吃剩饭剩菜。节俭呀!
如果,食物坏了,得扔的。总不能长期吃,害自己中stomach ulcer/cancer, gallstone,到时花钱看病更多。晚上吃5-7分饱就ok,不用煮多。
天天大锅饭菜倒掉,很sayang,会减福报。
小小mini size照片无所谓,大张挂/摆出来不行。挂大大张床头照片,挂久迟早有麻烦。
像这你的种情况,往生了就收起来。要是家婆整天提起她妈妈的事,一直思念她妈妈。那么,老师建议买一本nice album把照片收起来。先征求你家婆的同意,不然她老人家不高兴。谈话有技巧,不能硬来。
倒掉剩饭剩菜、摆照片,相信与不孕无关。放心。
1) 如果要念准提咒,有什么要注意的吗?老师,我有一些问题,希望您可以回答。
1) 如果要念准提咒,有什么要注意的吗?
2) 准提咒可以跟大悲咒或者心经同一天念吗?
3) 如果要买resale flat可是不知道flat的history,我们可以做什么确保搬进去的时候flat是"干净"的?
4) 老师可以pm我reliable师父for naming of baby n calculating c sec timing?
5) 有一些父母会给孩子做diety or guanyin 的godchild因为孩子会比较好带。是真的吗?
6)宝宝满月过后,可以去寺庙或佛堂吗? 或者需要等孩子大一点?if so,几步呢?
Toblerone老大,原来如此,偶小时候就过契给观世音菩萨做干女儿。5) 有一些父母会给孩子做diety or guanyin 的godchild因为孩子会比较好带。是真的吗?
reply: 不完全是这个原因。
老师一般看了孩子岁数有问题(很快夭折/夭寿的那种),会马上建议父母“契”给菩萨/神明,但完全不会跟父母讲真正的原因。这个是老师的作风。呵呵...
只有神明/菩萨可以做主愿意帮父母为baby出头,最后点头的是阎王。Baby/小孩没有契给菩萨神明,时间到点,就来勾魂了。看到为什么小孩突然中dengue/kenna破伤风吗?死得超快。
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不要在外用餐。老师,请问七月时,孕妇晚上出门有什么忌讳?如果一定得出门,能带上什么东西保护宝宝吗?(列如平安符等)?
要超度,赶快想法子。不然,农历七月一过,要等到水陆法会(once in a blue moon)或者,明年清明节。我刚刚流产,需要做哪些事才能准备下次的怀孕?
(I read bits n pieces there, like doing a Chao du for the bb...)
老实说我不是第一次流产了。=(
没有办法。劫数 - 好人坏人统统收回。当我们一出生,就已更靠近死亡。今天读到马航事故,再一次验证生命的无常。死亡已定,死期不定,请诸位好好修福,惜福。加油!! !
谢谢老师。要超度,赶快想法子。不然,农历七月一过,要等到水陆法会(once in a blue moon)或者,明年清明节。
Note:
自然流产和人工流产有差别。
因素很多,说不上来。
其中一种原因,不排除身上有灵性(鬼)。普通人要识别身上有灵性的人,只有靠外观观察。身上有灵性,很难弄掉,原因是与当事人有关。反应举止可以完全正常,但是灵性在身上一呆久就的话,人就会出现异常(可能是精神、疾病)。即使是一般大师级,没有那么容易/本事看得出人的身上是否有灵性。
去寺庙走走,免费充电(净化、消磁、普照)。
人烦躁的时候,求观音菩萨给你小小小小机会让你爬起来。当你快爬起来的时候,不是侥幸是真的应验了。你有靠自己出力,菩萨给你5%。你有靠自己出力又加愿力,菩萨增加extra 10% (total 15%) 。菩萨给人机会是要这个人醒,接下来消业。
处处碰钉子/碰壁跟业有关。Serious的情况,很难翻身的。老师的故事很多,以后慢慢讲给你听。
Thank you lady.For ladies who want to know about the various 法会 at singapore Buddhist lodge (居士林). Currently is 地藏法会,then 药师 and the last one for this year is 释迦法会。View attachment 346687
我还在慢慢读您写的文章呢。穿插命理的疑问了。
‘扫把星’在后来民俗通用。‘扫把星’是带给人的灾、倒霉、或者不好的事。要是一个人常常给人骂‘扫把星’,那么这个人真的要小心了。接触者也会swaay!
‘扫把’给人联想到衰('swaay'in hokkien). 走起衰运,躲不掉。
先讲‘天罗地网关’。‘天罗地网关’- 是由两个神主宰厄运,即是‘天罗大星’以及‘地网煞星’(统称为‘天地双煞’)。犯此煞的人频频出意外。另一种叫‘十恶大败星’,是由十个厄运天星在主宰。很多人会因此而不顺利。每个人都会犯,只是层次不同。要怎么化解,老师不讲。
在命理上,带铁扫命的人不少。带铁扫命的人相当惨,尤其是女性。男人娶了个铁扫命的女人,肯定完蛋了!严重的铁扫命就败家,丈夫赚多少花多少,妻子spend money like water. Wife becomes problematic to husband. 到时候,闹到要离婚,千万不要怪丈夫了。世界上有哪个丈夫受得了妻子爱美、爱花、爱吵、爱闹、爱哭、爱耍脾气、爱唠叨呀?丈夫在外面搞小三,能怪得了谁呢?
Thanks Rubilite =)Now 光明山 also have 超度法会,if you miss it then will have to wait till year end for the 水陆法会。That is if you want to go back to 光明山。
Now 光明山 also have 超度法会,if you miss it then will have to wait till year end for the 水陆法会。That is if you want to go back to 光明山。
Ya lo. Some more for my age (early 30s) i surely got alot such occasions...This year my stepbrother bb full month I also never go.Actually to be honest, it is very hard to avoid 紅白事 sometimes. You will offend friends and relatives by not attending. like for example, ppl invited you to their baby full month and you give a lot of excuses.. they will be offended one.
May I check? Once pregnant, cannot pray to 注生娘娘any more? The last time I went was to the temple at the west with my parents in CNY this year. The 庙祝taught me to pray. I always tear when I thought of the previous babies that are not fated....
I would like to pray again for a smooth pregnancy... Able to so? I read that pregnant lady cannot knee down to pray 注生娘娘... True?
I pray at 四马路观音庙and pray as soon as I know I am pregnant and was kneeling down... Now very worry whether I shan't?
I always pray there whenever I can since young not very frequently but whenever I can or pass by.
Have lost 2 already... This is really a precious chance but my heart keep having negative thoughts and my hubby got frustrated with me already after sharing with him how I felt... His whole family don't believe in fengshui and gods. They only pray to ancestors tablet at home. They are free thinker. While my family is the total opposite, my father keep running ard helping me to pray and such. I see my parents worry and running ard so heart pain while Hubby's parent just let it be...
Parents-in-law has 2 grand daughters from my hubby's elder sister. The sister married the same year as Us 2 years ago. In a short 3-4 months difference.
Toblerone, pardon me if i sound dumb but apparently if I used to burn offerings during the 7th lunar mth I shld continue to do so. I used to burn it with my mom , is it ok that i do it again this yr when I am pregnant?
Toblerone, pardon me if i sound dumb but apparently if I used to burn offerings during the 7th lunar mth I shld continue to do so. I used to burn it with my mom , is it ok that i do it again this yr when I am pregnant?
May I check? Once pregnant, cannot pray to 注生娘娘any more? The last time I went was to the temple at the west with my parents in CNY this year. The 庙祝taught me to pray. I always tear when I thought of the previous babies that are not fated....
I would like to pray again for a smooth pregnancy... Able to so? I read that pregnant lady cannot knee down to pray 注生娘娘... True?
I pray at 四马路观音庙and pray as soon as I know I am pregnant and was kneeling down... Now very worry whether I shan't?
I always pray there whenever I can since young not very frequently but whenever I can or pass by.
Have lost 2 already... This is really a precious chance but my heart keep having negative thoughts and my hubby got frustrated with me already after sharing with him how I felt... His whole family don't believe in fengshui and gods. They only pray to ancestors tablet at home. They are free thinker. While my family is the total opposite, my father keep running ard helping me to pray and such. I see my parents worry and running ard so heart pain while Hubby's parent just let it be...
Parents-in-law has 2 grand daughters from my hubby's elder sister. The sister married the same year as Us 2 years ago. In a short 3-4 months difference.
Lovienne
Imo, praying to ancestors is very good for family. Your ancestors will surely bless you, don't worry!
Pregnant can still pray to 注生娘娘. Just that when a woman is pregnant, there is a saying she is very noble to carry the baby in her womb for 10 months, so to say pregnant woman is excused to kneel in front of Buddha and God when going to pray at temple.