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    Maintenance amount

    Hi all, the usual practice in divorce cases is that the parent without the care & control has to pay for the child maintenance right? I would like to know how to derive at the amount to be paid as child maintenance? In the event where there is a dispute with the amount, what can be done?
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    Support Group - Endometriosis and Fibroids.

    Hi Ladies, I am not sure if I am suffering from fibroids or cycsts, however I keep having brown/pink discharge (not my period) on and off. The last time I checked, the dr at KKH said I have thick uterus lining. Hence I wish to seek for a second opinion. Would like to ask if anyone can recommend...
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    Any good gynae to recommend for women problem?

    Hi all, I need some recommendations for gynae (of reasonable charges) with regards to my erratic menses cycle (abnormal bleeding between cycles). Thanks in advance!
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    Lawyer recommendation

    Hi all, I am looking for a good/strong female lawyer for divorce at a reasonable cost. Preferably one that provides free first time consultation. Does anyone has one to recommend? Thanks in advance! :)
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    perhaps my marriage is beyond salvation..

    Hi All, I am actually typing this with a heavy heart. This is not the first thread I have created about my marriage situation. I am just so damn tired of the vicious cycle but fear taking the step to file for the big D. I am just SO stuck and do not have any close friends whom I can confide in...
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    How do you communicate with your hubby?

    sounds abit like my case. now we are actually planning to file for divorce since the marriage is not working out. We are not communicating except for child's matters. There is zero common topics in the first place. We don't live together (which is even worse). We quarrel almost everyday. All...
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    Lunch kakis!

    Any mummies working at Buona vista? Looking for lunch kakis! feel free to pm me!
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    Lost and depressed about my marriage

    Hi all, thank you for the replies. @tiggerpooh, we usually quarrel over money matters. @Ziliang , yes honestly, I did thought of having clean cut, in terms of giving up everything. But I can't bear to give up my son, so I still hang on. @Beanie Peeps, we still can't find a "way" to talk...
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    Lost and depressed about my marriage

    Hi mummies, I don't know who can I turn to but to seek some advices here. I am very very tired about my marriage and seeing counselors (we have tried 3 different counselors so far) don't help much. In fact I think there's nothing much that counselors can do, what they usually advice are too...
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    MOTHER-IN-LAW PROBLEMS

    Omg, I am so glad to have stumbled upon this thread! I soooo wanna rant! :mad: I have already shifted out from my in-laws' place 6 months ago. Really can't stand living with them. My new flat would only be ready in 2019, even the earliest may be 2018 (last quarter). Admittedly, my marriage is...
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    Separation and some advises needed

    The stalking of whatsapp is only part of our problems. The major issue is our character clash. Neither of us is willing to give in. The stalking part is invading my privacy in a way. I can't chat with my friends 'in peace', he will come interrogate me. No space to breath. Its creepy to have...
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    Separation and some advises needed

    Hmm, then what about the BTO flat? to cancel or not?....dilemma
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    Separation and some advises needed

    Hi all, Just an update. Went over to my in laws' yesterday to visit my son. The hub was there as well. Everything was normal till I started to talk to him about separation deed and flat cancellation. I was firm to go get things done ASAP. Initially he was still okay to going ahead to separate...
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    Separation and some advises needed

    Are you living with in laws or you have a flat? I guess for me, living with in laws make things worse, I feel much better now away from them. Hmm, a bit pointless to stay in a marriage without affection right? Why not you initiate the topic on divorce first? Maybe he is waiting for you to broach...
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    Separation and some advises needed

    Yep. I am trying to schedule an appt to seek legal advise from legal clinics
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    Separation and some advises needed

    Hi, I can't carry a proper conversation with him anymore. It would bound to lead to an arguement as he is the arguementative sort. He stalks my whatsapp status when I'm at work or outside. We are living separately now by the way. Can you imagine someone on 'standby' mode keep checking on...
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    Separation and some advises needed

    I think its very hard to reconcile. Whenever we decide to reconcile, things start to happen again. Like a few days back, he kept stalking me on WhatsApp, whenever he sees me online he will ask me who am I chatting with and even to ask me screenshot my WhatsApp conversation to him. I can't take...
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    Separation and some advises needed

    Hi all, My hub and I have decided to separate. My son has just turned 1 year old and we still have a BTO flat that will be completed in 2019, but I guess we have to forfeit that. We fight and quarrel almost on a daily basis. Have seen 2 different marriage counsellors but it didn't helped much...
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    Please advise, I am lost...

    Hi thanks for the replies. Just to update, my hub is rather firm on the divorce. Just wanna check can joint custody takes place when care & control lies solely on one party?
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    When Do You Walk Away?

    any kids invloved? I am also facing the same situation now. Plus I have a young baby

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