esther,
yeah, going to toilet takes me ages man, i think i need half an hour in the toilet, before i could "walk" out of the toilet!! oh, my gynae lah, she's very pro for natural birth, as she felt that the recovery is faster and less complicated lah. anyway, mine was emergency c section, cos after induced, and full dilated, still cannot see the head of my boy. My pelvic too small and narrow lah, so after pushing for a while, to try to see if can position him abit, still cannot loh, so kena "cut up" loh.... gynae already told me, for #2 baby, also need to go cut up lah.... hahaha
sometimes if i assert too much strength, yes, can feel abit tingling somewhere around there.