augbb,
looking back, i was exactly like u...constantly worried if gabriel is gaining weight well, reaching his milestones, if gabe was happy, is he playing/learning well, etc.
aiya, i was worrying so much n over every minute detail. even my husband said i was a kan cheong spider. then i had friens who kept reminding me not 2 worry, make sure he's happy n healthy.
now i'm in my friens' position, reminding u e same thing. i guess i must always tell myself tat u r a 1st time parent, like i was, juz like most of e mummies here who r 1st time parents.