jan,
yr case is the same as mine. my son has been giving in to his meimei who is headstrong and demanding. But yet both are still very close and my boy also plead with me when i scold the younger one. As for the cane, i do have one at home, but more for display. I usually have 4 levels of discipline which starts with a stare (lvl 1) when they try to be funny and if stare doesnt work, i will scold (lvl 2) and if that doesnt work, then taking away their privileges will come in (lvl 3) and if that still doesnt work, i wl use my bare hands to hit their hands or legs or make them stand by the wall for a while and will ignore them until they really repent! usually i have no prob with my son, he shd stop his nonsense at lvl 1 and the max lvl 2 but my daughter is the headache one.....*shake head*
btw mummies, how's yr kids 1st day of sch? its my dd 1st day in nursery and she was very excited and kancheong. just hope that she wont give prob to teacher.....