baby_glendon
New Member
Hi mummies,
I am facing a prob here n wish to seek some advice or suggestion from experience mummies out there. I am currently pregnant with my 2rd child (currently onli 3mth plus), i notice my 1st child (2yrs old) get clingy nwsaday, he is afraid of being alone n alway wanted me to by his side, n he tend to cling on me alot, he want me to be by his side most of the time n will lie on my lap, hug me fr behind n etc... he is used to be an independent boy n very obedient boy who can stay alone in his room n play his toy n watch his VCD while i do my own stuffs. I heard that some kids are very sensitive when their mother is pregnant, n tend to be clingy, i wonder is that the cause.
I get very irritated by this as i cant do anything except sitting near him. He will keep looking for me n pull me to his room to accomoany him, if not he will start to cry. This week is the worst he is sick, the situtation is worse, he will cry over little things, i started to lose my patient n keep scolding him. I duno what to do.
Any mummies out there have this prob when you pregnant with the next one, n hw u solve the prob. I keep telling him i love him even when didi or meimei is born, i say he is obiedient n i love him for that but... end up everything good turn to bad, his behaviour getting out of my limit.
I am facing a prob here n wish to seek some advice or suggestion from experience mummies out there. I am currently pregnant with my 2rd child (currently onli 3mth plus), i notice my 1st child (2yrs old) get clingy nwsaday, he is afraid of being alone n alway wanted me to by his side, n he tend to cling on me alot, he want me to be by his side most of the time n will lie on my lap, hug me fr behind n etc... he is used to be an independent boy n very obedient boy who can stay alone in his room n play his toy n watch his VCD while i do my own stuffs. I heard that some kids are very sensitive when their mother is pregnant, n tend to be clingy, i wonder is that the cause.
I get very irritated by this as i cant do anything except sitting near him. He will keep looking for me n pull me to his room to accomoany him, if not he will start to cry. This week is the worst he is sick, the situtation is worse, he will cry over little things, i started to lose my patient n keep scolding him. I duno what to do.
Any mummies out there have this prob when you pregnant with the next one, n hw u solve the prob. I keep telling him i love him even when didi or meimei is born, i say he is obiedient n i love him for that but... end up everything good turn to bad, his behaviour getting out of my limit.