Any kind souls can advise?

[rilaaa]

Hi all..

During Jan end i found out i was pregnant when i went for check up at DSC clinic.
Me and my long time bf of ten years told his parents and they agreed to rush our wedding to be on end march this year before the baby bump appear.

Everything was smooth till few days ago. I started bleeding lightly. like last few days of period that amount. I wasn't worried because it was light. Till few days ago( since cny day 2) i started to bleed more. For yesterday and today, i changed one pad daily. theres alot of blood clot.. small sticky amount for day time, but this morning when i woke up, the first pee of the day, big lumps of blood clots came out.(maybe 2 or 3, just like usual period days) I am very worried as i googled this and they are signs of miscarriage.. Is this normal? i really hope my baby is safe and sound still.. Yesterday night i tested two pregnancy test kits and they are still showing positive result.

My issue is that, ever since my last visit from dsc clinic during jan end. they said they will give me referral letter and get ready my blood test and test results to give to KKH. My next appt is scheduled to be in this fri 27 feb. Today is only monday.. i am afraid that if i don't follow up on my bleeding issue, it may cause harm to my baby. However, i called DSC clinic to ask if i can collect the documents earlier to go KKh to see a gynae, they said they haven't received the letter yet as no reply from KKH side. The person said she will mark it as important and remind her colleague again. I am worried to delay.. but as i just lost my job last year feb, i am in very tight budget and couldn't afford to go to private clinic.. Do any one have any ideas that if i go to polyclinic tomorrow, how fast can i get my referral letter and go to KKH?

Til now i don't have any idea how many weeks my baby is. When i asked DSC clinic doctor, they counted from my last period date. which is quite inaccurate i guess..

 

[hippo78]

Hi girl, the first appt should be 6-7 weeks to detect the baby heartbeat.
But I advise you to go to any gynae right now, since your condition seems very unstable. Don't wait until 27-Feb.
Bleeding during pregnancy is no laughing matter.
The gynae will give you progestrone jab and perhaps duphaston pills to stablise your condition first.

Even though KKH is cheaper, but the waiting time is a killer.

 

[sermeiren86]

You can go KKH O&G. It's 24 hours and it operates like A&E.

 

[toblerone]

During Jan end i found out i was pregnant when i went for check up at DSC clinic.
Me and my long time bf of ten years told his parents and they agreed to rush our wedding to be on end march this year before the baby bump appear.

拖了10年。原来是奉子成婚。不然，也不会赶着完婚。

Everything was smooth till few days ago. I started bleeding lightly. like last few days of period that amount. I wasn't worried because it was light. Till few days ago( since cny day 2) i started to bleed more. For yesterday and today, i changed one pad daily. theres alot of blood clot.. small sticky amount for day time, but this morning when i woke up, the first pee of the day, big lumps of blood clots came out.(maybe 2 or 3, just like usual period days) I am very worried as i googled this and they are signs of miscarriage.. Is this normal? i really hope my baby is safe and sound still.. Yesterday night i tested two pregnancy test kits and they are still showing positive result.

My issue is that, ever since my last visit from dsc clinic during jan end. they said they will give me referral letter and get ready my blood test and test results to give to KKH. My next appt is scheduled to be in this fri 27 feb. Today is only monday.. i am afraid that if i don't follow up on my bleeding issue, it may cause harm to my baby. However, i called DSC clinic to ask if i can collect the documents earlier to go KKh to see a gynae, they said they haven't received the letter yet as no reply from KKH side. The person said she will mark it as important and remind her colleague again. I am worried to delay.. but as i just lost my job last year feb, i am in very tight budget and couldn't afford to go to private clinic.. Do any one have any ideas that if i go to polyclinic tomorrow, how fast can i get my referral letter and go to KKH?

你目前是未婚，老师给你分析现在的情况。

Issue 1
三条路
(1) Try polyclinic and get referral letter. It save money with referral letter.
(2) If emergency, 就不要管了。直接去KKH。钱的方面，怎么说，你的未来老公要负责才行。有本事让女朋友怀孕，就应该有本事完全负责才对。
(3) Pray hard nothing will happen. Then, wait for DSC's appointment.

老师看人怀孕、生子、堕胎、流产、夭折、白发人送黑发人，看到不要看了。不论什么宗教，母亲保不保得住胎儿否，全交由上天安排。

Issue 2
There are two sides:
(1) If there is miscarriage, is the marriage going to call off?
or
(2) If there is no miscarriage, that is good. But, what if there is a miscarriage after your customary wedding? What will both families think? 你婆家不满意，你做媳妇的日子难过了。

 

[icekacang]

If I were you, I would go hospital check it out. Baby and you most important.

 

[pixie ng]

price for private clinic and KKH is not that much diff.. maybe 10-20% cheaper for gov...
if i were u, i will just go to the nearest gynae and check it out.. anything happen at least gynae can help you and your baby..

i do a ultrasound + consultation in private clinic is only $50

 

[Shakespeare]

If I were you, I would go hospital check it out. Baby and you most important.

You missed an important sentence of her post.

but as i just lost my job last year feb, i am in very tight budget and couldn't afford to go to private clinic.. Do any one have any ideas that if i go to polyclinic tomorrow, how fast can i get my referral letter and go to KKH?

I believe if threadstarter is as wealthy as you, she will approach first class Gyane.