Hi Mommies,
Thank God both my parents and PIL are not like that. That's why i was truly shocked when my friend relate her family problems to me. I was like " huh, you mean this thing still happen in this society?"
Hi Angeline,
Ya. I still feel angry whenever i recall the incident.
Hi Tamarind,
I understand what you mean. My hubby dotes on my girl alot and i ws thinking if it's a baby boy in the first place, will he be that loving? I think it's a father's nature to protect and care gently for a girl. Maybe with a boy, he would play rough etc.
Anyway there was this incident that i came across that i realise the importance of balancing both dad's and mum's role. We brought our girl for a swim when she was about 1. i was naturally very excited and scared and tend to be overly protective of my girl, watching her and following her very very closely behind her. My hubby was very at ease and take it easily. When i girl almost fell, i scream at my hubby for not being fast enough in his action to catch my girl. But you know what, my girl didin;t cry and continue to play in the pool. There and then i realise i can be overly protective and may in a way hinder my girl's progress......... I let to let go a little.
Thank God both my parents and PIL are not like that. That's why i was truly shocked when my friend relate her family problems to me. I was like " huh, you mean this thing still happen in this society?"
Hi Angeline,
Ya. I still feel angry whenever i recall the incident.
Hi Tamarind,
I understand what you mean. My hubby dotes on my girl alot and i ws thinking if it's a baby boy in the first place, will he be that loving? I think it's a father's nature to protect and care gently for a girl. Maybe with a boy, he would play rough etc.
Anyway there was this incident that i came across that i realise the importance of balancing both dad's and mum's role. We brought our girl for a swim when she was about 1. i was naturally very excited and scared and tend to be overly protective of my girl, watching her and following her very very closely behind her. My hubby was very at ease and take it easily. When i girl almost fell, i scream at my hubby for not being fast enough in his action to catch my girl. But you know what, my girl didin;t cry and continue to play in the pool. There and then i realise i can be overly protective and may in a way hinder my girl's progress......... I let to let go a little.