(2008/11) November 2008

lian, thanxs so much. i will pm u more details.

kiki, i will pm u the JD.

nut, my mil even worse i tell u. she cannot tahan ppl say her one. she will scream back at u. like one time, my fil was sick with cough & flu. my gal was 4mth plus tat time. he buay zi dong keep carrying my gal when he is sick, and he didnt like to cover his mouth when he cough or sneeze and my poor gal kanna his virus and even developed mild brocholities. i was so angry & ask my hb to tell them nicely to be more considerate, immediately my mil start to shout & scold. say cover wat mouth, cough also must cover, crazy and blah blah blah.. she was shouting & scolding downstair, while im upstair in my room changing pamper for my gal. i buay tan han, i raise my voice & say, since u like to watch tv, u didnt see those govt adv ppl regard to being considerate & pls cover ur mouth when u sneeze or cough, moreover, it common sense not to go near a baby esp when u are sick. haiz..
they cant be bother, i tell u coz after my gal recover, my fil still have not recover & he start to come near my gal again, my gal is lying in those movable net cot beside me while my hb & i is having our dinner. my fil start to cough very loudly beside us playing with my gal. and my hb merely remind him very nicley to cover his mouth when he cough, u know what he did, he pissed off & slight push away the net cot tat my gal is lying in and fine! dun play dun play and stormed off nam nam cham cham under his breath. faint.. wat wrong with them??!! im sooo glad im no longer living the same roof with them.
 


darlest, oh dear... sounds really bad leh
Good tat u no longer have to endure all that!

Liv, i also want to bring K to the zoo... But maybe much later, when she more 懂事
 
darlest
omg~ v inconsiderate & insenitive... they sick nvm..if children sick.. v cham one... lucky u dont have to stay with them anymore...

lilian/liv
how 懂事 den go zoo? i tink now quite fun to go.. exposure to see animals.. & they have this children playground.. my son love it wor...
 
lian, ya man.. it really really bad. they are really impossible.. haiz..
when we finally got our own house, i am so so so happy!! if not, for sure, it will be me turning crazy..

anyway, been wanting to bring my gal to bird park cause she like to look at bird bird.. hee but somehow when we intend to go, it will rain.. haha.. when one time, when our car just in to the birdpark carpark, it start to rain very heavily.. luckily my gal still duno wat is disappointment, if not she sure will be very sad one..
 
Ali, i mean until she understand what we r trying to tell her about t animals. Now i point out cats/dogs/birds to her, she like not too interested
 
ali, exactly! somemore, tat time pd cant provide any medi at her age, and my poor gal need to go thru those tube thru her mouth and nose to suck out those thick mucus. when i see her cry so loudly tat time, i so heart pain.
 
ali, i was thinking if he can listen to instructions then easier to bring him there coz gonna spend a few hrs there right.. haha but dun care, this time just wack la.. try try see how hahaa
 
<font color="ff6000"><font size="+1">Good noon mummies
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<font color="aa00aa">aly_nat
When BBA took his MMRV he also developed a fever that lasted abt 5days.. by the 4th day i brought him to the PD and she assured that by the next day will subside and really did. During the 1st 4 days fever was hovering between 37-38.5, but on and off.. BBA was still active and eating normally. HTHs
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Egg Beancurd
I tried too!! bot 3 tubs, finished 2 tubs together with my friends and family in 1 day!
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Its very smooth, but if u've gotta sweet tooth, gotta add more sugar syrup.

Discipline
BBA is giving me a hard time man... after recovering fr his fake measles previously, now he's nursing a flu and cough, but still very aggressive! Everything also want, don't give him, cry and cry like no tmr..

He can't really talk yet, but he usually just pulls you by the finger to where he wants and points to what he wants you to do e.g: open toilet door, take a photo frame, etc..
dun give or dun do, he will be very kwai lan.. cry and compete see who's voice louder!
So angry!

Earlier this morning, i found clothes and toys in the toilet bowl.
i dunno wanna laugh or cry -_-
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<font color="aa00aa">Darlest
Wha, your ILs so fierce wan ah.. aiyoooo, sometimes they just dun understand, esp when baby is sick, parents always is the jia lat wan, cos we are the one nursing them in the end..

lian/ali/liv
BBA loves cars and wheels, so when we brought him to the zoo, he went after pple's strollers instead of paying attention to the animals -.0
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bb K loves flowers, leaves and water
Brought her to Botanic last wk, she's more interested in picking up grass and flowers from t ground, and wanting to get into the pond
 
Darlest
am glad u no need live with the insensitives people again. Obviously its their fault and they stil deny and repeat e same mistakes.. stil dare to challenge u somemore. Hahaha.. at least my mil jus listen and if disagree wil say no la wont raise her voice
 
aden's mummy, exactly but i dun think they bother.. hahaha.. BBA so cute, who know when he grow up he might be a car designer like those lotus or lambo car designer. my goodness.. clothes &amp; toys in the toilet bowl...
 
<font color="aa00aa">Darlest, peanut
Yalor, luckily you have a place of your own.. privacy and can hide fr all the nagging etc.. Heng my ILs not like that, if not i cham... at most they'll just nag abt my dog, the fur, all these still ok, but when they start on BBA's routine, den i will hot.. but also hot inside la.. end of the day, hb come home jia lat! hahahahaha
i'm very anal abt routine, the rest i can on my power ~ act blur and smile.. haha
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Aden's mummy
No la i'm stil staying with my ILs.. my new place only ready earliest mid nex year.

She mus hav learnt it from my MIL la who else.. She say 2 hokkien words... "MAI" and "BA" as in meat -_-"
 
<font color="aa00aa">peanut
Oic, my ILs come over every 2mths and stay like 1-2weeks, so easy to avoid conflict also, although they are already very nice.. except, u knw lar, old pple, plus grandparents somemore.. surely wanna have their own input and share their experience as well (which is also like at least 30years ago) haha

Whaaa, i can't imagine what will happen when BBA starts to talk. He'll prob be bz annoying me, like he already is o.0
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lian
BBK so feminine leh... haha.. love flowers &amp; plants... good leh.. go botanical garden all is free.. Zoo per entry damn exp for adults..

nut
nini so hokkien.. hehe... ok mah.. learning more language is good wat..T fav word is "oh ohh"
 
Peanut,
I brought R to Eu Yan Sang TCM Clinic at Sembawang. Just opp the MRT Station. 355 Sembawang Way. There's a male (Luke Huang) n female physician, R saw both before.Luke Huang only see patients on tues n sat, EYS clinic opens from 9am-9pm daily. Close oh PH.
 
Ali,
Phew! I'm so relief after hearing that bb T is walking well with the way you carry him. (so far you are the only 1 tt tells me it not affecting the way they walk).I also carry her the same way on my hip as I have hurt my back previously and find tt's the easiest way w/o straining my back.
Even my mum scolded me for carrying her like that
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Peanut,
I'm such a person if ppl telle me it's my fault, I will be very very guilty.
My gal also speak Hokkien, taught by my mum.


Darlest,
Oh dear, Glad that you are now living on your own. Actually I salute mummies who lived with their in-law. Cos I'm definietly one that can't. I'm too bad tempered and fussy with the way how kids should be handled. Think the further I live, the more peaceful it is with them.


Aden's Mummy,
Oh no, toys and clothes in toilet bowl. Did you had a hard time sterilizing them? Smetime our todd are so cute that they can do the things you can't image with.
But on the other hand, try to close the toilet door and make sure all pail are not filled with water for their safety just in case they sneak in when you are not looking.
 
Darlest,
I brought R to the bird park on mon, she also like birds alot. See birds then will go bird bird bird. But she only like to see the penguins cos the penguins enclosure is air conditioned. So she's very happy and will smile for the camera. The rest of the birds she not interested and she wasn't really looking at them. I think the weather was too hot so she quite grouchy.

Adenmummy,
My gal throws her toys and colour pencils into the dust bin. Now whenever i clear the trash, i must check, just in case she throws $$ into the bin.

Lilian,
K so different, like plants. Kids usually like animals.
EYS charges still quite ok, first consultation $12, subsequent $8. Medication(powder) $5 per day. Normally, i spent $30 plus for 5 days medication.
 
Peanut,
Slight cough n flu i will bring her there but luckily R dun really fall sick easily. *Hope i dun jinx myself* The physician will check her wrist pulse and check her palms. They uses stethoscope also.
 
bbzel
ok... jus that her yellow mucas has been persisting for quite long liao.. and cough recovered barely 2 weeks now back again... sianz.. i hope by time i go beijing she no longer sick or else i keep worrying abt her ther... haiz...
 
Something to share...
I found that ever since i started her on cod liver oil she gets sick more frequent!! Tot its supposed to build up immune but like opposite! Earlier on she seldom gets sick and if even so she gets well quite fast.. But noticed right after she started on liver oil she sick liao.. When she's sick we'll stop the oil until she recovers.. Lately when she seems better from flu/cough we gave her the liver oil again and who knows they're back!!!
I mentioned to my SIL and to my surprise she has the same opinion.. Says my niece and nephew gets sick easily when they're on cod liver oil but better after she no longer gives them.. So although it may b all coincidental and i can't find a reason why.. i've decided to stop giving her that..
 
bbZel, hmmm.. the price sounds reasonable. Last time i go Ma Guang, always at least $50

nuts, cod liver is the culprit?! Oppss..
Noted!
 
Ah lian
no la.. i really dunoe if thats e culprit but its like v coincidental she'll get sick when on e liver oil lor.. it may not b but i decided to stop anyway..
And mayb its jus my gal not suitable taking it cos i dun hear complaints from the rest, other than my SIL so far..
 
v wasted hor.. she super like cod liver oil original taste.. i tot its a good chance to build up her immune but then doesn't seems to go that way..
 
hehehe, i've brought my gal to the s'pore zoo. she's not interested in animals at all. basically she's bored until we went to kids playarea which got aircon shop selling kids stuff &amp; barney ride &amp; of coz splash water pool area. the whole trip was juz half a day (morning) &amp; i oredi shackled like hell.

peanut,
hmm...probably u wait till she grow bigger. then give her cod liver oil. i think i got let my gal try &amp; few days later she also got cough. i duno if its becoz of tat...
 
Peanut,
Bring her to Eu Yan Sang and try. No harm. Better to "duan gen" for the cough.
Cod liver oil: i just started giving to R leh but not everyday. I think about a week liao. Hope cod liver oil not going to be the culprit.

Nowadays R up to a lot of mischief, always like to jump while walking. As she can't really jump tat is lifting herself off the ground. She's looks like she's limping whenever she incorporate the jumping n walking together... Faintz...
 
snowy, ya.. me too, really peifu those tat can with ILs. when i was staying with them, i always hid in my room upstair where they will be downstair watching tv to avoid any conflict.
 
Good morning mummies!

Whats the topic for today? hehe..

Oh, is our kite flying tomorrow confirmed anot ah? Seems like its dying off liao leh.. :p
 
peanut,
I juz bought the orange flavour cod liver oil for Lucas eh. Alamak!

Cant stand Lucas nowadays ... once MIL was busy in the kitchen, Lucas went to open the mini fridge in the master bedroom then sit there munching away the chocolate bar. And we open the fridge only, he will faster come and wanna open the bottle of jap mayonaise and eat, or wanna open the drawer take cheese or yakult.

Sometimes he misplace his pacifier, I will ask him where is his tutu huh huh huh. So once when I ask him find his tutu, he goes "tutu eh ar ar ar?

And he loves switching off the fan and all the other switches within his reach! He also carry the small chair ard and climb up and down. Faintz.
 
cod liver oil
my gal so far has been taking the orange flavour one, so far ok leh. keep fingers crossed!

fly kite
ya, 2mrw on anot huh?
 
jo
orange flavour cod liver oil. lucas like it??

wahhh.. open fridge &amp; take chocolate &amp; eat ah..one day ur tibits all gone u will know who eat it.. kaka.. how bout shift the mini fridge to somewhere that is unreachable?

i notice kids like to play with switches.. same for T too...
 
Jo
i have been gg to SAFRA yishun.. wanna go? wild wild wet.. who help me to bring T for those ride... i dont tink i am suitable leh...
 
maid
aft 6 mths with me she finally got pattern to chu. y'day went home and MIL told me the maid brought back a big bag of rubbish (she claimed it's old clothings and shoes) from pple whom she always met at the playground when she brings my gal down to play. so i was tinking steady wor, make some friends liao and just accept things tat pple give. when i arrive at MIL's hse last nite, wat i saw it a big luggage full of rubbish i wanna faint!! buttered her upside down, tinking why the hell she did such a stupid bo liao thing. and she still dare to tell me those pple asked her to pass this bag to another woman (who always go downstairs wan), knowing obviously she's lying to me. so i told her by today she better get rid of tat stupid big bag be it she dumped it back to those pple or throw it. really no brains wan pple give u take, i told her wat if there's drugs inside the bag u wanna get all of us into trouble??!!

i'm so pissed and angry and worried till can't slp properly last nite. am oso afraid she takes it out on my gal and give MIL black face. stupid maid problem....
 


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<font color="aa00aa">snnowy
Ya, i gotta shift my buckets of water to the service yard liao, cos i needa mop the flr at least twice a day. My area is turbo dusty..
Usually the doors are closed, but yday morning daddy was watching him, so.... aiya, he very relak and bo chap wan.. pffftttt

Babyzel
I get that too! he will throw whatever he can get his hands on and dump it into the dustbin..
my friend was telling me to throw his fav bolster in the dustbin as a "punishment".
BBA also does the "jumping" movement whilst stationery. Like he's trying to bounce..

peanut
Wha, i haven started on cod liver oil wor, but its already sitting in my fridge.. now considering whether shld give anot..
i've been giving probiotics, colostrum and multi-vits..

Rules
Do you ladies experience this?
When my ILs are here, they have a set of "guidelines" like what BBA can play and what he can't, when my dad comes, he has another set, my ah lau another set, omg, i'm gg crazy lor..
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