Potty - Zheng used to stand at the coffee table n do his biz when he was in diaper n do not allow any of us to go near him. If u do he will run away fm u haha~ kinda comical. Yes initially he also have this problem; pee in toilet bowl poo in diaper. But we always encourage him to use the toilet bowl. He has got a "poo face" when he is abt to do his business, when we see that we will ask him to do it in the toilet bowl, we dun push but we encourage. We succeeded once in every few times and we gave him loads of praises after that. Now he is ok with pee n poo in toilet bowl. Just last Sunday he went diaperless whole day n is able to tell us he needs to pee. A great success for us!
Refuse to go school - Zheng refuse to go school at a stage too, we ask him why n he couldn't answer. We told him the pro of going school, can play with his buddy fren Nathan, can play with his fav teacher, can do coloring etc etc. Of course he will still say NO but not to the extend of having to drag him to school. However when we reach the school gate he will start crying n become a koala bear *faintz* I was forbade to say BYE BYE to him coz tt will set his tap running. I bought inexpensive stuffs like a pencil with a cute toy on top of it, some stickers etc everyday n give it when I fetch him. On top of that praises tt he went to school n its such a brave boy, good boy etc. Takes me abt 2 weeks to finally tune him back to normal. And I still dunno why he does not want to go to school during that period of time.