3jems.. those things u said remind me of my youngest sister. she married very young think abt 21- 22 yrs old. she married bcoz of shotgun. even though everyone including my parents disaprove the marriage she insist to married tat "chow ah beng" & keeping the child. she tot of having the child can tied this ah beng down.
somemore, both of them still so young, the guy have not even go NS yet. no stable job, no money to support a family too. anyway, in the end, my parents give them money to get married. before their wedding day, the ah beng even get into a fight. he has his wedding with bruise on his face. =_+""
mixing with this kind of ab beng, of coz my sis is also one kind of ah lian..
anyway, True enuf, their marriage didnt last. it ended less than a week of their marriage. the day when my sister left the ah beng home, heard from my sis tat they quarrel BIG time, & the guy hit my sis. u know, my sister is one kind ah lian, things tat come out from her mouth also NOT GOOD, tat her BIL also want to beat her up.
But still no matter wat, tat guy shldnt hit a pregnant lady.
anyway, after the quarrel, she move her things out & call my mum to help to move her thing back to our house. tat time, im not married out yet..
since then, she has been staying at my parents place. so after the baby is born, she complaint abt breastfeeding BIG time, said bcoz of BF, she cant SMOKE, she cant GO OUT, everytime have to come home & BF & pump milk. i was thinking what kind of mother she is.. she even throw the responsibility to my parents to take care of the baby, while she went parting at nite, go out shopping, went out with friends & etc.. even she came home from work, she will hog onto the phone hidding in her room, chatting away, she didnt even bother to take alook at her poor child...
Since my newphew is a baby, he sleep on my parents bed & my poor parents have to wake up in the middle of the nite to feed the baby while my sister is either away partying or sleeping.. sometimes, she even stay out at her so called boyfriend place.. tsk tsk tsk
even now, my parents still hav to go & fetch my newphew from preschool, feed my newphew, bath like newphew & prepare him to bed.. if ppl didnt know, sure will think my newphew is my brother..
my sister is really hopeless.. if she cant take the responsibility, why insist of keeping the baby & yet after giving birth, she shirk her responsibility away & my poor parents have to clear her shit... & somemore, my parents old liao, how long can they take care of her child.. haiz... many time, i really want to shake her & ask her to wake up her own idea..
jo.. same here.. if i really keep #2, how am i going to spilt myself...
