(2006/07) JULY 2006 MTB

Hi Kin
Thanks for the info. Will keep that in mind. At least you should be happy that yr mum is doing the confinement for you.. no more MIL!
 


Hi Kin,
It must be really tough for you during your 1st confinement. Thankfully, this time is your mum. Actually not to shower for 1 whole mth is ridiculous!! We are staying in Singapore not winter in China.
 
kin..thks for the info..so u use the confinement powder..issit gd??

regarding the avent uno..hmm..how much is it?? issit ex?? went to mothercare last few days...saw avent manual pump..comes with a pump..2 feeding bottles..and 5 storage cups...costs $80..UP $105...
 
how can dun shower at this time of the yr....like now dun do anything just sit in front of the comp..also whole body sweaty and smelly...i dun care now..for this time round i told myself i will shower and wash my hair..cos i am the CL myself..hahaha....
 
last time my mum dun allow me to wash hair..and shower...one day my hubby told me i smell like rubbish dump...so sour...hahaha....i heard liao so sad..then relatives came and visit me...said i smell..wahlau....*faint*...sad, angry and paiseh..but of cos they told me after confinement..haha
 
hi millie, dsiitan,
For my no. 1, i used pigeon elec pump. Was not good as I can only pump 20-30ml in half hr to 45min. After that I resorted to direct bf as I was a SAHM. The Avent Uno is a new product that just came out. Avent previously only had the manual pump,The uno cost I think $279.This $279 include one big avent bottle and 2 small avent bottles, some disposable storage milk cups and some other stuff.Not cheap at all but I have to pump this time as I'm working. I've heard that medala is also v good but I thought to try this brand first.can operate for both manual, electric, battery. It is also quite quiet. I've not used it yet. But I remember something abt my pigeon pump. When I tried to pump while my bb was nursing on the other side, she gave such a surprised stare on the pump and stopped nursing immediately. So funny the look. So I remember must get a more quiet pump this time round.
 
kin
wah really not cheap hor...but since u be using long term then can invest loh..especially u will be brining to work rite?im also a SAHM now..so manual shld be gd for me liao...
 
YB,
ya it is stated not to apply it if u are already breast feeding.
Kin,
so sad to hear that the skin color will not turn back to normal.
 
dsiitan,
I had quite long hair. Had done 2 confinements. 2nd one I used this little dreamers powder and I loved it coz it didn't get sticky. Sometimes when I perspire and the scalp gets really abit wet. I put the powder in my hair and feel so much cleaner and less smelly of course. I think it is a good product compared to the other powders that I used.At least I smell nicer.....
 
kin..really?? then maybe can try out that product...if not really buay tahan leh...i oso got long hair...
 
kin
then think can try out tat product..any min amt to spend b4 they send us the items? or any additional chgs???
 
dsiitan,
I now work out of home. I will need to pump everyday definitely. and since the previous pump was a letdown, I thought that since I heard so much abt avent manual, I'll try the electric one.
Its not the cost in the end but whether it works or not.I've a friend who is working and she bought the medala duo to save time as she has to pump in the office. I think that is impt for her and wise.

Sandy, the pure lan 100 can be used during breastfeeding. it is quite expensive but can check it out.
 
dsiitan
I'll recommend u use the confinemnet powder IF you don't mind the mild smell of ginger and lavender(herbal) yes they will send to your home,no mim charge but got delivery charge. visit their website and you'll know. I already bought mine. 1 bottle will suffice.
 
kin
thks for all the info...will definitely try it..since i cant stand not washing my hair for 1 day...especially such a hot hot weather....
 
kin,
i saw the lotion but really ex..
Mummies,
It is really a terrible month, i am really having sleepness night. I need to go toilet 2 time and all sleeping position is uncomfortable.
I also feel breathless and tired easily even just standing for a few min.. Can feel the wt pressure at the pelvic area and legs.
Do u all feel the same ??


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Kin,
Are u the one recommending me the bedroom slipper from watson? I went to take a look yesterday. Not very comfortable so looking for alternative now.
 
decimal point, is the strep b test a mandatory test to take?

hi connie, ya... js realised we're seeing the same doc too...

kin, is it the dry confinement powder u r mentioning, $15/bottle? but it states "...a S$6/= delivery fee for delivering the products in Singapore". saw the "Healing Bottom Spray" @ S$15.50 for healing of bruising and stitches in the perineal area, Soothes delicate, irritated or torn skin as well. wonder if it's good? have anyone tried it b4?
 
Morn mummies!

Is it compulsory that we cant wash our hair for 1st 12 days ? i thought we can wash body n hair with hot herbal bathwater ? Anyone planning to cut hair to shoulder length or shorter ?I look really ugly with short hair but it's much more convenient n dry faster, so really considering at the moment...

Hi dsiitan,

How did u manage to not shower in 1 month with S'pore weather ? Peifu peifu, i definitely cant do it man...

Hi Sandy,

I also haven't been able to sleep well since last month. Wake up to pee in middle of nite n cant fall asleep aft tat.so always late for work for these few days cos simply cant wake up. Nw look like a walkin zombie with panda eyes..

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Hi MTBs,

I have read up on episiotomy and rather fearful of it in the event that the gynae needs to do the cut down there. Anyone knows what can we do to promote healing at the perineal area?? I read it may take more than two weeks to heal...arrghhh!!

Maybe those MTBs who already given birth before can share their experience...Thanks.
 
jurong gal
very difficult...especially singapore climate..aiyo...but my mum just wont let me wash my hair...she only gave me a small basin of water+white rice wine to clean my body with face towel..so for the 1st week...i didnt wash my hair..and it was like so lumpy/sticky oily..and i always felt that houseflies kept flying to my hair..hahaha..so in the end..i woke up b4 she woke up..ard 5am..to wash my hair secretly..then rush to bedroom to dry my hair with dryer...wow...can tell u the feeling so shiok..haha...so since my #2 i will be doing my own confinement..hmm...i will shower and wash hair...but of cos must get the herbs loh..cannot be to 'metal teeth'..hehehe
 
May,
dun worry. Most of the gynae will give u an inject to numb that area before stitching.
Yes, it may take 2 weeks to heal and u have to clear that area every time u visit the toilet.

My gynae give me wash to wash that area, some will give cream so depend on gynae. The thread will drop off on it own.

Dun worry is not as scary as u read.
 
Hi Hong,

You sounded like a real pro and brave Mummy!! Thumbs up... I kept thinking about it that I have nightmare of it also. I hope my bowel movement won't be affected too...

Btw..any recommendations on nursing bra? I bought one from Mothercare and it feels rather comfy. But thought of buying another brand for alternative.

What about nice front button blouse ??
 
decimal point,

i was tested positive for strep in my second trimester, given antibiotics at that time. And during my last visit, gynea subscript another dose of antibiotics for me, which i will start taking next week when i am in my 36 weeks, this is to make sure the bacteria is killed before delivery.
I will not worry about it too much, unless the baby comes before i start/complete the antibiotics.
You can check with your doc during your next visit.
 
May,
am i? i still have cold feet when my current gynae told me to go thru labour without epidual.

Will affect the bowel movement a bit cos u dun dare to push too hard. Afraid to tear that area.
 
Hong
Personal question:
After the sewing, there sure to be some pain when we urine right? I scare I cannot take the pain. If washing, will it be painful too??
 
Fruitee,
not really for urine. More for pooing.
However, nurse will advise to clean after urine. Wash it with water or wash given by gynae.
 
hong,
yah. I recommend the slippers one. not v comfy but can do for me lah. so sorry.

eeyore,
yes, the $15 is correct. Last time i bought under their sale time, where if you buy more than a certain amt, delivery is free. So maybe got to check with them first if you want to order. If not, if free on saturdays, they are open on some saturdays. Can go down.Together with the momsinmind shop and bumwear and little angels shop. I never tried the healing bottom spray before. I just used the anteseptic wash that the hospital gave that time.

Re : Perineal area
The episiotomy cut when done, you prob won't feel the pain until much later,amidst all the excitement and other pains. But I felt painful when doc was sewing. But that area should not take v long to heal because it is actually skin and don't contain nerves, so you won't feel so much pain except surface pain. However, whatever it is, better not to take chicken for at least 1 wk after delivery and lots of vit C as chicken can cause formation of pus and encourage infection. I read somewhere that the lectins found in chicken can cause mucus secretion ie infections. Usu, the first few days, after going to the toilet, must use wet toilet paper , pat it clean, then use cotton wool with the anteseptic and dab dab. The nurse in the hospital even told me, to wash with soap....!!

Sandy, yah it is quite ex. A tiny tube cost abt $8+. I happen to remember that momsinmind store also sell something similar call lansinoh cream. Also similar too.but i've never tried it...
 
May,
U might want to try Triump nursing bra. No wire, very soft and comfy..

Hong,
do all gynea need to cut that area? So scary...
 
Hi Mothers, MTBs,

MY edd is in mid July. Have one question in mind. Do we need to decide earlier like a few weeks b4 delivery to use epidural or can we decide there and then on the spot of the delivery? How much dilation b4 we cannot use epidural?
 
Hi Jessie,

It's all up to you. No obligations to use or not to use epi. Basically, it's best that you go through the early stage of labour to judge whether you need the epidural or not? If you really cannot tahan the pain, then on the spot, sign for it. I know at around 5-6cm, they won't allow anymore epi as it's too dangerous already.
 
eeyore, I am not sure if it is a mandatory test. I also did not know have to take the test until my gynae says ok today we do the strep b test. It is done at 35-37 weeks.
thanks pepper, i will check with him next visit.
 
Jurong Gal
I've cut my hair short....don't think I can tahan the heat during confinement.

Hong,
I'm also worried about the pain.....PS sure damn pain right??
 
Hi all MTB,
I went for facial yesterday and realise that I have to stop my facial session until I delivered.. Cos for facial we hav to lie on our back and when i did that..i can't breathe and feel very suffocated for the first half an hr.. got to keep shifting my position.. so sad.. cos that's the only thing i can do to pamper myself.. and i can;t do it already.

Wonderign if there's any MTB still doing their facial and have no problem wif it.

I also very scare abt the epitosomy.. but if dun cut and it tears during the delivery it'll be worse, isn;t it? just dunno how to go to toilet after that.. sure sting, isn't it? I read somewhere say when we pee, try to hald squat so the urine doesn't touch the stitch area.. is it true?
 
Anyone knows where can find Braun ear thermometer? Or anyone bought and used before Osim Ear thermometer? Saw kiddy palace selling at nett price for Osim brand at $78 ..
 
Hong
I also worry about the pain.. really not sure wat to expect loh..

Misaryeo
I went for facial last week, quite ok ley.. I even slept for half hr..
 
Hi Fruitee, I think it really depends on how the bb is position.. cos i realise sometimes when i wake up from my sleep.. i am lying on my back.. and i feel ok. but sometimes.. when i lie on my back.. i feel breathless.. dunno to go or not now..
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misaryeo, me too got no problem, js went on monday, nearly fell asleep, i even go for pre-natal massage n have no problem lying down...
 
Poppy,

ok not very painful for me. 1st few day scare of pain cant PS but if dun PS then tummy very uncomfortable so PS slowing.

Misaryeo,
My beautican will adjust the bed so i dun lie flat. Cant urs be adjusted, i am still going for my facial and my next appt is next monday.

Sandy,
not all cut that area. U can request ur gynae not to cut providing urs can really stretch and not tearing.

Jessie Seah,
i didnt arrange with my gynae to have epid.
 
Hi Hong,

You really took it with stride. You are on brave mummy! Actually I read in those websites that episiotomy is not encouraged..it's not natural and may lead to haemorrage (dunno how to spell).
Did you do a lot of kegel exercise cos I read it helps to promote healing at the perineal area?
 
May,
dun give me a tall hat. I am not as gd as u think else i wld have go thru without epid.

If can, no one like to be cut but my baby may be too big that time.

Ok it heal very well but i feel the tightness when i resume sex after that.
 
Hong
Guess your gynae must have done a great sewing.. cos I heard that after giving natural birth, the hole we are talking about, the men will feel the difference!
 
Fruitee,
I guess is gd cos i dun feel much pain and i dun need to sit on float and can walk after that.

I didnt ask my hubby if there is any diff.. hahaha..
 
Hi Mei Lik,

My gynae already changed to Dr LN Sim.. and I'm having bb boy.. can help to put back the info??
Thanks for the effort to reconstruct the table..
 
Hi Mummies,
Went for check up and gynae told me baby already head down. Heeehee! Sooo happy! Tis is real a good new to me.

He told me probably because of the pressure from baby head so i felt my left side lower tummy cramp few days ago.

But the bad new is I gained 2.9Kg within 3 weeks. Gosh! Nearly 1KG per week. So scary leh...

My next check up is next Friday liao! Wow! Need to visit my gynae every week liao...

About epitosomy~~
The gynae will only do the episiotomy cut during the contractions. So u actually wont know when the gynae cut down there cos u suffer the contractions pain. Anyway, if u take epidural, dont think u will feel anythings lo!

For me, I dont know when my gynae do the episiotomy cut but i felt painful when gynae was sewing. Really painful...and i need to sat on the float nearly 1 month. Think my tear quite serious cos the midwife ask me dont push before the gynae come to deliver the baby but me cant control myself and started pushing the baby out. :p I can walk afterthat but just dont feel like sit cos that area is damn uncomfortable. So the float really help me a lot...

Hope my 2nd labour dont need to do the episiotomy cut cos my girl friend who just gave birth 2 months ago told me she didn't go thru episotomy cut for her 2nd labour. But maybe because her baby is small, only 2.2KG.

Fruitee, Hong
Think after the sewing will feel the tightness when resume sex. But heard from my sis actually only "outside" feel tightness, "inside" is actually loose but we wont know...only hubby will know the different. So heehee, my sis introduce me eat "somethings" after gave birth especially me already gave birth 2 times. It's to help "inside" become more tightening. My sis told me her hubby really can feel the different after she took it few months later lo!
 

noif
wah..really got 'something' to eat so that inside will feel tight??? so whats that 'something' u referring too..can share?? hehehe
 

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