(2008/11) November 2008


nut,
wow! i always thought u like in late twenties going 30 nias.

bo leh, i dun like to "zhu dong" i like to b "pei dong". wakakak... but if he bo initiate for very long time i will b angry. wakakakakak.... so shy leh say this here. lolxxxxx now everyone know. lolxxxxxxx

kiki,
dun ki siow. u also 1 of the tiko gang lo. act innocent at 1 corner ah. wakakakak...
 
wah.. toking about sex orh...

wtan
ya la.. she gg to park her kids & her maid at my place... & i am gg to bring my boy & my maid to my parent house for dinner then.. mil will definately come back early de la.. she started work already remember? i dont like them taking for granted of us with more "manpower" to help out.. not say i want be selfish la.. but i personally feel the maid shld be able to cope or must learn to cope with two for at least a few hours ...but they just couldnt learn to let go... & also nv asked us whether we available to help & just bring them over.. quite pissed off lor.. sorry. hope u dun review this to ur mum hor...
 
Mildy
yah lor me too.. last time (when my sex drive stil ok) if i wait too long and he do nothing i'll b angry as well.. There were a couple of times i went into cold war becos of this and he stil dunoe wat e f**k is happening..
Now different.. sometimes i pray he wont ask for it.. and even if long time no initiate i also.. like that lor..
 
nut,
eh! mi too like tat now leh. waakakkaakka.............

kiki,
actually pregnancy can either bring up your sex drive or dampen it. so prob yours is the later?
 
hi nut, yes, if not giv nini the flu jab, but hor not 100percent guarantee. my gal also got flu jab, once awhile she will still hav either cold or flu.

wah.. sXX ah.. hav one last nite. kekeke *blush*.
i rem my gynae said before, when u are dry is mostly becoz u are stress up. but still it normal. sometime guy like it dry becoz, it more tighter inside. wet, the friction not so much.
 
joyce 果然是 sxx master wor...

yup 2nd trimester now.. hee hee... maybe I'm really like what mildy said... just dun feel like leh... poor ah lao
 
kiki. hehe *blush blush*

nut, ya, dry coz more friction. more siok for guy. coz i rem my hb said when im more wet, he feel less friction. better ask ur hb coz who know different guy, feel differently.
 
Kiki,
u 2nd trimester still have MS, poor thing. Hope ur MS go off soon so that u can enjoy your pregnancy.

wowseh,later those who dunno me will think i am really an expert in this area

Enjoy your weekend mummies!
 
Wtan,
I will probably attempt to try weaning after my trip in may. Cos will still need my boobs to comfort her on the plane n during the trip.
R has improved on her self feeding n with the bib which can catch the fallen food bits, I dun really need to put a shield under the high chair le.

Joyce,
sex guru!! Kekeke...
 
Good Morning!!!

Kiki,
yeah i try the bean curd. I dun like it, i am crazy over it. wakakak... its really nice. should try.... Yummy.......
 
wah..the topic soo "hot & steamy" ah..hehe..

i was rather dry during my preggy & bfg days leh..no choice but got to use lub also wor..

<font size="-2">my exciting sxx encounter..
there's this once hor..we decided to action aft both kids sleep leh..next to the bed on the floor la..then duno if it's bcoz we r either "too loud" or "too active" hor..Mav who was sleeping quite near to the edge of the bed suddenly sat up &amp; ask what are we doing leh..i tell u..haha..we both got a straight shock, aft telling Mav to go back to sleep, hubby immediately shrink..duno hw come i also dry up instantly...but aft that we still managed to action fast fast la..chop-chop curry pop settle everything &amp; go back to sleep..phew..</font>

ali..
no worries la..i dun talk to my mum abt Judy or ur MIL often..coz she also everytime can tell me things like "judy also nver like u, this cannot or that cannot blah blah so we cannot talk much one..haha..think i got "hint" to u the last round when we are talking abt the soy sauce or something?

ya i guess it's really very true that she thinks ur side has more manpower with ur MIL &amp; ur maid in the house too..but gd idea to hop over ur parents' place to rest abit..esp before Aug man..hehe..

i have a cousin-IL whom just gave birth on 19th..she also quite pissed off with her SIL (her hubby's sisters), bcoz every wkend w/o fail, they will go stay over at the parents' house (currently my cousin-IL is staying with her ILs)..+ with the kids leh..awaz let the hubby "off" on wkends to meet friends or do whatever but to the SILs they take it as a gd chance to "bond" with the mum &amp; also still be like before they got married out stay with the parents..so now my cousin-IL popped, she's hoping that they will be "auto" &amp; stay away during wkends to let her hve some peace in the house coz the SILs' kids (4 of them) can be rather excited when playing &amp; indirectly wake up the little infant..so i surely can understand how u feel man..fyi hor, she has 3 SILs so u can imagine the "crowd"..

but andrew got comment on this? or he's the no-comments party?

babyzel..
ya..i guess aft the trip will be nice..where r u gg? nice to be able to go for a trip too...how i wish but for me is not easy to apply even 2days leave..my company culture very diff one..sigh..no one to cover &amp; i cant go when my boss is ard lo..sian..
 
morning mummies!

wah, exciting topic on friday. think u younger ladies have more action than me
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was busy sorting out my happy baby melts over the weekend. one happy mummy came to collect hers 1 day after they arrived on fri. she suddenly appeared at my door, haha. it's so expensive - $5.45 for 1 packet. i don't think i will buy it again.

have a good work week mummies. anor public holiday coming up then it will be exams next week onwards!
 
hi morning~ it'll be 4day week for my co... but it's gotta be a busy week...
Olwen
happy holidays! btw i got the stuff u mailed to me... BIG thank you &amp; lotsa hugs... i like the bio oil smell.. nice smell..

mildy
so early?

Wtan
ur cousin in law 's position is quite hard la. but have to accept.. cos the daughters wan to go back. &amp; i guess herr mil definately be happy to see them. our case different.. they not come here to "bond" with my mil .. come only they need us =_=" wah lao... &amp; always is mil drop by their place to see her grandsons.. Gosh.. &amp; most of the time when she go there.. she help out. &amp; stay til v late... must wait til nephew slp liao den can come back.. i felt it's totally inconsiderate act lor.. i know grandson wont bear to see grand ma to go back. but shld also ask ur mum to go back early since gotta work the next day~ aiya.. nv ending stories.. i dun wan care anymore... as long they dun take my side for granted can liao.. lolz
 
I need help, my elder girl thinks tat we love her mei mei more then her and has been very very whiney and throws temper and cry and scream since mei mei is born to get attention.... i thought that it will pass after some time but till now she is still like tat. yesterday night she throw temper again and misbehave then i ask her why she like tat. i ask her u feel tat mummy love u more or love mei mei more, she says mei mei more and she looked so sad. my heart break.....i have been trying to give her more attention n love since mei mei is born cos i scare that she will feel this way. in the end its still the same outcome....i rreally dunno how i should make her thinking change and have a better behaviou......she can be so sweet at a time but when she saw that we sayang the mei mei she will start her tantrums again...........but i need to sayang mei mei too ma right? Zzzzzzzzzzz
 
So early post message la..

wah.. den shld u not show much attention to both.. which is impossible!! so hard to distribute the loves to two kiddos.. wondering wat will happen to mine... which is soooonnn...
 
alibaba,
yeah lo, u cannot share your love 50 - 50. you have to grow your love to give 100 - 100, but still they not happy.....
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maybe boys easier? cos my girl is the superdy jealous of her sister type!
 
Mildy
talk some sense into her? sit down with her and talk serious.. tell her you love both her and mei mei.. but becos mei mei is stil so small sometimes u need to attend to her more and she shouldn't b jealous cos she such a good child and nice jiejie. Everyday hug and tell her you love her sooooo much.. !! hahaa..

They understand one.. even the small ones at their age they understand a lot liaoz.. Yesterday my rascal was throwing tantrum and no wan to take her nap.. i locked myself and her in the room and while sitting on the bed i lectured her for almost 10mins while she stood at the door.. lowering her head and stole a glance at me now and then while i scolding her.. Then i said are you a good or notti gal? if good gal now come to the rocker and sleep.. And she walk to it and lie down!!
 
mildy
hopefuly boys not like tat..

nut
ur gal is soooooo "dong shi" lor!! many times i call my T ... he ignore me de lor... vomit bloodd...
 
Ali
wahaha.. i'm sure T understands but he jus act cool and bo hew.. tsk tsk...
My gal can b quite dong shi but lately she's a terror.. Yest i dunoe scolded her how many times liao!! brot her out and if i refuse to let her go to wher she wans to go, she'll cry and scream and struggle on the floor while i try to pull/carry her away!!! AArrghh!!!!
 
nut,
yeah, been trying this. ask the daddy to talk to her too, but when we talk to her she is ok for awhile, then after that comes back to the same again.....but i know that she loves her mei mei too. just that she wans us to love her more or something ba. cos when she got food to eat she will give her mei mei eat, then they will kiss each other, hug each other. play together all that. as long as her mei mei dun get near mi she is fine. wakakakkaak....

eh your nini so cute. wakakaka... actaully hor they very good at acting innocent now and using their best asset which is their cute factor making us cant bear to scold them.
 
Ali
wahaha.. i'm sure T understands but he jus act cool and bo hew.. tsk tsk...
My gal can b quite dong shi sometimes but she also can b a terror! Yest i dunoe scolded her how many times liao!! brot her out and if i refuse to let her go to wher she wans to go, she'll cry and scream and struggle on the floor while i try to pull/carry her away!!! AArrghh!!!!
 
nut,
aiya.... where all the babies here like tat? cos mine also. then everyone will starts looking at me cos she will b screaming and stuggling like i going to kidnap her and she awns to break free... sometimes i wonder will ppl think i am or not and send mi to the police....ZZzzz
 
ali..
ur co gg to switch to 4day work-wk?so longer working hrs for u or same?oh..then ur maternity leave is based on 4days or 5days?

ya..my cousin-IL got their own flat but only shifting over in maybe 1.5yrs later ba..indeed her MIL is very happy when the daughters still going back to visit them &amp; best, to stay overnight with their children..MIL got tell my cousin-IL that now the children of her daughters are still young so got to ask her to bear with it lo..

wah, till soo late then she can leave ah..does she comes back on her own or judy's hubby will drive her back or dun tell me andrew will go pick her up ah? at least u will be "informed" when they are coming over but my cousin-IL cannot "gage" &amp; she hates it when it's long wkends, bcoz on eve of PH the daughters &amp; kids will go over to stay liao..so it's like 3days 2 nights stay lo..i just chk with my MIL who went visiting yest to see the new arrival..the kids stayed over for the wkends but the parents (ie: the daughter &amp; the hubby went out "ja-lan") ..

milderina..
actually it happens to me too..now i scold my #1 hor..he will "argue" back &amp; also "kept mumbling" on his owns with fingers pointing very softly to himself..then look very teary &amp; ask for daddy...i will try to explain to him it's bcoz didi is younger &amp; didi do not know but he being gor-gor is older therefore must teach him the right way..i hv to care for didi becoz he's younger &amp; he cannot help himself like how gorgor can..things like that..then he goes to nodding his head..it takes a while..i m trying also..hope things gets better too..

then usually i will try to "praise" him infront of didi (althou didi is usually in a daze of what's gg on, lol)..then aft i praised gorgor...i will ask didi to clap then when didi clap..gorgor will "feel" proud &amp; i will take this chance to tell him to teach didi the right ways etc...so that he can be "hao-bang-yang"..aa...duno if u get me..
 
ali..
i have been calling out the boys &amp; even my hubby but i tell u, the moment their eyes are on the tv, they are struck..lol..i awaz hv to "shout" out loud before they turn over to response lo...arrrgh..
 
Mildy
cos yest i went out with my SIL and my niece and nephew.. she said.. wah... really really notti lei cos last time niece and nephew not like that one.. wahhaaa..... =_="
 
wtan,
awkak... yeah i get it. i do that too..... i really hope this stage will pass soon..... cos sometimes i just sit there and feel lost.....and i feel tat its been so long, why she still so jealous, i wan them to know that i love them deeply and not love 1 more then another.
 
Kiki:

The CDA act covers you if you are terminated unfairly. If you throw in the letter yourself hor... then likely no more case liaoz. Unless its they tell you that you must submit the letter.
 
wtan
no la. it's a replacement holiday for labour which fall on saturday.. hehe.. paiseh.. nv say properly..

usually judy will send her back lor.. if at times i go over her place. i automatic will leave early , latest 9+pm... wah.. whole bunch of kids staying overnight .... tat's really irritating... i am sure explode lor.. finally weekend can have good rest... den here comes so many kids... how to rest..
 
kiki, huan huan going to school liao ah?

I think girls more easily jealous. Mildy, dun feel down ok. Jiejie is still too young to understand t logic (fully).
 
Toking abt class. I've signed my rascal up for 1 term at LNT.. exp... ~$450 for 10classes.. most likely aft finish this i'll try her somewher else.. looking into zoo-phonics as well which i tink is much cheaper.. Any feedbacks on this?
 
Just for infor.

One of the mummies here give her tod Karihome goat's milk but I cannot remember who. Sorry. Anyway, I was at the chinese medicine hall in Rivervale Plaza buying FM, and I thot I saw them pricing it at S$38. I think it's significantly cheaper than NTUC, right? I hope I didn't see the price wrongly, though.
 
kiki.. time flies *cry* But very soon, u will have another baby to play with!

aly_nat, tink is Jo and Wtan

nuts, u signed up ah? $450 only? I thought is $500 for wkend? Or u got discount huh
 


midly..
yaya..i think try out lo..not sure if my method will work (coz such behaivour also very customise one) but can just try..ya..i also hope that things will get better..now my #1 will use bigger toys to hit didi on his head..like yest..it's also rather dangerous..i place didi on the ikea high chair..then gorgor went to unbuckle him..this cld be dangerous coz didi will climb up &amp; stand on the high chair on his own..so if he stand up then will surely fall down, i quickly run over &amp; beat gorgor..i even use the cane leh..bcoz he told a lie..he said didi unbuckle the safety belt &amp; not him wor..scary..

ali..
oic..i thot hw come suddenly ur co switch to 4days workwk..coz even mediacorp also regain back to norm 5days work wk...ya..my cousin-IL has the same mindset as u do..she's in fiance so at times during wkends she hope to hv her "peaceful" time nua-ing at home..but cant since surely the kids will come over..4 kids..3 girls &amp; 1 boy..so last time she used to help up cleaning up the toys till now she nua liao..mess up mess up lo..coz even the "mummies" also like hack-care..she do not bother to help clean up liao..my cousin-IL's ILs are in biz so only wkends they are free..hence they do not mind the kids come over..even try to "hint" to my cousin-IL to "accept" it coz the kids are still young..the eldest girl already P1 this yr..hehe..
 
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