Mummies,
MIL is back from china. As I guess so, things happen again. She say my SIL one is FAKE CHICKEN POX. I didn't know my MIL can be a doctor! Doc say its chicken pox yet MIL say its fake. Today even dare to call me to ask if I am bring Jayden over. I really dun understand what the whole family are thinking.
More things happen & again quarrel with hubby.
Youngest BIL wanted to sell his wkend car bcoz his license got provoked due to drink driving. Then he found a buyer and he scold hb (elder bro) for causing the car to be dented & hv to give discount to the buyer. 2 days later he sms hb that the dented is cause by elder sis. Asshole, then scold my hb for nothing. He dun even apologise. Never mind, then ask him tmr send him to LTA to do paperwork transfer. Dun even bother to ask 'can you help or i might need your help' Juz sms i want u to drive me to LTA. Take my hb as a driver lor.
Then never mind MIL they all come back from china yesterday felt that selling its too wasted so ask my hb to chip in. 3 person sharing 1 CAR!!! Elder & 3rd SIL together with hubby. $18k split into 3.
I told hb dun want bcoz we couldn't afford at all plus got Jayden n no 2 maybe next yr. N maybe enrol Jayden to childcare at 18mths, etc etc. U know wat hb say? He will pay for it. FYI, my hb salary is very very low only. That time no bb just bike instalment its only juz enough only. Now he is so independent liao. Got money to pay for car. Then I say now everywhere parking is ex and petrol leh. I say I rather take cab, dun hv to share car with others & only we are the one washing & cleaning the car. Share car will hv more conflicts with them also. He insist. I say where got money, he say can use our 2 room rental to cover the car. I m so angry. I reply I know you will say this. If u insist getting the car, I will ask the 2 tenants to leave immediately. He got so angry with me, scolding me to force him not to get a car.
Few hrs later, he sms his elder sis & youngest bro that he decide to back out as he couldn't afford. Guess wat? Now they say divide into 4 share. Include younger bro's wife! (remember hor its husband & wife, this youngest bro is very stingy one although married money still calcuate very clearly). Hb say he cannot afford. Elder sis dun give up, say wait till 2 more wks when 3rd SIL come back then discuss.
Youngest BIL dun give up. Sms my hb n scold him for being 'shan bian' and he have already reject the buyer now tell him we dun want. Sms scold like still not happy. Call & scold him. Hb kept repeating we cannot afford, after calculating taking cab is still cheaper. Ask him to approach elder sis to discuss he insist asking for an answer.
I told hb if 2 wks later want to discuss I go over & reject them. See wat they can say. I really hv the urge to tell them off. Me & hb always quarrel its bcoz of them. Can they be more considerate. Muz see until I divorce then they happy is it? if divorce I will NEVER let them see Jayden again. Fat hope lor.
Whole family thought hb earning more than 2K. In fact, he is earning lower than that.
Everyone is happily planning & looking forward to celebrate their bb 1st birthday & me everyday its like a war. I m so tired. I cry the whole evening today. When can this stop? Tmr no mood to work at all.