Jes,
a BIG welcome! N I'm sure if bbv can talk, she will say "HOORAY"!!
actually hor, whether can afford or not is all in the mind. on the practical side, it's all about changing our lifestyle. I've been thru it twice - SAHM, change to FTWM, then back to SAHM again. First time being SAHM, I went crazy, n my relationship with hb was quite affected. This time ard, there's peace at home. aiya, too long a story to post here. Others will get bored.
At the end of the day, my kiddos benefitted the most while I stayed home.