experience in school really affecting her
 
Aly used to have nightmares on weekdays naps, after school. But we believe it was becos she had too much fun n excitement in school.

Lian, u used to send K to those once a week class, right? Did she had separation anxiety then? Hope she settle down soon. Poor baby.
 
ah jes, poor thing
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But can see she's really a daddy's girl

aly_nat, yes she all along had sep anxiety even during her wkend PG. But cos we stayed in t class with her it wasn't tat bad.
But hor, now when we ask her if she likes school, she can shout 'YES' lor... -_-"
I told my hubby, her wires shorted liaozz
 
ah lian
same same, V oso daddy's gal...
so funny, but K said like school doesn't mean she likes attending school lor, haha.
 
lian/Jes/Olwen,
Thanks for missing me.
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Lian,
Q'lyn has been in cc for some time and has settled down. Both the kids are with Church cc even though we are strict taoism. All along I have wanted my kids to attend church cc/kindy cos the teachers really teach them values and teachers are so caring compared to others. My neighbour send her boy to 1 of those neighbourhood cc and her ds was left alone, facing the wall and cried for 1 month till another peer's mother brought it to her attention. When she went to peep and witness for herself. Out she withdraw her immeiately. She even forgo the deposit she paid. She, too agreed the difference when she sent the boy to the same cc as my girl.

Though the teachers teach them christian song and they are required to pray before every meal but we are still ok with it.

I add you to the album where she celebrated her bday in cc. Hang in there and soon K will enjoy her school.
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snnowy, thanks
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I saw the bday album in FB liao
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Both Qs went in at t same time?
I really hope K will start enjoying school soon. She's still crying today and t teacher have to carry her here and there while she shouts for her daddy. hai...

ah Jes, after last Friday, she no longer say she likes school already. When we mention abt school, she'll start crying and cling on to her daddy, like scared he run away. Daddy is ultra heart broken.
Ey, the simei's sticker quality not veri gd leh. I have a couple of pcs haven't use the top film layer already peel off.
 
lian
hopefully few days later K will say like school again. dun worry, sure she will start to enjoy when she's started making friends.
oh the stickers so lousy ah. good thing they are not ex. better go back and check mine too...

soho
congrats! take good care.
 
ah jes: wah, ur cc a bit too much manz. V happily eating the melts?

Ah lian: poor K. must show her extra more love for the time being.

ah aly_nat: wah, i owe u something hor? alamak.

ah soho: congrats! saw it on anor thread but wanted to wait for u to announce yourself.
 
olwen
thanks for the melts & puffs. V's eating the puffs last night so we prohibited the melts for her for the time being. she's snacking too much, haha.
 
morning mummies! short one before I go for my taitai outing :p

soho
wow congrats! Hope u r coping well, so when's ur EDD?

snnowy
I miss u too leh.. and yr posts...

vitamins
Q likes L'il Critters products especially their Omega-3 Gummy Fish! A bit fishy to me but dunno y Q simply loves it! He also likes Multivitamins from Flintstone. I usually shipped from amazon during their sales, u can check the review too. Maybe I can organize a spree next time if u all r keen :D
 
Olwen,
Take your time
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Kiki,
Do include me if u r organizing the spree for l'il critters. My dd1 likes the gummy bear vitamins. I also buy sambucus from amazon.
 
aly_nat
Which sambucus flavour/type u got for your girls?
My hub is tempted to get scooba. Do u feel a difference in cleanliness after t sccoba finish t cleaning?
 


hello...
i'm back to work today.. yawnz.. how's ev1?

lian
how's K coping with sch? T1 doesnt want to step into the sch today.. -_- haiz..
 

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