Recent content by Cindize

I left such a person. My son deserves to see what a happy family really is rather than an "only on the surface" family. I don't want him growing up thinking that's how a woman should be treated or that marriage is loveless so I made the decision to leave and hopefully meet someone who can give...

A chronic liar is also someone we should all stay far far away from.

He says he needs to work hard to earn money and gives every possible excuse why he can't help out taking care of the baby that much or giving me attention and time as he needs to go out and work. Yet stays up late playing computer games and can't get up early the next morning. Everyday waking...

We are in same boat but mine has a lot more crap. The wolf in sheep clothing such a guy. Does a lot of crap behind my back and think I don't know but yet scold me for thinking too much and being insecure. I wonder how he sleeps at night. Then again I think he has no conscience.

I don't see how that's love for you too? But I can understand how you feel. Baby is two people responsibility to look after and when only one bears the taking care, it's really tiring. It's better to find someone who is responsible and will play their part or be alone.

Yes that's the joke of the century to be honest. Until today I don't understand how to accomplish that feat? He lies and I have caught him and he gets really angry and say that I have no trust for him. No trust that I have to find out and investigate. I told him if I look He has openly told me...

I am happy that he likes our baby boy but I will not force him to stay with someone he is miserable with. But I can identify with you. If I were to introduce someone new into my life, he has to love my son too. That's very important. Did you just give birth? Men take about few years to be...

His reason for unhappiness is that I focus too much on the child and not him, he feels I don't trust him (even though he has lied many times and says he will continuing lying), he doesn't feel appreciated and there's no engagement. Don't know whether he is cheating on me and I sure as hell don't...

I have clarity how my husband feels about me.

Hello :) nice to meet you. Im also keen to know more friends.

All men end up same might be true, maybe more so most men but I sure as hell don't want to end up with one with a chronic addiction to porn. It makes my decision a 60% easier.

You said it right! Why do we need unappreciative porn suckers in our lives! All they need is their porn and over inflated egos! We are better off with someone who chooses us over porn!

Perhaps her husband has a different language of love. Many sleep with their wives and all but don't help with house work nor even cook ever for their wives. Just abusive and selfish. I guess every family has their own problems.

Start work and at the same time keep a look out for other opportunities. That would help you to remain current and employable. If you quit before finding a job sometimes it might spiral into being jobless for an extended period of time. Like some have advised to work but don't "piah". Just do...

Just be really firm with what you want for your kids. I used to be very soft and relenting but I realize that I'm all my boy has in this world to protect him from everything and I grew stronger because of that. I'm working hard on my career so I be stable financially and make sure I have a say...