Tsf, your hubby probably doesn't know how to comfort u and he himself is feeling sad too. Maybe give him sometime to grieve. In fact for men, their ego takes a harder beating than women when they have fertility issues. Like some sisters said, u need to have an alternative plan and even when is the time to stop. I used to cry when I think that I will not have any children & worst if hubby leaves before me since he is much older, I will lead a lonely old life. But hey, I realise that the reason why I married my husband is not purely to have kids only (although it will be perfect if we can have). We are together because of the love for each other.I hope what u say is correct... Probably can't accept this ego and shutting down. To me, it's more of avoiding the problem rather than facing it and have the courage and faith to try again... I was upset for days myself but am slowly overcoming it... I admire ur determination in trying for a child and what's good is tat ur husband is supportive.
Take some time out and maybe go for a short trip together. Don't be angry with him for not showing his concern. It is easier said than done. But if u realise, when u are upset with him, he can sense it & vice versa. Will end up a vicious cycle of unhappiness.
Sorry if I sound very naggy as I have gone through what u have gone through and manage to walk out of it.
It's not easy in an ivf cycle and especially when it fails. Jia you k? There are certain things that you can talk to the sisters here. We are all in the same boat!
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