Recent content by s33856

hi b2b3m4, i'm not changing my PHIL maid, as currently I still find her OK (never know how they change after 6-month). on top of my PHIL maid, we want to get a 2nd maid (prefer INDO, as hubby afraid 2 PHIL maids will boycott us) to specially look after my girl (day-night as I'm a FTWM). so...

hi mommies, can i check mommies with PHIL maids, what do they usually have for BF, lunch and dinner. as I cook porridge, our PHIL maid rejected it, and BF we have bread, she also rejected it. I heard PHIL only take rice for all meals?

hi mommies, can I seek advice from you? background: family of 4, hubby, me, 8-year son (pm school) and 5-month daughter. situation: new ex-phil maid just started work (1 week). helps in house chores and attending to my boy (eg.: preparing him to school). efficient maid with lots of...

hi, as i'm sending my maid back home (not end of contract), i realise she has a packet of green beans and a packet of "gula melaka". will it "DO ANY HARM" to us? i dare not ask her, as i do not want to hear any bad stuffs from her. any mommies know about this? thanks

Hi jo n mommies, Thks 4 t reply. As baby on bottle n pacifier, baby does not want 2 latch on anymore. So, dissappointing :-( I suppose hv 2 keep pumping n supplement w FM. Does mensus causes low supply?

hi mommies, pls share your experience here. i've been TBF baby with morning express (6-hr with 300ml) and night latching. as need to go back to work, i'm on total express plus work stress, every pump (4-hr) was only 80ml. tremendous drop! any mommies have the same experience as me? and...

hi.. just a quick check with BF mummies, does taking crabs cause any allery to one N half months baby? just took (a lot) yesterday N realise I'm BF baby:-(

i'm very particular with hygiene. when my maid told me she wants to keep long hair, i said OK, you can go back to agent and talk to them. she kept quiet, and the very next day I took her to cut her hair-SHORT! now, i sent her to cut hair every 3-month. she can only keep till below ear. i can't...

patsy, that's what i thought. my 1st maid has 2 kids, and when she look after my boy, she always home sick and cry (every night, like house haunted). plus the hubby always called and the kids do not want to talk to her, she even more sad!. after 1 1/2 year, pretended sick and wants to go home...

eileen, suzie, can't give up my job, not that i need my pay to support my family, its just that i know i'm not the SAHM. i will go crazy staying at home! my current maid, i already tahan for 1 year, like you said, kuai kuai, at least can get things done with a few hiccups. when my maids...

eileen, to me forgetful never mind, as long you make the mistakes once and the next time you don't do it again. but my maid must tell many many times, still same actions, until have to threaten her either cut her pay or sent her back, then can see some improvement. then again, after a few days...

ha ya! boiling inside with my maid. always have to nagged at her. 23-year still no brain. this morning my boy asked her to play push car (car made from lego blocks) that we as a family made, and on display shelves. my maid took it down and played with him. see, no brain! so, what happend...

can't blame my maid as she's still single, so wants to look good. if she wants to go diet, nothing i can do. but as least when i ASKED her to get a hair cut, she still obediently do so. so her hair is still short (below ear). not bad ah? my current maid don't know for $, as she told me she's...

Rainbow, thanks for the advise. I don't really nag at her (waste my time&energy). I just don't want her to faint or fall sick, then she's giving me more trouble than help. so far, she only skip breadkfast, but her lunch and dinner is pack with rice and delicious dishes (what we have, she has a...

maids here like to diet ah? when i had my maid, she ate like nobodys business. the rice she scoop like himalaya and ate 3 full meals and snacks in between. after 4-5 months, she balloons till the clothes she brought can't wear. everyone told her she puts on weight, now, goes on diet. NO...