I will go for 2 egg transfers I/o 1. Even wif 2 also dunno if can make it or not. So why think so much?
Re: ques on what happens to the 2nd embryo.. This is my personal take. If it doesn't implant it gets absorb back into body n pass out during AF. If both gets implant, congrats.. But if mid way 1 of them had an issue, then that's when the complication starts..
This is my story.. I was lucky to have both implanted and happy for 10 wks. 1 of them ( my best guess) has a chromosome issue n passed away.. Now at wk 13, I have 2 sacs ( one growing and the other still at 7 wk size w/o hb). From way I read the other sac shd get absorbed back into body ( Gynae says so too) but thr is also a chance that it may not.
To add to my even more complicated life, initial NT scan shows high possibility of Trisomy 21, and aft a BT that is supposed to work for vanishing twins, Trisomy 21 is ruled out but I have Trisomy13. Which could or could not have came from the vanishing twin.. So now I m waiting in agony for my amnio test..
But I ain't giving up till I get my amnio results.. So to all sisters who are here, don't give up till its definite!!
Re: womb massage. I did this for this cycle as well. And could feel the diff cux I can really feel the warmth from within the tummy.
Re: M/C ( I had one a couple of years ago) I hope none of u need to go thru this.. But if it really happens, pls try to ask for a chromosome test cux it can give you a better idea of urself. My M/C chromosome test came back wif Trisomy 16.. That's y I knew that I have underlying chromosome issue.. This is just to pre-empty urself only n nothing much. Cux even wif underling chromosome issue, I do have a healthy cheeky girl from my 1st cycle..
Re: medication. 1st cycle puregon ( bfp), 2nd cycle menopur (bfn), 3rd cycle I requested for puregon cux I Thot it gives me better luck ( bfp). So imho if 1 medicine dun work for u maybe suggest for another type for 2nd cycle..
Sorry for the long n boring post.. But just wanted to share some thots..
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