hi stephie
hmm my MIL tells me to buy the fish at the tail part. no bones. the mommies here already advised that! =)
hi folic, YX
no leh iggy never try the rocking thing. too many kids that time occupying it.
YX seems to be getting chubbier hor?
hi omg
sigh we succumbed to buying the sit walker. coz it's really heart breaking to see my MIL bend over supporting iggy. the problem with iggy is, he ALWAYS wants to be on his feet, and he doesn't walk, he RUNS. so his feet goes before his head, then always slanted instead of standing up straight coz my MIL can't keep up.
the gd news is, since iggy learnt how to "walk" before being put in the walker, he still "stands" and walks instead of sitting in the walker and pushing himself with his feet. in fact, he holds the "handle bars" on the walker, pretends to "lift" it up (like we wld lift a skirt) and walk. hahahaha
now he's really ALL OVER THE PLACE! (and ouch for our toes!)
for the stuff on child psychology, i learnt it from my course textbooks. mainly on child psychologists like Margaret Mahler, Eric Erikson. erm, u can try searching for them on the web i guess?
i also not sure if shouting at babies will help. i know it will intimidate them, and they'll probably not do it in future due to fear... i guess i'm more of trying to get them not to do it coz they know we disapprove and in future when they can understand logic, get them to understand why we say not to do it. BUT i guess if it's something really dangerous and really NO NO, fear shld be ok for now? as long as they are secure, loved, and well adjusted babies, this should not be a problem, because they will be better equiped to deal with a wider range of emotions that they feel. it's the insecure babies that cannot/dunno how to handle strange/new/foreign emotions that end up mentally scarred.
hi babygrace
hahaha at least u only dilemma on Grade A Employee or Grade A Mommy. i think i'm an over achiever. i want to be a GRADE A EVERYTHING (wife, mom, employee, friend, daughter, daughter-in-law, sibling, you name it u got it). hahahaha BUT u're right. it's tough when so many different factors are pulling u in so many directions. it's especially tough when u can't bring work out of the office. for me, i leave earlier, but work after ignatius is alseep. *pat pat* u're in my prayers. =)
hi phantom
lucky woman! now u got potential house husband. all u need is a helmet for C. My hubby has been looking for one. the closest thing we found so far is an oversized Jimmy Neutron foam wig that we found at Toys R Us during Halloween dat came down to below iggy's eyes. hmmm will let u know if we find one.