11 weeks pregnant and considering divorce from my spouse.
He always have difficulty sleeping and waking up on time to work. During my pregnancy, he started to develop this habit of playing his mobile games after work till the next morning, claiming that he played coz he couldn’t fall aslp. And he would only wake up past 5pm or sometimes late evenings to go to work. Some days, he felt so tired he wouldn’t even go to work at all. He is a full-time private hire driver and has to pay for his rented car.
I tried ways and means, persuasion, talks, quarrels and he would always promise he will change and stop playing the whole night, only to return to it the next day. Recently, we quarreled again because I had a hard time waking him up repeatedly and ending up losing my temper. I’m feeling sick, nauseous, nervous about the impending derailed scan & blood test, anxious about his work and finances, and yet I had to keep calling him up for work, even when I was napping or when I could sleep in on my days off.
He wouldn’t move a finger when I tell him I’m hungry or am badly craving for a certain food and continue to sleep. I finally lost it and had a huge quarrel with him. Ran out of the house but he didn’t give chase or came out to look for me. A day later, it was the same old pattern again with him snoozing off and me reminding him every half an hour to wake up for work. He got frustrated and upset with my tone and attitude and said he didn’t want to come back home anymore becoz I disrespected him by throwing his pillow on the bedroom floor in anger. Said other pregnant women aren’t like me, keep getting angry and yelling at him, but I only yell when he responds in a negative manner to my constantly waking him up for work.
He is not financially ready and yet isn’t working hard. I’m tired of mothering him. I crave for TLC and patience from my spouse but he only gives it to me on his feel-good days. Hence I’m seriously considering divorce right now.
He always have difficulty sleeping and waking up on time to work. During my pregnancy, he started to develop this habit of playing his mobile games after work till the next morning, claiming that he played coz he couldn’t fall aslp. And he would only wake up past 5pm or sometimes late evenings to go to work. Some days, he felt so tired he wouldn’t even go to work at all. He is a full-time private hire driver and has to pay for his rented car.
I tried ways and means, persuasion, talks, quarrels and he would always promise he will change and stop playing the whole night, only to return to it the next day. Recently, we quarreled again because I had a hard time waking him up repeatedly and ending up losing my temper. I’m feeling sick, nauseous, nervous about the impending derailed scan & blood test, anxious about his work and finances, and yet I had to keep calling him up for work, even when I was napping or when I could sleep in on my days off.
He wouldn’t move a finger when I tell him I’m hungry or am badly craving for a certain food and continue to sleep. I finally lost it and had a huge quarrel with him. Ran out of the house but he didn’t give chase or came out to look for me. A day later, it was the same old pattern again with him snoozing off and me reminding him every half an hour to wake up for work. He got frustrated and upset with my tone and attitude and said he didn’t want to come back home anymore becoz I disrespected him by throwing his pillow on the bedroom floor in anger. Said other pregnant women aren’t like me, keep getting angry and yelling at him, but I only yell when he responds in a negative manner to my constantly waking him up for work.
He is not financially ready and yet isn’t working hard. I’m tired of mothering him. I crave for TLC and patience from my spouse but he only gives it to me on his feel-good days. Hence I’m seriously considering divorce right now.