(2006/07) JULY 2006 MTB

zlia..so cute, how i wish i got twin, then can close shop liao : (

If people hurt my gal I will be veri angry and scold them upside down even if is my in lawsI veri straight wan wont give face.

When my gal younger she will cry thro in my in law place till we go home n scare of my in law..! thereafter every week I make effort to brg her over 3timesafter awhile she ok liao..but still dont wan them to carry.

My gal started to say papa, mama, n when she see porriage will say mom mom i if bring her to shower she will say pom pom.i tink gal devlope faster in speech blah. But she is slow in her motor skills loh, take long to learn to flip crip or sit

Pram..my gal loving to be in it leh as long in air con place..maybe cause I bring her shopping every weekend since she full mthso veri use to it liaoseldom carry her when she outside

Venice quite easy to takecare since birth * touchwood*, maybe because I suffer a lot during pregnancyadmitted hospital 4time..n have to go injection 3x a week n lay on bed for 3mthso now she make it up for mehahahaha
 


Hi Hong,

Cool, I plan to do Kindermusik after CNY too. I think they have two branches. I may get to see u there :))

As for pram, i really hope she likes to sit on it next time..I carry her until my biceps more tone now..Hahha..which is not a bad thing lah.

Btw..any mummies here still experience hair loss? My hair has grown back now..and its quite funni cos you see the shorter hair sprouting out.. Hahaha...like Edward Scissorhands. Kidding!
 
Hihi,

JP - Poor Garrick, got ba lu ku or not?

Sandy - Why stay over? Kinda of funny to stay in other ppl's house right? Having said that, My gran misses me alot, everytime i go back she will ask me to stay stay stay but i told her I not use to it, she will say I'be been staying there for 20over years why not use to it. I just feel funny loh, coz have own place liao, shld stay in own place loh.

Z-lia - I think yr MIL SUPERB loh. How to cope? Wah! She really steady! Think must tell my MIL abt how superb yr MIL is, so that I can indirectly shame her. HAHAHA! *evil grin*

I think Kai looks like yr HB and Lycia like u~

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Not only do I think mu MIL is useless, in fact I think she's kinda of biased too. She favours my SIL4 much more than me or SIL3. In her mind its all SIL4 and $$$$.

She comes over or call to tell me abt my SIL4. She feels that she's very kelian because she has to work and take care of BB every night, so she(MIL) must help her out whenever she can. She also feels that she's "financially tight" so also give her $. But I do not find her cham at all if we were to compare our plight.

She belongs to white collar so her pay ~$2000 there abt. SHe stays with my ILs, dont even have to fork out a single cent, except for her own meals and BB expenses. The way I look at her spend $ I think she's financially tight because of her own doing loh. She's those kind that love to adore herself, so she sort of indulge on cosmetics, and nice clothings...even so for her daughter.

She's fortunate enough to have a nice mother and a MIL who dotes on her. Weekends, she will put her ger with her mother and bring her home on Sun nights..so that she can go paktor with her hubby and shop. Weekday night, my MIL is there to help her.
I always tell my hubby that's she's a Parttime mother. Which is quite true, even part time worker clocks more hours than her.

Actually I do admit that I'm plain jeolous of it. I dont have my own time to do this and that, Day or night, I am in a war zone with E when he doesnt sleep. My house is in a total mess everyday and I hv to spent my sleeping hours to tidy up the house... and mind u I dont have a single soul to help out. My hubby works on shift and when he comes home he simply K.O, I rather he spend time if he have with Emerson.

What sparkle me to write this post is because:

1) I recently took up driving and sometimes need my MIL help to come over to look after E for 2-3 hrs, but she will keep calling me and say she wanna go home coz she afraid that the infant care teacher (SIL 4's baby) will call home to look for her or hv to fetch her at 7pm. etc etc.. its all abt her!

2) Her 4d didnt strike (2nd prze) and she blamed it on us. (Cak Sim) She bought our unit number and in the end its our neighbour's number that opened. She was the one who ask us not to get the number because it has a "4" in it. My BIL4 also bought our number, she says if my BIL strike she will at least have another 2k from him. I'm quite pissed, you dotn put the blame on me because u didnt strike... U aer hard up for $, I am also loh!
 
halo mummies
aiyo..me damn stressed manz..
still struggling with spring cleaning...hahahaa....just started to clean windows only....and i hate it...hehehe...then suddenly very stress loh..cos like never ending stuff to do..hb last nite scrubbed the kitchen floor till 1am...then havent clean kitchen cabinet..havent change bedsheets...the floor havent clean..i only managed to clear my box...and isaac's toys...pengz!!!1
 
i mean clear my bags into boxes...hahahaa..
think will put everything into one room and close the door..wahahaha
 
Good morning ladies

May
Me still have problem with hair loss,used different kind shampoo also no use,

for CNY spring cleaning ,my FIL and HB did clean everything I just help him to clean up the furniture and mop the floor.MIL , I have not chance to see her,before I knew my HB she already pass away, thanks god my FIL is such a good father,he take care everything in the house,like shopping groceries,during confinement he is the one who cook my food ,help me to look after BB,buy my breakfast everyday,etc
 
CNY spring cleaning. hehe.. hubby n i only have his bedroom to clear. we changed bedsheets last nite! other than that... dun really do bah.. cos not our own place, n there's mil's maid there. so funny if we do also.

heng i dun have my own place.. hahaa.. i dunwan to clean up.. sure very stress..
 
PM, relac abit.. cool down. I just very puzzled. u so busy already, u still go learn driving.. u very hard on urself. i was like u also.. everything wanna do.. like superwoman.. + i hav to work. very hard on myself till will quarrel wif husband and break down. i felt like i'm a lousy wife if the hse is messy,if the clothes dun dry on time, if my husband dun hav warm dinner on the table. and if bb cry, i am a lousy mom, cos i forget to do this or that for him.
however i come to realise i am really not a super woman. its ok if the hse is abit messy cos to tend to the small one is more impt. clothes cannot wash n dry on time, won;t cause much harm also. let it be, take it easy.. by not being so hard on myself, i can enjoy my bb better.

try to slow down abit and enjoy the whole process. if not u very xin ku leh. everything u must handle.
 
dsii,
no wonder long time never see u log in also

me dun bother abt spring cleaning already since nobody coming to my place, dun want to give myself additional stress

PM
seems like both of us have another thing in common again...complaints abt our MIL n SIL!! haha!

zita,
u veri 'garang'...i wont dare to scold my ILs...

sandy,
i dun stay with parents n ILs all these while, we have been on our own BUT my SIL recently moved to stay with us so im SUPER SIAN n i cant say no cos she's my hb's sis so bo bian

wendy,
u have a nice FIL
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ha ha ha, My husband and I have been so swamped that we (actually me) only started spring cleaning this week....we intend to cheat and hide all the stuff into the study room and forbid visitors from entering there...so I only need to clean up the living room and bedroom : )
 
heng.. i hav part time maid to help me every week. hse always been maintain by her . but this week she not coming
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so i hav to vaccum and mop the hse, and touch up here and there. oh no must iron the clothes too. will be a busy sat. can only do all these tmr, cos of work. hmm, actually i also very last minute.
 
OC,
your SIL is older than your HB or younger ??

Mummies,
I told my HB off for agreeing to stay over night at his parent house. He still insist.. I mean AMK and Bishan so near. Right from customary till now, we never stay there at all. My father is asking me to make BB fussy and cranky so that i can have reason to summon my father to drive us home... HEHE
 
sigh... yeah spring cleaning not easy when we have to look after bb. last night/morning spent ironing clothes... like neverending one n mostly my hb clothes. i slept only when my hb wakes up to go work. only sleep for few hrs n gotta wake to take care of Caitz. now super zombie, n still got so much to clean up. hb didnt help cus he came home n KO.

As for staying over at ILs place, its a big NO NO. too troublesome. i can't imagine... going out already like planning some picnic, stay over like moving everything back. moreover we so comfortable at our own home. can do whatever we want. besides i always say Caitz likes her home ground haha
 
hong and PM - Thanks! Garrick is much better now. Thankfully, I took up 1st Aid course...cold compression! We will be going off today.

Here's wishing you all Kong Hei Fatt Choy!!!
May the year of the pig bring you all that you wish for!!!
 
Aquaducks Swim Class - Free Trial
Who's interested? Am waiting for dates and times from them. I've requested for Suntec City venue.
 
Staying over we did not,cuz my FIL stay with us,my SIL both already have their own hse

today I really wake up so early 6am cuz have to help my FIL to market buying things for reunion diner tonight,every year we had reunion diner earlier,cuz on the new year eve my SIL will have their programs
 
Sandy,
She's my HB's younger sis, going thru separation with her HB so moved out of her IL's hse already. She went back 'niang jia' but MIL already rented out her old bedroom ever since she married out so she has nowhere to stay lor.

Have been trying to tell myself to be accmodating to others...but it's not easy lor. She leaves her cups lying around after drinking (actually my HB's whole family is like dat, dats why complain to my HB no use) n it didnt help when she just use my master bathroom like her own without even asking. Im ok with dat cos my common toilet in kitchen is more for d dogs but i would appreciate if she could at least just tell me she needs to use my master bathroom lor....haiz...complaints n more complaints
 
Zoe,
I heard from 1 of the swimming instructor i knew that Aquaduck don't have certification in teaching infant. That what he told me so u better check cos i actually intended to go also..

OC,
That sound like my HB too but he is well trained at my house already. I think they rely too much on your MIL since young to wash and clean up for them.
 
Sandy,
what's the reason for wanting you guys to staying over night? hmm. if the parents n ur hubby really care for welfare of baby, they would understand that it's best for your baby to sleep in his own bed what. n it would really be ALOT of trouble for u to bring stuff to and fro.. milk bottles? towels for bb? extra diapers? sleepwear? where is bb going to sleep? bath tub? food? all clothes? toys? pillows? how about your own stuff, make up? clothes? jewellery? shoes? ...


Zoe... Aquaducks! I'm keen!!! =) Let me know when u have the date n time.. weekend hopefully.
 
Sandy,
D thing is my MIL also like dat why she stayed over at my place during my confinement...no choice lah they all come from same factory...

I try to train my HB but sometimes he will say, "i will wash later lah, it's my own hse leh, can dun restrict me so much or not?" So i diam diam already, but i gotta tell him his sis not leaving in her own hse anymore, it's my hse also so pls give d owner some respect!!
 
Sandy
I'm not too concerned about that. There's not much infants can actually learn skill-wise. It's water confidence more than anything else they'll be mastering at this stage. A parent has to be with the bb throughout the session so I'm not fussed. But other mummies who are, please take note of Sandy's post and decide accordingly.
 
Zoe...cool aqua class, count me in : )

Disiitan...i like your idea,pack all stuff n dump into the room : )

I still need to work today n is moodless : ( but my hubby AL today, so i wrote him a to-do list to pack the hse, i tink can occupy him for the day..hahaha...i dont have time to do at all last few weeks

sandy..stay overnite...yr baby can get use meh? sometime not easy for our precious to adapt to new enviroment leh
 
yayyy... my mum's maid is here to help!!!!! save me so much trouble... so happy esp when Caitz wants me to carry her n watch her tv programme....
 
Hi PM, your hubby's comments about tweety bird really got me laughing!!

Wendy,
actually i started using this biotin shampoo which is organic from Nature's Farm. It helps in hair loss and my condition improved a lot after using. Mebbe u can consider.

Fruitee,

U looking for part-time maid. I have a reliable one for years and she only do selected punggol, sengkang and hougang areas on weekdays. You may want to PM me if you are interested.
 
OC,

My hb side oso likes to leave their cups lying around after drinking waiting for , then i complain to my hb... ur mum never teach u meh...

part-time helper: normally my pt helper comes on sun, then last friday she called me 2 tell me she can't come on sun cos she wanna accompany her mil to buy things ask me if can come on sat... but i told her i'm not at home cos morning gg to collect passport then pm go to the gathering so cannot, i tell her to negotiate w her mil see can go afternoon since she on come in the morning for 3hrs... then she js hang up my call... nvr mind... then i called her on sat ask her if she's coming, she said she told me she's not coming ANYMORE, she has already told agent to look for another helper for me... i was so angry that i said she's so irresponsible... my hb said pt helper is like that one, dun expect too much... now I'm left w no helper... doing everything on my own...

so spring cleaning, luckily the house is till quite new (2yrs) & I always pick here n there so still manageable... only storeroom got alot of unused boxes where supposed to be the electrical appliances... wondering shld i throw away the empty boxes... will there be a day i would keep the items inside again...
 
Hello Mummies

<font color="ff6000">Happy Chinese New Year!</font>

Haven't been online for a while, busy trying to clear work and doing handing over. I'll be joining the rest of the SAHMs in March. SAHMs, must pass me your tips ok?
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Hi mummies,
Here wishing all Happy Chinese New Year and Gong Xi Fa Chai..

Pram,
My boy love to sit on it lo! hee

Hair loss,
Try apply hair tonic...

When i did rebonding few months ago, my hairstylish ask me to apply hair tonic when i told her i loss hairs after gave birth to my boy.

Seem work to me cos can see my hairs growing out now and hair loss not tat serious anymore..
 
Dsii,
No wonder didn't c u online these few days...

My gal made me so angry lor...after all the spring cleaning, she pee in my bed today...sigh...then have to change my bedsheets again.
 
Hello mummies, me and hubby also busy with spring cleaning... actually, he is the one who did most of the stuff. I very slow and lazy :p

Will be going over to in law's place for reunion dinner tonight. Tomorrow, it will be at my grandma's place (big family gathering).

Poppy, welcome to SAHM club! What made you want to quit? Kaedi looks so cheerful in the pic.

YB, aiyoh... hope she didn't wet your mattress.

Zoe, I'm interested in the swim trial.
 
Poppy
Kaedi is soooooooooo cute!!!! Grow up to be a pretty & cutie girl!
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May
Just sent u a PM, thanks! My part time maid got other commitments so gonna look for one good one liao... Thanks so much!
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HI Poppy,

Kaedi is soooo beautiful...she has this very oriental look that is very pleasing to the eyes..u know waht i mean? sorry dunno how to describe properly. Yes, which photographer u went to? Wow...u very brave going to be a SAHM soon. I rem both of us had the same gynae :))
 
I took it at The Studio Loft. I'll need to go back again to take more coz she was crying coz she knocked her head during the shoot then she fell asleep.

It's a bold step to join the SAHMs, took me a long time before i came to this decision.
 
may,

Yup, Lisa Chin. You still go back to her?

Kaedi looks like a boy. Even when I dress her in pink, those people will come up to her and say Xiao Di Di or Boy Boy...:S
 
hi gals!!!
Happy CNY in advance.

spring cleaning - I also use PT maid.
so tat's one load off! :p

Trial class - I also aiming for the following after CNY (mostly from march)
1) Kindermusic
2) swim trial - Aquaducks & Marsden.
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zoe - keep me inform of the dates available for Aquaducks.
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Ya.. I shall tell my HB tonight regard to staying at my ILs house. So many things to bring plus a doggy to bring along too..

Eeyore,
did u flaten the box ?? I am keeping my BB toy box by flatening it so that if next time want to sell or giving away it will look like new....Save alot of space , use plastic to wrap too so that box will nt go dusty...
 
Hi Poppy,

Yes, I went back to her for check-up two mths back and did the pap smear. I have always had mixed feelings abt her though..Hehhee..so if I have 2nd kid next time, may or maynot go back to her lah..though I know I will be in gd hands if under her. So contradictory rite?
 


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