greengrape
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Fully undertand what you are feeling and the guilt treatment our elders always give when they can't get things their way. Really hate it.
Maybe try to make some excuses that you are busy with the new responsible of being a parent and money is tight with the new baby...
If they insist on the first month celebration, ask them to arrange and help with the $$, since everything is done for the sake of their "face"
Fully undertand what you are feeling and the guilt treatment our elders always give when they can't get things their way. Really hate it.
Maybe try to make some excuses that you are busy with the new responsible of being a parent and money is tight with the new baby...
If they insist on the first month celebration, ask them to arrange and help with the $$, since everything is done for the sake of their "face"